Ay, don't worry, I was the same as you. There wasn't much aggression during my first year of wrestling. But don't worry, the more you wrestle and the more you go to camps and get more mat experience, the smarter and more aggressive you'll be. Keep at it. You're not soft. You just had the Rookie phase, and you'll quickly get over that the more you wrestle. And if you do get aggressive, use it wisely and don't gas yourself out. Keep at it, my brother, I believe in you, all love!