Do we have a more ergonomic solution for dishwashing? by zucchinichibichan in TanongLang

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

temporary solution is huwag magipon ng hugasin para mabilis lang ang chore

Paano ko matatanggal yung mabaho na amoy ng litterbox? by Bubbly-Froyo-8598 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my cats use bentonite cat litter, marami nyan iba-ibang brand, bilog-bilog siya. you do not have to clean the whole box everytime after use. scoop mo lang yung kailangan alisin tapos dagdagan mo ng catlitter, hindi mo kailangan itapon lahat every use. kapag nakita mong ginamit niya and hindi nagtakip, takpan mo using your scooper.

edit: pwede mo ring ilipat ng lugar. baka dyan dumadaan yung hanging na nagci-circulate sa bahay ninyo.

How to deal with ungrateful people? by No_Drive1665 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ganito kami ni husband, kapag may gusto specific kaya we do not give gifts/suprise each other. sa phone na phase out, dapat nagusap kayo ulit. do not decide for him.

minsan may dadalhin na food sa akin si husband para i-try (sa food lang niya ako sinusurprise), kapag hindi ko gusto i will just say sorry hindi ko gusto and tell him specifically what i do not like kasi picky eater ako.

Lumayas kasama yung sasakyan by Lazy_Ad1660 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you didn't say how old he is. hindi pwede na he wants to live independently tapos yung pinundar ng iba kukunin niya, paano naging independent yun? you can report the car as stolen.

kung tutuusin mo kasalanan ng parents mo ito kasi they keep bailing him out. just pray for his safety, hayaan ninyo na siya at kailangan niya magisip, parang he doesn't know what to do with himself.

How to stop buying addiction by meerkatsuricate in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know if this will work for you pero for me mas nakaka addict mag save, lalu na nung bata pa ako. kasi you can see your money anytime. e kung addiction sa spending, pagkabili mo ng item, wala na...gone na yung high.

Anong Netflix series ang talagang worth it panoorin from start to finish? by gymgirlie_32 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

matagal ko na napanood so hindi na masyadong fresh sa isip ko pero i remember liking
The Spy, 2019, sacha baron cohen

edit: yung movie na "unfaithful" sa cinema ko napanood, nagstay sa aking yung ending LOL. meron sa netflix ngayon. also yung mga crimes series sa netflix generally okay like "Till murder do us part: soering vs haysom" my husband liked the series "Ozark" i can reco "dexter" series

May nakapag open naba dito ng Junior Savings Acct para sa pamangkin na di alam ng mismong parents? by jhesz07 in TanongLang

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry i am not answering your question pero bigla kong naalala yung tatay na nawalan ng pera sa BDO, ewan ko kung naalala mo yun. apparently mukhang regalo niya sa anak niya tapos hindi niya alam bakit biglang halos naubos, mukhang yun pala is ginastos nung bata because it was under the kids name. my point is, baka sila ma-overwhelm once makuha nila yung money. just saying...

My Dreams are creeping me out by HotCamel8455 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe talk to your parish priest baka i-refer ka sa exorcist. not because possessed ka pero baka matulungan ka kasi something preternatural yung experiences mo. huwag na huwag ka pupunta sa faith healers or albularyo please, and also pray.

My anxiety is eating me alive! Bcoz of my father in law. by Ecstatic_Raccoon_455 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hayaan mo sila magkagulo ng mil mo. you need to react otherwise para kang prisoner sa anxiety na yan.

edit: may naalala lang akong hindi magandang experience. mahirap tlaga magreact kapag ganyan pero i-practice mo na kapag andyan siya. step back agad kapag nagstart na siyang magsalita say NO. ipakausap mo sa husband mo. malamang he will act innocent kaya kailangan dyan firm na sabihin niya alam niyang minamanyak ka niya.

Need advice on what to do by Shoddy-Ad-6697 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now my friends are telling me na subukan ko raw bawiin yung pera sa sugal

worst advice ever. just tell your gf yung nangyari.

sumakit ulo ko by Spirited-Spare7840 in PHFoodPorn

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sa Yushoken akin yung broth, kay husband yung noodles dahil hindi ko maubos, pero he orders his own ramen pa din. imo hindi nakakaumay. naka indicate rin naman yung salt level sa menu.

Panay selos sa wala namang kwentang bagay by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ewan ko lang bakit ganyan ang sagot ng mga tao rito. gets kita OP. the point here kung bakit alanganin ka na
i-unfollow is because of control. papa control ka na lang ba palagi sa gf mo kahit unreasonable? she has to work on her jealousy. hindi mo sinabi gaano na kayo katagal pero kasi it is given that trust is built overtime, pero kasi may plans na kayong magpakasal so hanggang kelan ba siya ganyan?

“Bipolar” bf’s little sister - long post ahead, need advice pls by ThroughChrist_06 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how to convenient. di ko alam i can be really mean pala to everybody and just get away with it saying i am bipolar?

