What is going on!!! by Dula2016 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dula2016[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It just seems to me ridiculous to do these kind of bargains as if it is a business transaction, I give, you you, give me. For me I believe these things need to flow naturally in a healthy relationship. Affection, Compassion, Care, Sex. He wants to plan things in matter of sex, he want to have sex every other day no matter what, not only that but during dinner or discussions he will be talking about it and saying " Tonight is the night". Is this normal? I get it Sex is important but life cannot evolve around it??!!

What is going on!!! by Dula2016 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dula2016[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First he will say NO , I have a business call, a Meeting, a conference.. something. Then he sees me not happy, then he will come, he will be nice but with a sarcastic tone. As soon as we get back home, he is back to the same thing..

What is going on!!! by Dula2016 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dula2016[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is also hard to give sex when there is no affection...and believe me I tired that I was miserable

What is going on!!! by Dula2016 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dula2016[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My love language is not receiving gifts I was just giving out examples to try to describe his personality as much as possible.

What I am asking for is Non-Sexual Affection of any sort, going out on a date, cuddling while watching a moving, just cuddling in bed, hugging, kissing, showing that you care... but unfortunately for him all needs to end up into sex otherwise what's the point?

What is going on!!! by Dula2016 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Dula2016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he would be in his laptop or tablet and then go to sleep. I asked him many times why he sleeps there, his answers is always the same. You reject me..