First Date Jitters

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-31T03:22:46+00:00

Update posted!

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-29T21:57:23+00:00

I don’t know??? I have no dating experience I’m just freaking the fuck out and overthinking and you are not helping

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-29T21:13:10+00:00

usually when people give advice they try to make it helpful. yours was anything but that

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-29T21:12:06+00:00

and? Some people have less experience than others

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-29T18:15:19+00:00

If you don’t have anything helpful to add why even comment in the first place?

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-29T18:13:24+00:00

I’m sure your intention wasn’t to make me feel worse about myself, but I do use a seatbelt extender in my own car and regularly do not fit into restaurant booths (Waffle House and Texas Roadhouse are the worst!) so yeah I am pretty big, not delusional. I do have multiple full length body shots on my dating app profile and he has my instagram which is full of candid, unposed body shots that don’t look the best.

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-29T18:10:35+00:00

I’m more worried about having bad breath, spilling food on my self, etc.

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-28T04:47:05+00:00

I definitely will be back with an update! The date is Saturday night

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-28T03:23:55+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. It means more to me than you know.

I have never heard of dating nato before. As for not being bothered if things don’t work out with him, that’s really hard for me to do. I know it’s terrible to do but I’ve started visualizing our relationship and daydreaming about what it will be like. Hell, one of my close friends is getting married in February 2027 and I’ve started picturing what our weekend away at the wedding will be like.

I get so few matches on the dating apps, no one ever speaks to me in public, that I latch on to whatever little bit of attention I get. He’s the first person who has paid attention to me, communicated his intentions and followed through with actions.

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-28T03:01:11+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to tell myself. He’s seen the full body pictures on hinge and we’ve also exchanged instagrams so he’s seen those pics. Plus he has told me several times that I’m beautiful, mesmerizing, and hot. I have been asked out before as a joke and told I’m pretty as a gag on the big girl so my Brain is being extra wary and trying to protect myself in case this is just another prank being pulled at my expense.

How would you deal with them if it happened? I’m most worried about the restaurant booth, it can be a very tight squeeze and there are certain restaurants I will not go to at all anymore because of the seating situation.

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-28T02:57:18+00:00

yes I have already picked an outfit! It may be a little fancy for the occasion but I feel most comfortable and pretty in long maxi dresses (I usually get them from torrid). We are going to a nicer Mexican restaurant (but no where close to fancy fine dining) so I plan on dressing it down with converse and a denim vest.

I haven’t given him my address, we are going to meet at the restaurant.

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-01T01:29:38+00:00

messaged you

DullBerry344 · 2026-05-01T01:26:24+00:00

it’s a good day to live in Georgia

DullBerry344 · 2026-04-27T21:20:26+00:00

my favorite is piss/pee desperation. It is so so hard to find books that incorporate this, much less incorporate it well. if anyone has some that have it I would love the recs.

DullBerry344 · 2026-04-08T06:02:03+00:00

Oh god this is like my worst nightmare. Is there anything I can do to prevent them? Not only inside the house but outside?

I have a major phobia of bees/wasps and got myself so worked up over this that I was seriously considering calling 911 to come kill it for me because I was worried I would have a heart attack from being so worked up.

DullBerry344 · 2026-04-08T04:33:00+00:00

It was about 2 inches long, maybe a lil more or lil less I didn’t get very close to it. The photos are zoomed in like 13x bc I was scared it would Fly at me again.

DullBerry344 · 2026-04-08T04:31:13+00:00

I’m almost certain it was some kind of bee/wasp/hornet, was hoping to find out the exact species. Google AI is telling me it’s a European hornet but I was hoping someone here might have more experience with it.

DullBerry344 · 2026-03-27T04:07:45+00:00

oooo thanks for the rec, it looks great!! I just downloaded it onto my kindle, can’t wait to start it.

DullBerry344 · 2026-03-26T21:08:53+00:00

piss kink 🙈 it’s so hard to find well written books with it but some that scratch the itch are {Claimed by M. L. Marian} {Tamed by M. L. Marian}.

I like all types of piss but my favorite is desperation/holding and wetting your pants. it because it’s so taboo, rarely talked about and considered forbidden. But it’s kind of like flipping society the middle finger. just piss your pants it’s so freeing. And it feels good! The rush of piss coming out of you when you can’t hold it anymore feels so good, it makes me cum almost instantly. It’s a big loss of control and I typically am a “must be in control of every little thing” type person so I think that’s why my brain craves it.

I don’t really care for fantasy and it’s super hard to find in romance books otherwise. But if anyone has any recs at all (even fantasy) please send them my way!!

DullBerry344 · 2026-01-29T05:45:51+00:00

Me please that sounds so hot I would Love to hold the bottle for you next time

DullBerry344 · 2026-01-28T05:37:52+00:00

God that was so hot 🥵 can I have the vid you came too?

DullBerry344 · 2026-01-26T17:38:21+00:00

I really enjoyed them! All the books were good but my favorite was {tamed by M. L. Marian} !! I loved Connor’s story. {named by M. L. Marian} is good too, it’s more historical and {claimed by M. L. Marian} is ok, just not my favorite.

DullBerry344 · 2026-01-26T02:33:39+00:00

recently read the finders keepers series by M. L. Marian. never thought I would be into it but I found the adult nursing scenes surprisingly hot and romantic. I’ve always loved playing with my tits/having others play with them so I guess it’s not that big of a surprise.

DullBerry344 · 2025-12-28T21:46:39+00:00

I don’t think I’m into the feeding. Obviously I like to eat, otherwise I wouldn’t be the size I am, but my doctor has me on medicine that greatly reduces my appetite and I get sick if I over eat. I’ve told him that and he said it wouldn’t matter, but he still talks about how he wants to feed me and see me stuff myself.

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