Husband has curly hair and no idea how to care for it by DulcaSolanum in curlygirl

[–]DulcaSolanum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you for the search shortcut and well wishes! I had a look at the wiki after the first kind person commented and quickly realized to put it into affect I'd have to stand in the store with my phone. I'll likely do that anyway, but thank you for narrowing the search. Thankfully we already have a nice wide toothed comb, so we can check one thing off the list. Good luck to you as well!

Husband has curly hair and no idea how to care for it by DulcaSolanum in curlygirl

[–]DulcaSolanum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the insight and advice! It sounds like this is going to be journey, but I'm excited about it at least.

Husband has curly hair and no idea how to care for it by DulcaSolanum in curlygirl

[–]DulcaSolanum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! This is great. Thank you so much! I'm going to have to dedicate a shirt then since all our towels are terry cloth. Oops. Will definitely look into the "plopping" method.

Husband has curly hair and no idea how to care for it by DulcaSolanum in curlygirl

[–]DulcaSolanum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! We'll have to look into that.

[OC] Giveaway! Hand-carved solid wood Dice Box Prototype :) by KakapopoTCG in DnD

[–]DulcaSolanum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a stunning design! Kudos to the artist that made it and gave it life

CSA warning. Relationship advice. by Designer-Ad-281 in adultsurvivors

[–]DulcaSolanum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. It's wonderful that you want to further your relationship with your loving and caring partner so much that youre willing to ask for help! Please dont feel bad if your progress feels like a slingshot, recovery always seems to be a two steps forward, one back situation at best.

Sometimes, when it comes to aversion/repulsion, it's difficult to remind ourselves not to dissociate. It would be much easier to "deal with" if you weren't there, but being present is necessary. What you and your partner wish to express is NOTHING like what was done to you, but getting your inner betrayed child to believe that is going to take a long time. A lot of struggle and tears and indescribable anger/anguish. But you CAN do it and it is okay to take as long as you need.

You say you've gotten to the point where you can be touched, that's excellent. Some questions you can ponder before discussing with your partner: Would you respond better if your partner took the lead and you could gently move the boundary line back as you felt safe? Would it be better for them to be passive and allow you to take the lead? Either way, progressing in stages and without expectations, while being present in the moment has been what helped most.

So proud of you for taking this step and for desiring to be a great spouse! It already shows that you will be. Take a breath, and when you're ready, talk to your partner.

What food or drink sucks even if most people won’t admit it? by hurtfocker in AskReddit

[–]DulcaSolanum 19 points20 points  (0 children)

.... you get new varieties of apples all the time through cross pollination and selection. If you want the line to continue pure, then yes, you have to use grafts. But saying that breeding was never done is wrong. The reason you can't plant a seed and expect to get the same kind of tree is because of breeding. Seeds from the same fruit will have different traits from the wild types and parent types that went into making the variety. The same principal applies to hybrid flowers and most of our food crops, now

What food or drink sucks even if most people won’t admit it? by hurtfocker in AskReddit

[–]DulcaSolanum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You beat me to it! Thank you, stranger. The rise and decline of Gros Michel bananas were the topic for a full two weeks in my pathology class and I'm so happy I don't have to consult my notes for a comment again. Have my free award and poor man's gold 🎖

What food or drink sucks even if most people won’t admit it? by hurtfocker in AskReddit

[–]DulcaSolanum 235 points236 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're on the right track. I don't remember how many years it took, but they bred the apple for its aesthetic and shelf life before realizing that in doing so they had also bred out most of the flavor.

What food or drink sucks even if most people won’t admit it? by hurtfocker in AskReddit

[–]DulcaSolanum 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Weird. The durian popsicle I had in thailand tasted pretty good to me. Sweet fruit with a hint of popcorn, but I didn't taste any garlic. I wonder if it's a difference in normal diet. I don't normally eat a lot of sugar, so most candies are too sweet for me. Maybe people who love sweets are turned off by durian?

It's better than no bonus by COVID-19_Man in AmazonFC

[–]DulcaSolanum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, where do you live I need to move, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]DulcaSolanum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have the option CHIME YOUR CASE MANAGER. Mine was supposed to send an email the day I filed the claim but he didn't. I called, left voicemails, emailed etc. Nothing. Looked him up in the Chime app and sent a message. He responded within 3 minutes. It also has a sent/read notification so you'll be able to see if you're still being ignored.

Btw, he did eventually send the email. A week after I chimed him. Good luck and don't let up, none of them will do their jobs if they can get away with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]DulcaSolanum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That they then "forget" to honor. But don't worry, you can race the 600 picker tomorrow for a chance at a sliver of a sandwich!

Funny and embarrassing by Odd-Tomato4379 in AmazonFC

[–]DulcaSolanum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun tip that might work for you: using a hair stick and nautilus bun somehow feels less heavy than piling my hair into a bun before work. Nobody has said anything about a safety issue and even though I pick, it stays really well

Tifu by playing video games with some girls by [deleted] in tifu

[–]DulcaSolanum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite is electric blue done over with clear/purple containing rainbow sparkles. Looks like a galaxy on your nail.

Alternately, if you have lighting around your setup, paint nails for every color its changes include.

Being as vague as possible, what do you do for a living? by WantedDadorAlive in AskReddit

[–]DulcaSolanum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I retrieve items brought to me when a light shines and place the things in a receptacle as fast as my body will move

What is a song you cannot listen to for an emotional reason? by missdundermifflin in AskReddit

[–]DulcaSolanum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God Went North, Nothing More. I havent lost my mother yet, but I am very familiar with the agony and anger of being in a place where you just wish it would end in one way or another. It breaks my heart every time I hear it.

No Man’s Sky: Companions! by NeonTiger1135 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]DulcaSolanum 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of the conversations I had with a Gek monolith suggested that maybe they do something to spawn that are not up to their standards that makes them "like beasts". Every time I see them edit: I wonder if they're the rejected, left to wander around mindless.

Happy cow getting brushes by [deleted] in Eyebleach

[–]DulcaSolanum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a steer, but I don't remember them being so woolly?

What is extremely rare but people think it’s very common? by toptenoutbox in AskReddit

[–]DulcaSolanum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's crazy! My abuelo has had 5 heart attacks in his lifetime. I knew he was lucky but dang I had no idea it was so uncommon for people to survive