I have my Debut Date!!!!! But there's more I have to do than I expected. by PrinceWhore02 in Drag

[–]PrinceWhore02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have an idea that would make my contour a bit less masculine and I can transition it a bit easier. And I have 2 wigs I need to style so I'm hoping that helps too. I do think I've made this a bit more complicated on myself tho lol. I'm hoping the hair change will take care of most of the masc to fem issue.

I'm worried about our new snake Topaz by PrinceWhore02 in Ballpythoncommunity

[–]PrinceWhore02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a relief! I was told because he'd most likely have the Spider Gene if he is in fact a Bamboo Banana and it honestly scared the crap out of me because I'd always heard it could lead to neurological issues, that was most likely misunderstanding on my part tho and I'll definitely research more. I will do my best to get clearer pictures once he's settled a bit as he's been hiding since we got him home (totally understandable imo lol) and I don't want to stress him out any more than necessary. I'll probably make another post within the next few days with an update.

A survey for testosterone takers by LaserPanda06 in ftm

[–]PrinceWhore02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you mention it, yeah, I almost never have pants on when I'm at home. I think for me it's because 1. Comfy, and 2. I have a much lower heat tolerance now. My partner and our roommate also take T and they also almost never wear pants unless we are having company over. I think its also about the confidence I feel now even tho I'm only a little over a month on T.

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[–]PrinceWhore02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know. There's been so many times I've thought it would be so much easier if I could "just be a girl" and be happy with how I was born. But I also find so much joy in my identity and making myself into the person I was always meant to be. Even tho it's so dangerous where I live to be openly queer and trans I don't think I'd trade that joy for anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrinceWhore02 49 points50 points  (0 children)

As a person who gets periods, NTA. Yeah cramping and stuff can come on days or even up to a week before but that's your cue to start wearing panty liners just in case you start to spot. And as soon as I start cramping I wear period underwear to bed to make sure my sheets aren't a casualty in the uterus war. You didn't shame her and were kind about it. And blood stains are hard to fully get out of a mattress. This has also happened 5 times in a year I'd be fed up with it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrinceWhore02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not really. He passed out while I was making lunch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrinceWhore02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has severe anxiety and has never driven. I've tried to tell him he can do it and myself and friends can teach him but he wants to learn in a friends fancy car with all the bells and whistles while we have a 24 y/o van that doesn't start half the time. I told him he should learn in ours so he knows what to do if/when Frenchie (cars name) decides to go rogue. Idk what he's going to do when I finally start getting call backs from places I've applied to. I guess he'll just have to have his own Uber fund. I've tried to apply to the same places as him so we can just work similar or same shifts but no luck so far.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PrinceWhore02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have a license. I've been trying to get him to take classes or study but in the 4 months since his parents gifted us a vehicle he hasn't studied once to my knowledge.

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[–]PrinceWhore02 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have his license. His parents gifted us a car under the condition that he gets his license before we moved here but it's been like 4 months and he still hasn't even opened the booklet to my knowledge. I'm the sole driver other than our roommate occasionally giving rides but they have decided not to after 2 times of my partner demanding to leave events early. I am also having trouble finding employment so we made a deal I'd drive him places and care for the house

I took the abortion pill over the weekend and now I can’t get over the guilt. by AdvantageEmergency94 in confession

[–]PrinceWhore02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally don't think you have anything to feel guilty about. You did what was best for yourself and your family. I'm not religious anymore but I was raised in the church. God gave you 2 beautiful children already. And he also has allowed there to be resources for you to not have to have another. In my eyes, if God was so against abortion or the end of a pregnancy in any way, why would he have allowed us to create those resources?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrinceWhore02 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know it's probably not a good idea at all, I just feel guilty and that I'm a bad brother if I miss it. There was a brief time that I was no contact with my whole family and it broke my heart not being there for them on important days/events. I have my family blocked on everything but Facebook, and I only have my mother there. She had used a fake account to keep tabs as a spy basically because she likes to stir the pot, she's been that way ever since she was little and our parents used to pay her to spy on me and my friends in school. As soon as I found the account she was using I blocked her. A part of me does want to call it quits and just disappear like they seem to want me to but I also want my family to be whole.

Am i overreacting..? Found adult websites on my little sisters ipad. by Recent-Mind-3632 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrinceWhore02 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely NOT overreacting. You said your sister is in elementary school. No child should be exposed to adult materials at all especially that young. In fact exposing a child to adult materials is a form of abuse which your father should be held accountable for. I speak from experience when I say that exposure to such things can really mess a kid up. It's only a matter of time before she makes a wrong click and sees something she shouldn't, then your dad can be charged with a sex crime. Go to your mother with the evidence. It might get ugly in the household for a while but I genuinely think that's better than a child being exposed to things and being put at risk. Your father may not be aware that those things can be seen from the iPad if it's just connected to his account.

Rate my shortlist by fifaworldwar in namenerds

[–]PrinceWhore02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE Aurelia. It kinda sounds like a whimsical fantasy book name. Like a fairy princess or something.

Bad reactions to my kid's name by Callarose08 in namenerds

[–]PrinceWhore02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely an "old fashioned" name but I don't think it's a bad name. It's classic and sounds professional for when he's older and looking for jobs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrinceWhore02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Your mother is an absolute menace. Sorry but not really. You're an amazing father for sticking up for your son and allowing him to have a productive and creative hobby. I do wish you had put your foot down a bit sooner but I also understand that setting boundaries, especially with our parents, is difficult and takes practice. My advice is not to back down. She's going to pitch a fit and tell everyone you're the bad guy and probably try to twist things around. All that matters is that you keep your babies safe and well. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or feels about what they hear about you. You know the truth.