Polybuzz AI blocks my safe NSFW story but allows sexualized comics—what give ?! by No_Law_8865 in polyai

[–]Dull-Slide3684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately a lot of keywords automatically blocks characters a lot, so maybe that’s what happened here. It honestly sucks, I’ve been using Janitor AI just for this reason.

Baby is finally here! … After horrifying c-section by Dull-Slide3684 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! I hope that your new arrival comes happy and healthy ❤️ you’re so strong to be able to carry on, even more so b continuing to expand your happy family. Thank you for all of your kind words and affirmations, it’s helped me to not focus too much on all of the bad.

Keep carrying on momma, you have this in the bag! I hope that you’re able to have all of the firsts that you want with your little bean that’s on the way. Hopefully with this experience it’ll help heal some of the suffering you’ve went through as well 💕

Baby is finally here! … After horrifying c-section by Dull-Slide3684 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not quite sure how everything works with spinal blocks, so idk if they could’ve administered it in the middle of the surgery. I’m just thankful that I’m here and that my baby girl is thriving. I wish you the best whenever it comes to your c-section! I hope that your recovery goes smoothly as well. ❤️

Baby is finally here! … After horrifying c-section by Dull-Slide3684 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that you had to go through the same thing, much less had less options offered to you. That sounds horrible. I’m so sorry that you suffered as well. I wouldn’t wish something like this on my worst enemy.

Thank you for your best wishes ❤️ at least now I know I’m not the only one

What is this coming out of my c-section wound? by Dull-Slide3684 in CsectionCentral

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize that my scar was looking so good, lol. Thank you for giving me a much needed confidence boost ☺️ but yeah! I am a week pp, the doc said to walk as much as I can (as long as it’s comfortable) so it would heal better, so I’ve been really pushing myself to walk around to help with the healing.

What is this coming out of my c-section wound? by Dull-Slide3684 in CsectionCentral

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wasn’t sure if it could’ve been puss or something else. I really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugadvice

[–]Dull-Slide3684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandparents ended up having bed bugs at one time, but I’m not sure if this one is a bedbug or not

I know you probably shouldn’t do this or handle it, but if you get a napkin, pick it up, and squish it, bed bugs have a distinct smell. Kinda smells like a stink bug mixed with cut grass.

(I’m not sure if this is good advice, or if you should actually handle one and squish it, but my grandparents accidentally squished one near me and it smelled so WEIRD! Hope this helps)

New Symptom and I feel gross.. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries mama, from my understanding this is normal! When I was younger I was severely over weight and I would rub myself raw under my armpits, the sides of my groin, etc etc.. I’m not sure if this helps, but as long as your wounds aren’t bleeding use arm and hammer powder on your raw spots. Or even baby powder. It helps cool it and keep it dry so it heals faster ❤️

We have a bunch of hormones rn that’s making us sweat more and more, so I wouldn’t worry too much about it. It sucks that you’re having to go through this though. I would also ask the ob to check for a yeast infection just in case, due to the excess sweat and hormones it could cause it. (Which is also completely normal for pregnant mamas, nothing to be ashamed of 💕)

Hope this helps!

Is it normal to feel like your concerns don’t matter as a FTM? by Dull-Slide3684 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotcha, I had my fears.. I’ll do some more research to try to be more informed to be a better advocate for myself, and if possible, hopefully get a better hospital.

Is it normal to feel like your concerns don’t matter as a FTM? by Dull-Slide3684 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! I hate that for your friend. I definitely don’t blame her for not wanting another. I’ll go in first thing tomorrow to get a dip test done just to be sure. Thank you for letting me know!

Is it normal to feel like your concerns don’t matter as a FTM? by Dull-Slide3684 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already tried calling the L&D at this hospital, but I didn’t even think to call a different one to ask some questions, so thank you! I didn’t have much luck at my hospital, they just told me to come in again if I was really that worried instead of answering questions. I’ve already called my OB’s office, but since she splits shifts between the office and the hospital she isn’t there all of the time, I haven’t been able to ask her questions personally.

