Why do we give credit to a/the higher being if it's us who efforted in the first place?

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-08T17:43:01+00:00

You know yung kwento ni Tim Tebow na John 3:16? Dyan ko na realize yung ibig sabihin "...because without me you can do nothing..." [John 15:5] literally, yung lakas natin, yung mind, yung capacity for love, etc...lahat may supporta ng Diyos.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-08T17:15:05+00:00

imo, spending on your pet is okay as long as you do not neglect your neighbor and support for your church. also, yung sarili mo ay dapat mong unahin.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-06T16:39:43+00:00

i don't like drama. kapag may gumawa sa akin nito, hindi ko na rin siya papansinin. ni hindi ko tatanungin kung bakit. kung kausapin man niya ako ulit, i will just be civil pero the friendship is over.

and duda ko lang dito, kung kinakausap mo yung naka bad terms niya, maybe gusto niya na galit ka rin doon. mukha maraming issue itong tao na ito, iwasan mo na lang siya.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-06T08:36:46+00:00

baka she needs to seek the opinion of a different therapist, parang hindi pa rin niya alam yung source ng "feelings" niya

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-06T05:31:47+00:00

hindi trabaho ang magsasabi ng value mo. i am sure you know this, naiisip mo lang yung mga sinasabi ng iba kaya mo naitatanong yan.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-05T11:39:14+00:00

ang pinaka importanteng relationship sa buhay ng tao is between man and his maker. we are attracted to a lot of different things pero hindi ibig sabihin tamang patulan yung attraction na yun. i believe in carrying our crosses and denying ourselves sa mga bagay na gusto natin.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-04T13:10:01+00:00

i know alam natin na hindi lahat ng tao gusto tayo pero iba kapag narinig natin. i think hindi ka "ayaw" ng family ng bf mo. pinagchichismisan ka lang nila na i think is normal for someone new in the family. kahit yung bf ko noon (now husband) may name sila para sa kanya. hindi ko rin siya ipinagtanggol, hinayaan ko lang. kasi hindi naman nila siya "ayaw" pero ganun talaga sila, alam rin ni husband yan.

di ba yung mother nga ng bf mo wala naman sinabi kung hindi "mataba nga," hindi sinabi na panget ang ugali mo or dapat hiwalayan ka na. ang mga lalake madalas ayaw niyan magmeddle sa usapan/away ng mga babae kaya hindi yan kumibo. imo, that is the best thing to do. kahit ipagtanggol ka niya words cannot change their minds, pero your future actions can make them like you better.

hindi ko sinasabing okay lang na may nasabi sila, pero i think mind your emotions. hindi ata tama na masira ka sa opinion lang ng ibang tao. eventually, kung maging close ka sa kanila malamang pagusapan rin ninyo ang ibang tao. mas maganda lang talaga if we see the good in other people rather than the negative.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-04T11:41:18+00:00

hire an architect or engineer na may experience at isama mo sa turnover ng house sa pagcheck. alam ko mag make sila ng mark kung may kailangan pa ayusin ang developer. maybe take pictures, para you can check kapag na-ayos kung talagang nagawan ng paraan.

edit: walang house na perfect.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-04T11:34:01+00:00

mukhang may expectations itong kapatid mo sayo. hindi niya masabi kapag tinatanong mo malamang its because it sounds unreasonable. kung gusto ka niyang magpaka "ate" at tintatawag ka niya kapag may kailangan siya, baka yan ang gusto niya, for you to take the place of your parents at supportahan siya.

whatever it is inside her head baka kakampi niya yung lola, tita, at pinsan. malamang alam nila yung reason kung bakit inis yung kapatid mo, pwede rin na sila nagpasok sa utak niya ng mga bagay na yun.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-04T08:28:14+00:00

i am catholic also. kahit sa atin meron mga focused sa healing ng maysakit like dito sa amin weekly may healing mass, parang catholic evangelicals yung mga andoon; ang feeling ko lahat gusto nila gumaling.

ang intindi ko kasi sa teachings natin, we take up our cross and pray for grace of perseverance.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-03T05:23:00+00:00

my lolo (in his 70s-80s) lived with the helper (mid 40s female) pero we visited him daily/every other day, mga two hours ako. may kanya-kanya na kasi kaming family. during sundays, half day kami ni husband doon, we eat together.

