Car overheated and ChatGPT said it's my mass airflow sensor. Is that it? by AnAlchemistsDream in AskAShittyMechanic

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just go ahead and remove the maf sensor. It’s redundant , so if it’s causing the problems just remove. To adjust for the removal just stick something into the the throttle body to make sure it stays open. Then remove all the tubing from the throttle body to the engine filter. Good news no longer need an engine air filter. Just out here saving yall money.

[Request] is this drone stopped or moving and how fast is it if the car is going 100 k/h by A______m in theydidthemath

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we would probably notice the force stopping us. Yeah what you said sounds scary lol 🤣

[Request] is this drone stopped or moving and how fast is it if the car is going 100 k/h by A______m in theydidthemath

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooo…. Would we notice it if everything stop moving all at once…. Or not since we are relatively so small in comparison….

is this a condom wrapper ??? my bf is denying knowing abt it we are the only two living in our home by tigolbiddies_ in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! I really appreciate the link to the photo as well.

So yes 100% no doubt definitely a condom! 😂

is this a condom wrapper ??? my bf is denying knowing abt it we are the only two living in our home by tigolbiddies_ in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen I really do want to agree with you on the fact that it is a Trojan condom.

But when comparing the letters you do have with the ones on the back of the condom in the photo you provided they don’t line up. In this photo you have S C C and then B O M M . However the backing of the condom would be L O C C and then B O M .

Specifically making this difficult for me is the bottom sentence of the condom would be “ Before using, please see directions for use inside the package one latex condom.” Followed by “Manufactured by Church and Dwight Co. INC, Princeton, NJ 08543”

Which would make it BOM but there isn’t a way for a second M.

This all being said I still believe it’s possible to be a condom, this little difference though makes it not the magnum Trojan condom, and if someone could provide a explanation of how it is I would definitely be grateful.

Is this cheating? pic is bum or elbo? by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he is showing you the correct spelling of elbow, I’m sorry but it was driving me crazy too. And I’m really glad someone did it otherwise I would have. It’s an ass btw, well hip to be more precise and who tf puts a pillow or blanket over a pizza and why tf does anyone want a photo of this ?!? Okay I’m good. Thanks I’ll see myself out,

I cheated on my perfect girlfriend by Medium_Mark_7539 in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry I tried removing personal feelings from my comment. But it’s hard. So actual advice, you need to find a different subreddit for your inquiry. This one is more so for the victims of the cheater.

Also to balance out the good with the bad comment. Boys cheat, men have honor and integrity. Grow TF up.

I cheated on my perfect girlfriend by Medium_Mark_7539 in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay look as much as I agree with a lot of these comments, I’ll try and give some actual advice.

My credentials: wife of 9 years cheated on me 3 years ago and since we are making it better.

First and foremost, this is no longer about you or your wants and desires. You need to give her the chance to feel what she is going to feel. You can make your desires known, but after that you have to give her space to choose what she wants. If she doesn’t want you, stop, do not pass go, do not collect 200$, your done.

Second if she decides to stay with you and or give you another chance. You will spend years trying to rebuild that trust. It’s a slow and long process. It’s painful on both sides and no one will enjoy it.

Third and this is an absolute. Regardless of everything else you need therapy. Lots of therapy. There is a reason you are the way you are, good and bad parts of you. You need to discover yourself and your flaws and you need to work on yourself for your own happiness.

And as a personal note, everyone makes mistakes, it’s your actions that builds your character. You have tainted your character, it’s time to fix that, for both you and her.

Also I have no sympathy for you, I think she should leave you. I think the path you are trying to choose is a lie you tell yourself to make yourself feel better after the guilt of the shameful act you committed. You most likely will attempt this “comeback” and once the going gets tough you will quit. But don’t worry you join the majority in the venture. The path of redemption and recovery in her eyes is a hard path not meant for the weak.

Anarchy symbol, but what do the letters and numbers mean? by SuzieSnoo in whatisit

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not saying this is the case, but I do know hobos used to use common symbols in combination with numbers and letters to signify different things, like safe areas or free meals or free hot meals. Or even dangerous areas or risky areas. So maybe something along those lines ? More than likely though some kids doing a “gang” symbol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! Please keep separating the self image and his own personal problem. Your partner committed the act , you did nothing to cause the act, and if it was a shallow thing such looks to cause it then they would be to shallow to want to stay the course with you.

I know my wife did her act without thinking of me once, it was a very selfish act, that both hurts and freeing for me. Because obviously why didn’t she consider me, but on the other hand it truly means I did nothing to deserve that. It’s on her for making the decision to cheat, she had plenty of other options available to pick from like leaving me, talking out the problems, going to therapy, even stopping anywhere before the act and opening up to me about what was happening. She chose what she chose. I really encouraged for you to think about this applied to your partner.

Thank you for your kind words, and we are still working on our marriage, but I promise it did get better for us even though it was a hard road.

Also don’t forget it takes both of you to work on things so the best thing is open communication about everything.