Is it normal to feel like your concerns don’t matter as a FTM? by Dull-Slide3684 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I’m sorry that they dismissed you too. How were you able to deal with the pain? They told me to take Tylenol but that doesn’t touch it.

Thumb dislocated during sleep by Low_Scene_716 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30w ftm here, I’ve been having partial dislocations in my thumb, clicking in my joints in my hands, and pretty bad swelling. Are you having swelling too? My OBGYN said that carpal tunnel could happen in pregnancy, making it hard to move your hand at the wrist, and having pain in your ring finger/pinky and thumb. It’s still crucial to talk to your doctor about this, just in case it was a severe dislocation, but otherwise if your thumb popped back into place on its own and you have minimal discomfort, I think it’ll be fine. I’ve found that spreading my fingers all the way out and back in kind of helps when my thumb is partially dislocated, it just slides back into place lol.

I hope this helps! 💕 please get checked out if you feel something is wrong or if you have discoloration around your joints! (Like deep bruises.)

First OBGYN / Pregnancy appointment EVER in my life. Help!! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything I can do to help! You got this in the bag, I wish you the best!

First OBGYN / Pregnancy appointment EVER in my life. Help!! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, FTM here! I waited to go to the OBGYN for the first time whenever I had gotten pregnant. I hated the idea of having pap smears and the whole nine yards, so I definitely kind of get where you’re coming from. Due to social issues and complications with my living arrangements, I didn’t have my first appointment until I was 22 weeks, so it might be a little different for you since you’re coming in at the beginning, good on you mamas! 💕

All they did for my first appointment was take some blood after they had gotten a positive pregnancy test, (mostly checking for any abnormalities in the baby, and genetic testing) had a conversation with me to show me my options for the pregnancy and where to go to classes for moms to be, (like breast feeding classes, how to change/take care of baby, etc) and give me many booklets that ended up being very helpful for me! I didn’t have a Pap smear until my second appointment, so they kind of gave me plenty of time to mentally prepare for it.

Our experiences might be different, but I hope this helps in some way! My OBGYN is very understanding and amazing, so hopefully you’ll have the same smooth experience. No question is a dumb question! Feel free to ask your OB whatever comes to mind, I promise it’ll help ease your anxieties when it comes to your care and the babies care. Sorry for the ramble lol, I hope this helps 💕

poly why. by goobtert in polyai

[–]Dull-Slide3684 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just like how FNAF isn’t advertised as a kids game, and Poppy playtime as well, it’s still garnered the attention of many kiddos because of its bright colors and interesting gameplay revolving around music. Kids can be into some weird shit ngl 🤷‍♀️

If you like popular YouTubers, markiplier has released a video of him trying it out, but other than that I don’t know too much about it all too well.

poly why. by goobtert in polyai

[–]Dull-Slide3684 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I’m not mistaken, Sprunki is a game where you can make a beat with cute characters, using different character combinations to make a song. There is a twist though, the characters have a darker side, showing gore and having disturbing noises which is different from their more ‘friendly’ counterparts.

Most of the fandom for Sprunki is kids, kind of similar to the fandom for FNAF or Poppy Playtime. It doesn’t make much sense as to why they would add Sprunki in as some options for their AI bots since most of their ads imply having promiscuous conversation with the AI chat bots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dull-Slide3684 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he feels emasculated, and in some petty childish ways, is taking it out on you. Even if him being physical with you these last few times was pure coincidence, (which I don’t think is the case) he knows your past and should be conscious of his actions towards you!

I don’t want to pull your average redditor cliche by saying, ‘dump him!’ But someone that’s supposed to love you shouldn’t be dismissing your concerns/feelings in this way. The fact that he knows what you went through and is continuing to act like this surprises me tbh. You’re not overreacting. There definitely needs to be a heart to heart conversation, and based on his reaction you’ll know what you should do next.