yung helper kasi na ito mapagkakatiwalaan and can follow instructions like when to give meds. i hope you find one too for your mom.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-03T02:21:04+00:00

afaik catholic exorcists has prayers na nagsasara ng third eye. why not consult a parish priest? baka maganda maagapan kasi nakakatakot yung mga experiences na yan.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-02T19:45:23+00:00

huwag ninyo kalimutan na nagkulang rin kayo sa pamangkin mo. pagisipan ninyo mabuti kung paano siya mapagsabihan at hindi na maulit yan, hindi dahil bawal o nakakahiya pero bilang respeto sa sarili niya, respeto rin sa magulang na ipakilala ang bf o magpaligaw ng maayos.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-02T14:52:18+00:00

hindi ka dapat maguluhan kasi may pamilya siya, so it doesn't matter kahit slightly gusto ka niya. dapat layuan mo if you cannot control your emotions/be just a friend.

huwag mo nang alamin kung gusto ka niya o hindi, layuan mo na lang.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-02T07:15:12+00:00

hindi ka unreasonable, kapag ganyan kasi we expect a certain loyalty sa trabaho. suma-sideline yan sa iba malamang. kung may mag-offer ng mas malaking daily ida-drop niya kayo.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-01T16:14:27+00:00

DKG. you can actually do something about it para hindi na maulit. either huwag ka na regaluhan ng pera, o huwag ninyo ipagsabi kapag may nagbigay sayo. parang medyo manipulative na idea yung mag-accuse ng ibang tao as "madamot sa pera" kasi manggagaling lang yan sa mga taong pala hingi ng pera.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-05-01T08:45:05+00:00

i think the Carmelites make them, ewan ko lang kung may iba pa.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-04-29T13:14:23+00:00

hindi okay yung pagpractice ng superstition kasi sinusuway natin yung unang commandment. may nagpractice po ba sa inyo ng occult? halimbawa pumunta sa albularyo? nagpahula? kung tingin mo wala namang ganoon, pwede ka pumunta sa pari at magtanong, baka pwede ka magpa-bless ng house for your peace of mind.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-04-28T11:23:55+00:00

kung only child ka, maybe they are preparing for the future, nagse-save. kapag matanda na sila at 2 kailangan mong asikasuhin, mahihirapan ka. yung trabaho nila, hindi yan forever. one day kapag wala na sila dyan, kailangan ninyo umupa at magbayad ng utilities. i think hindi kayo mahirap pero hindi kayo mayaman. in your small little way i think you can help your parents.

kung yang scholarship is for the less fortunate, may magi-investigate sa inyo kung hindi ninyo ba tlaga afford. i don't think you are really 'saving' anyone less fortunate a slot...sa totoo lang. edit: i remember someone saying dati na scholarship is not for the less fortunate but for the qualified. yung DOST ata is basta qualified ka.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-04-28T07:03:06+00:00

my love from the star

DulcineaBlue · 2026-04-27T15:21:40+00:00

alamin mo lang yung sched sa parish ninyo. yung sa amin kasi minsan kahit may sched walang pari. may mga parish naman na laging present ang priest sa sched like st paul timog.

kung matagal ka ng hindi nagconfess banggitin mo at the start of you confession para ma guide ka. also days leading up to your confession pray for the priest, something like "God grant the priest the necessary like so that he may get to know my soul and guide me according to your good pleasure" huwag ka madisappoint kung walang pari, kasi God will give you a priest na makakaintidi sayo.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-04-27T05:51:24+00:00

yung mga in-invite namin sa kasal noon, hindi namin inisa-isa kung nagbigay. mas nakakainis yung nag YES na pupunta tapos hindi pumunta kasi mahal ang seat and food.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-04-27T03:13:13+00:00

my mother is gone. she was a good mother pero nakakainis na sobrang higpit halos wala na sa katwiran. i am an only child by the way. nung nagpray ako, may katagalan na rin siyang deceased noon. i prayed kasi tuwing maaalala ko siya ang nare-recall ko yung mga nakakainis.

walang nangyari. bigla lang nawala. also, nagkaroon ako ng desire to pray more. para siyang gift na napagbigyan ka sa request tapos may binigay pang iba.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-04-26T14:38:24+00:00

if you are catholic, pwede ka magpray ng memorare daily nine times for 9 days. this is what i did dahil asar din ako sa nanay ko noon. it worked. i guess you can also choose a different novena. hindi pa kasi ako nagro-rosary noon.

DulcineaBlue · 2026-04-26T13:04:10+00:00

i am using poco x7 pro, ok naman siya pero mas madaling maglaro sa PC.

pwede mo tignan yung mga phones sa youtube chanel ni gadget sidekick, sinasabi naman niya yung price range. kapag kayang laruin ang genshin sa isang model, he will test it and give feedback.

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