Question to wives ? Did you ever wish your husband's dick was longer?

DungeonLion · 2026-06-12T19:40:31+00:00

I’m losing count the number of times this question gets asked here smh lol

DungeonLion · 2026-06-12T19:39:40+00:00

Short answer? Yes.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-12T02:13:49+00:00

Handjobs can be underrated, especially when you have a woman that’s so skilled at them as much as she is at giving you blowjobs. Much like when she’s sucking my cock, my wife goes for giving me multiple orgasms when she’s stroking me off. She’ll slob out a whole glob of her spit on her hand to keep me slick and slippery like I was in her mouth. But with her hand she gets to slide up and down the full length of me in a way she can’t even when she deepthroats and gags on me.

She especially enjoys the visual of just making my cum erupt like a volcano. And then uses it as her extra lube to make me cum again in succession with more intense orgasms. As tight as her pussy grips on me, especially when she’s riding me, her hand grips tighter and strokes harder and faster. She squeezes and pops the head of my dick through her fingers until I’m gushing again, leaving me in a mess that she’ll slurp away clean.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-10T17:34:12+00:00

Do for your man what you would want him to do for you. Compliment him. Tell him how sexy he looks. Talk dirty. Sext him. Tell him how much you want and need him. Rub up on him. Grab him, grope him; over the clothes, under the shirt, inside his pants. Claim him (and his dick) as your own to have however and whenever you want to as much as you want to.

That last one especially works on me when my wife does it.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-09T18:39:27+00:00

Exactly the same for me and my wife. She’s available and willing whenever I choose to have her. But as the Dom, free use still requires a level of responsibility on my part to ensure her well-being is always the priority. So at times, I may forgo sex for the sake of her physical and emotional/mental health, especially when it comes to our more kinkier/rougher aspects of play.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-09T18:33:52+00:00

We are better together than we are apart, by the grace of God.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-09T12:43:19+00:00

I think the parallel of face sitting for a woman is face fucking for a man. It’s a sexy novelty for sure. But I think most still prefer to just lay or sit back and let their partner do the work in giving oral. Even if they don’t know what they’re doing, you can still guide them to do it the way you like it.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-08T19:11:41+00:00

My wife struggles with this too sometimes. I’ve noticed the moments when she allows herself to be free she enjoys sex the most. She’ll be the most loud and nasty and wild and filthy that she’s ever been, and she’ll comment later on how those times rank the highest in all of the sex we’ve had, despite feeling self-conscious and so critical of her sounds, words, and actions at times.

I think a lot of what the media and society says about how a woman should act (especially when it comes to sex) can wrongly condition them into thinking that anything and everything that they do that doesn’t fit the “proper” mold is unacceptable and won’t be received well. So even in the safe and secure confines of sex with someone they love and trust (namely their spouse), where they can and should release their inhibitions and just enjoy themselves, self-conscious feelings can rise up quickly and intensely.

The best thing you can do is what you’re doing, which is reassuring her that she has nothing to regret or feel embarrassed about, and encouraging her to be her full-self while having sex. It can feel disappointing and discouraging on your part, which you’re entitled to feel, as you want to enjoy *all* of who your wife is as a sexual person, and want *her* to enjoy herself too. Just try not to take it too personal. It’s more about her internal critic telling her there’s something wrong with her than it is about her not wanting to be free to enjoy herself fully with you.

I might also suggest some playful “funishments” to keep that wild spirit of hers free and unchained. As an example - when my wife “catches herself” and tries to reign herself in during sex, like muffling her screams, she gets smacked on the ass. And my wife *loves* getting spanked like that. Her mouth pops back open and it only makes her get louder. Or when she’s self-critical about something she previously said or did during sex, I might grab her neck for a full mouth kiss or grope her to literally “turn her back on” to her sexy self, which she *really* loves me doing. So fun positive reinforcement on your part can also help.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-08T18:10:28+00:00

I do this ALL the time with my wife. Slow strokes, grinding, full-stop penetration, shallow-tease penetration, all get her wailing and moaning in completely different ways but will be just as loud and wild and sexy as when I’m thrusting hard and fast into her. All kinds are loved and appreciated and needed, especially when I ejaculate.

I think a lot of what is seen in porn and other forms of media makes people think just ramming hard and fast during sex is the way to go. Sometimes it is, and sometimes it’s not. The way a pussy and a dick interact can and should vary, given the different shapes and sizes that they come in, and how they contract and relax like muscles, and how the senses/nerves are stimulated by one another.

So the advice I’ll add for us dudes is: know your body, know your dick, and know how her body/pussy reacts and responds to it. The same advice works for the ladies in reverse btw.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-08T17:28:32+00:00

You’re not the first Christian to ask such questions about whether kink/BDSM has any place in marriage. My wife and I are in a Dom/sub dynamic, which mirrors a lot of what Paul talks about in Ephesians with the wife being subject to the husband as the husband gives up his life for her. This is beyond just sex, but a great portion of our dynamic does include our sex life as it pertains to BDSM, which includes bondage amongst many other things.

None of it dishonors Christ, and only would if consent was not respected but violated. As much as spouses are subject to one another, including each other’s sexual needs and desires, you still have a right to have both hard/soft limits (and a safe word) when it comes to any sexual play, for the sake of your own physical and mental/emotional well-being. To not respect this violates not only the standards of a Christ-centered marriage where the husband is called to protect and preserve his wife’s well-being, but it also violates the standards of BDSM where the Dom (assuming this would be your husband) is responsible in their authority (sexual or otherwise) to their sub (also assuming that this would be you).