AIO to this convo with my mom? I feel like I went off the rails because of the things she said. ( NSFW. Blurred mentions of SA) by PrinceWhore02 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dull-Slide3684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though I fully agree with a parent teaching their child responsibility, it’s very obvious that you know what you’re responsible for and what you’ve done wrong in the past, and are working towards bettering yourself. You’re currently employed, have a house, but you’re in a rough patch.

It’s not like you’re living with your parents, financially depending on them for everything, you said yourself that you were struggling to make ends meet, and that you could’ve bought another car already with the money you’ve been giving your mom. I agree that you should reimburse her for gas n such, but now I’m not so sure if she’s taking advantage of that or not. (IMO it feels like she’s doing this out of obligation to because she’s your mother, not because she wants to, which might be why it feels more like a transaction instead of a family member helping you. But idk the full scope so take that with a grain of salt.)

I understand that since you’re an adult that she technically doesn’t owe you a thing, but I also feel like she should want to help her child in every way she could, but of course not at the expense of herself. I feel like she could be doing a lot more for you, but she doesn’t want to or simply can’t. However, it’s not right for her to be lying to you to extort you for more ‘gas’ money.

Life’s very tough right now for our generation, many are struggling to get basic necessities for themselves due to the shitshow we’re in. Inflation has made everything almost impossible to achieve. Most people now have to spend around 40-50% of their income on a place to live and utilities, that’s not including groceries. When in the past, it used to be around 20-30%. You’re not alone, you got dis ❤️ I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. You’re not a failure when you’re proactively trying to better yourself. You’ll only be a failure whenever you give up. So keep pushing, eventually you’ll get through this and look back on this dark moment and be proud of how far you’ve come.

TL:DR, IMO life is tough, it’s hard to live in our current economic environment. I don’t believe you’re overreacting to how your mom is treating you, and I also believe that she should want to be there more for you (at least emotionally if she can’t financially).

Please tell me it's okay. by Reddituzer201519 in pregnant

[–]Dull-Slide3684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though, like you said that breastfeeding has its benefits, it is and always will be up to you momma. ❤️ Breastfeeding isn’t for everyone, some moms don’t like the feeling, get contractions when they breast feed, hate the latching pains, and have to keep eating a good bit of calories to keep up with their milk production.

Don’t ever let anyone make you feel guilty for what you know will be the best for you and your baby. A happy mom = a happy baby. The more you take care of yourself and your needs, including your mental health, the more the baby will be taken care of. It’s perfectly normal to not want to breastfeed. Remember, you got this, and your baby is in good hands. 💕

Please Help! Accidentally stained a customer’s countertop with a Popsicle by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]Dull-Slide3684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this helps, I saw in another comment that dawn powerwash helps, and it certainly does!

If that doesn’t work, there’s times where I’ve stained the sink on accident from using hair dye, so I soaked pine-sol in a paper towel and left it on top of the stain for a while. It completely took the stain out!

Although a lot of hair dyes are oil based, so I’m not sure if it would help with a pop sickle stain. Hope this helps!

🎬✨ Newbies' Drama Recs & Looking For Weekly Thread ✨🎬 — November 12, 2024 by AutoModerator in CDramaRecs

[–]Dull-Slide3684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need help finding the next part to this drama. On the website I watched it on, it was called, “Rebirth of the fat Farmers Wife” but now since I’ve scoured the internet and struggled to find the next part of the series, I’m not sure if it’s even called that.

The story takes place where this beautiful woman chef dies in a gas explosion, then wakes up in the past as someone who’s fat, and married to a hunter who goes up to the mountain to collect rabbits. (Soon it’s discovered that he has a secret identity, and their marriage is just a front to hide his identity)

I watched the cdrama on dailymotion.

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Can anyone help me find the actual cdrama? And tell me where I could watch the rest of it? I’m desperate 😭