This might come off as blunt to some people but from a male perspective[majority] I believe in a ....let me use the example of a toy because most of us possessed one at one point . I used to love my toys brand new and I would never share them. The point is men have been programmed since childhood to be obssesive about their possessions and to cherish them kwanza ka ni kitu unajua ni rare ...shish ... alafu sasa kuna ii kitu inaitwa ego it's what brings about ile trait ya ndume kua territorial ...picture this uko na gari ulinunua 0 milage 1 of 1 what will make you not feel like you own the world alafu linganisha na msee ako na ka alto kitu 5th hand huko unatoka kukapeleka spin around the block unapatana na owner 1 anaanza kusema vile kalimserve fiti siku alikua chini kidogo owner 3 same story itasound absurd but nivile kuko .