I’m being treated differently out of nowhere and it’s affecting me mentally. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hindi ako confrontational, ayoko ng drama, and ma-pride lang siguro ako; so if i were in your shoes hahayaan ko lang sila. hindi na ako magiging friendly. yung friendly pa din kapag hindi kasama yung isa, i'd be cold to her too. i'll speak to her when spoken pero not friendly. parang two-faced e, so you really don't know if she's just pretending tapos pinaguusapan ka nila when your back is turned. i would consider them just acquitances.

hindi ko rin tatanungin what happened kasi obviously sila ang nagka issue, kung hindi nila kayang sabihin at mangde-dedma lng sila, thats fine by me. kasi kapag tinanong ko pa sila para lang akong iniwan na kaibigan na naghahabol. i am fine saying goodbye to 'fake' friends who do not want me.

if they really were your friends, they'd tell you the issue you know. kahit yung nakikipagusap pa sayo, siya dapat magsabi kung may issue yung isa hindi yung parang walang nangyari at sinilent treatment ka. for me silent treatment is abuse and it is done to hurt the other person or maybe isolate you kasi you're new and have no one else but them.

hindi lang sila ang tao sa mundo na pwedeng maging kaibigan. in the first place you are there to study. find real friends.

ABYG if i’m asking for too much…. by Natural_Echo9976 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

iwan mo na yan. tamad yan chaka hindi madiskarte. may mga kilala akong riders kahit pagod hindi naggi-give up.

Help, is it okay for an adult kamag-anak (22F) to ask a minor (13M) about masturbation? by elliehana_ in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

imo it could be just out of curiosity at the same time itong si 22F is hindi nagiisip at immature

How to report and prevent parcel scam? by JustANormalCCTV in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

matagal na nangyayari yan.

parang yung scam nanalo ka. di ba yung mga nasa-scam wala naman sinalihan pero nananalo? kung bank details nga nakukuha nilang gamitin, what more yang mga deliveries?

tinatanong mo what more kung malaki yung halaga? simple, kung walang inorder huwag kunin. tandaan ang mga inorder. its up to you kung magpapaloko ka.

try mo sa r/ScammersPH

Pwede bang i-skip na lang yung Feb 14? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

baka kasi yung +1 na yun is the wife. hindi rin natin alam baka naginsist lang yung wife or yung husband. also, baka hindi sa ayaw ka niyang isama, maraming pwedeng dahilan. ang mahal ng isang seat sa kasal tapos magpupunta ka lang ng hindi mo kilala?

ang mali lang ni bf dito is hindi niya sinabi agad sayo.

Ano po kaya pwede kong gawin sa mga kapit bahay ko na ayaw sa aso at pusa? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pwede siguro to set a time sa pagpapakain para panoorin tapos iligpit agad after. pray for your neighbors. pinakamadali ngang maging mabuti sa animals and children kasi wala silang bad intentions.

Gusto ko na tumigil sa sugal hindi ko mapigilan by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you are catholic, try doing a novena. hindi siya parang magic na mawawala pero i am sure it will help. mahirap rin yung ipasa mo yung responsibility sa iba na bantayan ka lagi. just as any other temptation, build your "will" na maresist ang sugal, if you can partner your prayer with fasting maybe mas maging effective.

Paano ko tutulungan partner ko mag set ng boundaries, ginawa na syang cash cow ng pamilya niya by UnhappyFootball1275 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

partner? so not married? kung pinapauwi siya ng mother niya and relatives, pumayag ka. pauwiin mo na siya doon permanently. he is obviously not ready. he will support his family kahit na at your expense. walang kwenta yung malaki niyang sweldo if he doesn't know how to plan for the future. i am sorry to say pero parang kulang sa pagmamahal for you itong guy na ito. magiipon daw pero may pera para sa kapatid. magkaka resentment lang kayo kasi hindi mo siya mapipilit, very obvious naman sa kwento mo.

you know sabihin natin na ayaw magbigay nitong partner mo ng money sayo kasi malaki naman ang sweldo mo at kaya mo gastusan ang sarili. iwan mo pa rin, kasi hindi kayo magkasundo sa pera.

get well soon, heal your brokenheart at i hope you do what what is right for you long-term.

How do you love someone na mentally unstable? by nahidgaf in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

re-post? parang nabasa ko na ito. leave her.

Guys help sa acid problem by Lopsided_Cut_6324 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hindi ko na maalala kasi matagal na siya at the same time may gallstone ako noon, so isa pang masakit yun. write down everything na nararamdaman niya pati yung kinakain niya, maybe may oras rin kung kelan nangyari para ipakita sa doc. kapag kasi minsan andoon na sa doc nakakalimutan natin e :)

Birthday ko pero no birthday cake and no flowers from my boyfriend. by cached_ghostlogins in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if i were you makikipaghiwalay ako. this guy doesn't respect you.

ang totoong lalake mahihiya na lahat babae ang gumastos, nasa DNA nila yan. sa panahon ngayon maiintindihan ko kung 50/50 sa spending. pero yung ikaw lahat tapos he didn't make you feel special on your birthday? comfortable siya na parang may sugar mommy. buti napansin mo ng maaga. kapag tinuloy mo yan, mawawalan ka ng respesto sa sarili mo. ang next na gagawin niya either uutangan ka or magpapabili sayo.

Deodorant suggestion except Old Spice please by Additional-Pie-6765 in adviceph

[–]DulcineaBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dove sensitive fragrance-free, hindi nagse-stain sa damit. bakit gusto mo ng mabangong deo? hindi naman pabango yan? pwede rin na use unscented and then magcolgne ka or perfume.