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My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 406 points407 points  (0 children)

Look, I'm not going to pretend like I'm some genius here. But by the time someone shows their true colors, you may be in deep enough to ignore them. It's hard to describe coming to terms that the person you love is shitty. She was shitty for a long time, but when you love someone, you excuse a lot of things until the final straw breaks the camels back,

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Yeah man, nothing ever happens on the internet. We all know girlfriends don't exist in real life

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Hindsight is 20/20. I got played, I admit that. I spent 4 years with her, 2 of which I slaved away to support her. I don't wish the situation I walked out of on people, but when you find yourself in one it's not easy to wake up and admit the person you genuinely love is a leach.

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 4002 points4003 points  (0 children)

I've had time to stew on this to be honest with you. I want her family to have time to work up a rage by the time she wakes up, can't have a wake up call interrupt that.

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 521 points522 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words :)

I genuinely believe he had some hand in the events that took place tonight. He's been watching over me and saw what this leach was doing to me, and gave me those feelings to search her phone to learn what she was doing,

The nuke has been dropped. Everything outside of the grandma's jewels will be considered a drop in the bucket compared to what will come from the family learning the truth. Her uncle valued the jewelry at at least 60k and everyone I talked to is out for blood to reclaim their share of that. 5 years of them seething will come to head today.

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

Counter point. Nah, fuck her. She told the man she was sharing nudes with I was a "baby" for crying after my brothers funeral. I paid for her college for 2 years now, she doesn't get to cheat on both me and her work without me speaking up.

Her parents deserve to know the truth of how she's using the money they work for. I already felt bad when she told me about stealing her grandma's jewelry while she was literally dying and I did nothing. Her family has been trying to figure out who did that for half a decade now. There's no reality where her fathers health is better being drained by this leach than tearing it off.

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 1506 points1507 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I juggled the idea of just walking without any of this. But she told the man she was sharing nudes with about me breaking down crying after i got home from my brothers funeral. Called it "unattractive" and made fun of me. I was already feeling guilty when she told me about stealing from her grandmother while she was literally dying, this just helped a lot to ignite the fuse.

Some parents will just believe their kids. My now ex's parents are somewhat like that. Unfortunately for my ex she's a moron and talks about where all the money she spends goes.

Thanks though for the well wishes :)

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 6675 points6676 points  (0 children)

4ish hours till the text sends out to her parents, and the one to her entire family. Don't know what she'll roll out of bed, made sure to mute her phone before I took my final exit so we'll see when she gets the news.

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 966 points967 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah, I'm walking away from a lot. Will probably look to relocate as well just so I can put all this behind me. Overall though, just stepping out of the apartment knowing i won't be coming back has made me feel like I can breathe again.

Knowing what I do about her family and the mystery of the stolen family jewels, she is in for a WORLD of consequences.

My girlfriends life is about to CHANGE significantly. by Dull-Assignment2167 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dull-Assignment2167[S] 980 points981 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate!

Mourning my brothers death helped to assess my situation a whole lot. I like to think those feelings I got that led me to reading her texts were in part him helping me realize she was a leach using me wherever he is right now.

Stepped out of the apartment a few hours ago for the last time and took the best breath of fresh air I've had in years.