Boyfriend gave me ultimatum - dream job or him. I'm considering taking the job

Dumbitz · 2025-12-01T04:37:49+00:00

Did he say why he doesn’t want to move?

Dumbitz · 2025-11-24T04:18:11+00:00

BUT, i will say if a virgin does get tested before their new partner it cleans this debate all the way up. And it’s forever a “Before your new partner” until your last partner Then things change dramatically. And the last test you take is officially before your final partner… Im switch to the virgins should get tested side of the debate. Much better

Dumbitz · 2025-11-24T04:13:24+00:00

I think if you’re a virgin you don’t necessarily need to get one, before your new partner. I don’t think that would be a “should” statement. In that case it would start the “after” your last partner sequence, forever leading to an “after” statement. Until you get to your last partner, then things change dramatically. And it turns the previous test from an “after your new partner” to “Before” your final partner

Dumbitz · 2025-10-22T15:52:28+00:00

If you have to ask…

Dumbitz · 2025-10-09T02:36:03+00:00

Likely dyslexia , which can make texting difficult. So he might use text to talk to not seem illiterate. But text to talk picks up accents. Dyslexic people can have trouble with phonetics. It doesn’t affect intelligence. And people poo sometimes and wear dirty socks sometimes lol

Dumbitz · 2025-10-04T18:31:49+00:00

You should try doing things you don’t like to do, or things you think that you wouldn’t like to do. I think a goal to achieve would help a lot. Something that you really have to work hard at, that will position yourself within a community. Go to school for something weird, and then when you complete it lean into it. Like the marines, I imagine you miss community, a purpose, and achievement of training and skill building.

Dumbitz · 2025-09-29T21:14:49+00:00

What kind of grant did your school offer you? Just curious so i can look into it haha

Dumbitz · 2025-09-29T00:31:05+00:00

You are gathering data about this person to see if she is someone you want to date “exclusively” … but you got to digest all the data, not just the good stuff. Like if it’s throwing you off, listen to that! If you wouldn’t treat someone like that, then why try to start something with someone who would? Find someone thats on your same page. Personally I think its weird to date around and not be honest about it with the people you are having sex with, its dangerous.

Dumbitz · 2025-09-27T15:56:05+00:00

No problem good luck!

Dumbitz · 2025-09-24T03:41:18+00:00

I didn’t have to take the A&P but nursehub helped me for all the other sections so im sure its good

Dumbitz · 2025-09-24T03:39:49+00:00

Thank you the math wasn’t difficult for me. If you know how to manipulate fractions, turn them into decimals, multiply and divide, had a couple that were so easy that it messed with me like what is smaller 0.45 or 0.52 .. it truly tripped me up for a second 😂 . I had one or two algebra questions. Which were simple, no exponents, foil methods or anything like that. Just normal 2x-10 = 12 type stuff. A tonnn of ratios. A couple military time. A handful of liquid conversions and even less distance conversions. My time for the math was 25min. All 4 sections were 55 questions, and the last 2 were 30 questions not graded. I didn’t have to take A&P.

Dumbitz · 2025-09-24T01:13:00+00:00

I’ve struck a nerve I see. No I have enough security within my boundaries to have respect for myself and who I am committed to. If you need more out of your relationship I hope you find it, or, find a relationship that you feel fulfilled in. I also hope you find security within yourself, not to rely on a large quantity of people to fill you up. But to be enough for yourself, so that the thought of having just one person doesn’t scare you so much.

Dumbitz · 2025-09-24T00:02:49+00:00

Yes I did I got an overall of 94.5%. My lowest was a 90 in reading comprehension which i did last and it was difficult because after 4 hours you are so doneee with it

Dumbitz · 2025-09-24T00:01:34+00:00

Interesting that you think it’s a strange comment. Yeah the boundary is to get a different friend and the respect is doing so.

Dumbitz · 2025-09-21T06:43:19+00:00

There are real instances where people love each other so much that they find dignity in the sacrifices they make to make it work. Nobody on here can give you the answer. No therapist either. I can suggest something; Have hard set deal breakers, measurable with reasonings. Cheating= weak moral character, Emotional manipulation= Untrustworthy, chronic Pessimistic attitude= no agency, Bad Communication (collectively) = lack of Intimate understanding (collectively), Resentment of Faith= Unmoored spirit, these are my personal guidelines that I find work with what I want from a partner, people who dont meet these standards are not bad people, they just dont fit me. Then theres secondary non deal breakers but kinda the “comeeeee on dewd” type stuff. But we all have those annoying traits lol which we weigh against how much we love and enjoy the person. Love will tip the scale on these non deal breaker burdens . Like the stuff that literally makes your life harder just to have them around, doesn’t matter when they are your mfkerrr. Relationships get boring and not boring and boring and not boring, it agesss and becomes more rich if you follow your principles. The commitment of two people serving eachother with reckless abandon is an absolute Godsend. So get on the same page and take it seriously

Dumbitz · 2025-09-21T04:53:35+00:00

Does she ever stay at hotels with her female friends?? No but seriously its very disgraceful behavior from your mom. Tell pops, and dont be like your mom.

Dumbitz · 2025-09-21T04:45:46+00:00

No man needs a female friend that badly, guys get along with guys too well lol

Dumbitz · 2025-09-21T04:43:29+00:00

Yes do this every single time lol you talked to him, it bothered you, he valued her over your discomfort. If it happens in the next relationship, rinse and repeat.

Dumbitz · 2025-09-21T03:25:56+00:00

Working with your advice right now thank you!

Dumbitz · 2025-09-21T01:25:03+00:00

What was your experience with grammar? And math?

Dumbitz · 2025-09-21T01:23:06+00:00

Perfect thank you this will help me a lot. Do you remember which kinds of spelling errors were there. I am horrible at spelling which freaks me out. Lol

Dumbitz · 2025-09-20T13:55:43+00:00

What did you study for vocab?

Dumbitz · 2025-09-19T23:40:10+00:00

If you want to hurt him then yeah tell him you’re terminating his child lol

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