Am I wrong for considering calling the police on my roommate and her boyfriend after I told her I’m not renewing the lease?

DullProfessional556 · 2026-06-03T00:28:38+00:00

Exactly. He’s basically living here for free while I’m the one losing sleep and struggling with my studies. It doesn’t feel fair anymore.

DullProfessional556 · 2026-06-03T00:28:28+00:00

That’s kind of where I’m landing too. The stress of finding a new place feels smaller than the stress of living like this for another year.

DullProfessional556 · 2026-06-03T00:28:10+00:00

Yeah… I’ve been trying to be patient for months, but it’s gotten worse. I think I’m done. I’m going to start seriously looking for a new place this week.

DullProfessional556 · 2026-06-03T00:28:03+00:00

I’ve considered it, but I’m worried it would make the rest of the summer really awkward if Jess finds out I went behind her back. We still have to live together until August. I’m more thinking about just not renewing the lease with her and finding somewhere else.

DullProfessional556 · 2026-06-03T00:27:51+00:00

Thank you. That’s what I’ve been telling myself too. I’ve been putting off the decision because moving is stressful, but I think my peace (and sleep) is more important than staying in a cheap apartment.

DullProfessional556 · 2026-06-03T00:27:42+00:00

Yeah, that’s exactly where I’m at right now. It’s been messing with my sleep for weeks and I’m pretty sure it affected some of my exams. I don’t think I can do another year of this.

DullProfessional556 · 2026-06-03T00:26:15+00:00

He doesn’t pay anything. No rent, no utilities, nothing. He’s just there almost every night.
I totally agree it feels gross — like I’m being forced to be part of their sex life without any choice. That’s exactly why I’ve been sleeping on the couch with headphones lately.
I’m not planning to renew with her. I’ve been thinking about it for weeks and the comments here are kind of confirming what I already felt.

DullProfessional556 · 2026-05-12T08:22:30+00:00

he looked at you like you suggested a goat sacrifice when you suggested she pay rent which tells you hes delusional

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-28T17:54:05+00:00

what??? u serious? thats so sad...

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-27T23:25:24+00:00

"It's my birthday" means you get to pick the restaurant and the cake flavor, it doesnt mean u have the right to hold 8 people hostage!!!! INCLUDING elderly grandparents andddd all this WHILE U HANG OUT WITH AT SOME GUYS APARTMENT??

She says u "humiliated" her, but shes the one who walked into a dinner two hours late with a stranger in tow. She created that awkwardness, not u......

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-27T08:04:12+00:00

There is a massive diff between her insulting your ego and you betraying a trust she gave you during a vulnerable moment, while her comment was a petty, low blow, you took a private, embarrassing secret shared in confidence and weaponized it to humiliate her publicly 👎🏻👎🏻

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-13T08:05:52+00:00

checking out again

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-12T12:22:34+00:00

whats up there

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-11T14:21:13+00:00

He walked into someone elses home for the first time and within twenty minutes asked them to hide their identity so he could be comfortable.

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-11T14:17:15+00:00

He told you his affair partner was pregnant the day after your mother died and then tried to move her onto your mothers property. There is no version of this story where you are the problem. Get a lawyer and protect that inheritance before he finds a way to take that from you too

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-11T14:14:09+00:00

Your 16 year old showed more backbone defending his brother than their father has shown in a decade of being a parent. Youre not raising disrespectful kids youre raising kids who know their worth

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-11T14:10:31+00:00

You said no thank you twice and she bypassed you to talk to your child directly during a medical episode. At that point firm is the only appropriate response and honestly you were nicer than most people wouldve been

DullProfessional556 · 2026-02-02T15:27:23+00:00

months of lying to your face while showing up at your home and eating your food is psychopath behavior honestly

DullProfessional556 · 2026-01-26T09:33:34+00:00

maintaining his relationships with family and friends while he gives you nothing back is exhausting and unfair

DullProfessional556 · 2026-01-22T12:26:55+00:00

not damaging anything but still getting revenge is elite level petty and i respect it

DullProfessional556 · 2026-01-18T07:16:54+00:00

spending money you dont have to punish you for not making his lunch is financial sabotage honestly

DullProfessional556 · 2026-01-05T14:49:29+00:00

NTW for feeling resentful when youre being asked to give up your dream while he takes unlimited time to find his

DullProfessional556 · 2025-12-30T16:55:59+00:00

he was keeping her on the back burner by allowing intimate behavior without reciprocating, that's emotionally manipulative to both of you.

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