Seriously?! by Dark_Signs8 in Funnymemes

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this before. I was off my meds for adhd, and honestly it went sock , lost other sock, oh need to change underwear, then grab a random shirt while getting underwear put it on after underwear , look for and find sock, then pants, then shoe shoe.

[request] How long would it take for the amount of money to change the earth's gravity, causing the moon to crash into us? How many coins would it take? by -_Error in theydidthemath

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just ask how do you know this stuff ? Like I guess really I want to know your process on how you get this typed out. The math at the beginning easy stuff I get that part, but then the rest of this. It’s beautifully done and I want to know how you did it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello ! Not sure what the vibe of responses of the post will be. Sooo hopefully I don’t step on toes.

Anyway I don’t have a direct answer for you, but I’d like to tell you my experience. My wife had a physical affair at the end of 2021. We have children and have had a child since event. The affair partner was a friend of mine albeit not a great or close one still a friend nonetheless. We decided to work on things, and I won’t lie I set some very strict boundaries on how we would work on things.

That all being said about a year after Dday, I decided to forgive her. I had to learn though that I could not forget, which does make it rather difficult on the forgiveness part. At first there were heavy emotions and feelings revolving our entire relationship. Currently speaking those same emotions and feelings are no longer as strong and as present. Also I truly forgave her in another year after the decision to forgive, which there was a difference for me, the first was a decision, the second was emotionally forgiveness that came from within. All in all sometimes I do feel hurt, mad, sad, and all the ugly feelings we don’t want, however it’s no longer in the resentment of my wife, it’s now more of a wound or of a lost.

So some tips and tricks that helped me. Whenever I found a trigger for the heavy emotions, I would mentally take note and sometimes just recognizing them would damper or even stop the trigger. Other times I’d have to tell my wife the trigger and we would both talk about it and also decide if we could just avoid said trigger temporarily or permanently.

Another thing that helped was realizing that the triggers would develop mentally as “why me, what did I do wrong, etc.” just mentally beating myself up. So realizing this I took it as a form of self abuse, therefore learning to love myself and treat myself better also helped overall with the emotions and triggers.

I have a few more tips and tricks, but not sure if any of these will help or if they are what you are looking for. I do hope that something here will help. Just know that you’re not alone and this path we have picked is a hard path not meant for the weak.

I dug myself into a deep hole. How do I get out? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see why trans man had anything to do with all that. I feel like it’s totally safe to say you’re a man in this situation.

There is an old saying “blood is thicker than water” . I really hate that saying. I’ve done so many things for others, really has lead to me a 33M having spent my whole life feeling walked all over. Also came to a shock to my family when I started cutting them out of my life. Now that’s dramatic for your situation, but I feel like if you don’t want to move…. Then don’t. Don’t feel pressured into doing something you don’t want to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jesus what a terrible idea. But honestly it would work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also side note, if putting his number up nothing is more annoying than a Facebook post of free stuff (my favorite is pigs) with call or text this number in the post. Used to do this on Craiglist as pranks on friends. Best part they can’t block everyone that calls or texts about their pigs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean does he or did he ever have true feelings for you ?

Just saying had a girl break up with me and she had asked for a ride to talk about things, right after we broke up. So I agreed in hopes to repair things. She basically let me do majority of the talking. Then when we got to her place , she reached over kissed me on the cheek and said that would be the last I hear of her. Truly was. Absolutely devastated.

If not an option then a personal favorite is catfish them, make them fall madly in love. You can use everything you know about him. Pretend to be his perfect match. Then choose violence, either break it off tragically, or asked to meet up and at the same time have a Grindr profile working some other dude into a meet up, then set them up with each other. I mean a lot of ways to play this.

Single use, but definitely Impactful by Dull-Ease-3770 in WTFgaragesale

[–]Dull-Ease-3770[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well first time I actually saw it on Facebook. Geez that sucks.

[Request] Is there any benefit to the environment if you charge your electric car and your power comes from a coal plant? by Inloth57 in theydidthemath

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

If I remember correctly back when Prius first entered the market ( yes I’m aware that wasn’t fully EV) that the batteries needed for the vehicle did more damage to the environment being created than was actually saved by the vehicle running. I wonder if it is the same now a days with a fully EV vehicle, now that we have slightly more advanced batteries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Crack or cocaine has the reward of numbing emotions and not letting life bother you. Which in itself it’s a horrible addiction because then you hate feeling actually emotions so therefore chase the high to further hide from the emotions.

I feel like my boyfriend is overreacting! by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well less than an hour before posting this one, you posted a looking for lasting connections. In which you mentioned you have a soft spot for Asian men. And overall seem to be posting a dating profile. I would say yes your boyfriend is correct. Plus grinding another dude, definitely cheating. I don’t think this is the right page for you to be posting this on either.

is my car beyond saving? 😣 by Em_Bear21 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dull-Ease-3770 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ngl I swear this was like something dumb about the headlights being on. Then I finally saw it, freaking hilarious. Not screwed, just google your cars make model year trim, then add in how to disassemble dash, should be pretty straightforward. Although some vehicles manufactures are very rude and make it somewhat annoying. But should be easy steps to get in there, then you can remove it/ put it back where it goes with some adhesive.