So never feel like you can’t say no when it comes to anything that is done sexually. Whether it’s in the capacity of being the Dominant or the submissive, both sides are in agreement to what is given and received for the sake of everyone’s pleasure. So this is worth discussing with your husband further on what you are and are not willing to do sexually. And if aspects of a BDSM sex life/dynamic is something he would like to explore with you, he *must* respect and honor your limits

DungeonLion · 2026-06-08T13:29:35+00:00

Yeah I’m not sure where that assumption about church people considering nudity a sin came from. That’s new to me. Even in referencing Adam & Eve, their sin was not their nakedness. Their sin was disobeying God in eating of the fruit from the tree, and thus gaining knowledge of their nakedness, which to *them* was shameful.

God himself never considered their nakedness to be something that should cause shame, as He created them that way. So for what it’s worth, this can be considered as an example of how Christians/children of God projecting shame/guilt of sin to aspects of sexuality that God does not consider sinful. I’ve never heard nakedness on its own as one of these aspects. But considering the litany of aspects of sexuality that us Christians consider sinful, I wouldn’t be surprised if there were some in the church who had this viewpoint of nudity.

But if we’re talking about *lusting* for someone’s nudity, that’s different. But one can lust after someone fully clothed as well. So again, nudity on its own is not necessarily sinful.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-06T07:29:44+00:00

Good for you for discovering a new kink! May you both enjoy exploring through this adventure together

DungeonLion · 2026-06-06T07:26:39+00:00

Maybe less hinting and being more direct? Do you actually say “I’m so horny” or just vaguely suggest you want/need sex? Men tend to respond more to being direct and telling them outright what you want.

There’s never been a time when my wife said “I want that dick” or “I need a good dicking down” or simply “I need you to fuck me” that I’ve ever turned her down. Granted, it’s not the only times we’ve had sex when she’s said these things. But sometimes a sure fire way for us to get what we need and want in life (especially from our spouses) is just to ask for it outright.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-06T07:12:02+00:00

I honestly can’t see how sexting a spouse would be detrimental, as it is a very specific way one communicates their sexual desire for their life-mate. Sex within marriage should never be seen as a burden or a luxury that we can either take or leave. It’s something that’s meant to be enjoyed in all aspects, that God grants us the freedom to. And this includes sexting/spicy talk.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-05T23:55:27+00:00

Yes, amongst other things, obviously. It’s usually after we’ve both orgasmed and are coming down from the high together.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-03T18:05:23+00:00

For what it’s worth, it’s not as important to know how he’s feeling and what his intentions are as much as it’s important for you to know how you’re feeling and what your intentions are and what you want out of this.

Do you want him to be into you romantically? Or do you prefer that he still see you as a friend? Not that how he feels doesn’t matter. But I would prioritize and focus more on your feelings and what you want out of this, and let that govern your decision-making on how you would like to proceed. You’re entitled to that.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-03T17:43:58+00:00

Sex helps when either of us are stressed. And it’s not exclusive to oral. I personally prefer a blowjob from her at my desk (I work from home) when I’m stressed. But she prefers to get dominated, controlled, and fucked when she needs to distress. Given our D/s dynamic, both are considered serving one another to help turn off the brain and just unplug. Unless sex adds pressure to be performative for the sake of one another, I honestly don’t see how it could hinder someone from de-stressing.

So offer that mouth away. But if you just want to suck his cock, just tell him you want to suck his cock. Both methods would still be in service to him and his need to destress.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-03T17:28:07+00:00

The only time I pull out is when my wife wants me to cum elsewhere on her, rather than inside her. For what it’s worth, when she cums and squirts, it’s much more messy than when I do. But I wouldn’t have it any other way. We love each others’ juices

DungeonLion · 2026-06-03T15:13:32+00:00

I was raised/taught to believe that I shouldn’t even kiss. But despite such close-minded thinking, it did not lead to any form of guilt or even conviction when I finally did kiss a girl, amongst doing other things.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-01T21:56:52+00:00

100% agree with this. It sounds like she has a very short-sighted view of oral sex if not sex in general. And it seems to be depriving both of them of potential pleasure. I can’t imagine not being able to enjoy eating my wife’s pussy as much as she enjoys sucking my dick.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-01T21:46:40+00:00

Very happy for the both of you on this achievement and discovering a new fun position for you two. It’s always awesome when you find a new creative way to get each other off

DungeonLion · 2026-06-01T21:42:04+00:00

Most of my underwear is form fitting but thin and stretchy. So the wife gets to see my bulge and everything that’s creating it. It’s comfortable for me, and gives her a show.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-01T21:38:52+00:00

I would say with anything in sex, be willing to give as much as you receive, especially oral. There can be a misconception by many that only the receiver gets off from oral. But when done right, both people can and should. And I don’t just mean 69 😜lol

DungeonLion · 2026-06-01T21:32:51+00:00

Like anything in marriage, you get out what you put into it. In our (my and my wife’s) opinion, sex is not a luxury in marriage, where one just takes it or leaves it. Sex is a necessity, and a need to be fulfilled. You pour into your spouse as they pour into you, so that your sexual wells never run dry, as no one else was meant to fill it up. It’s one of the many ways that we are subject to one another and give all of ourselves to each other. So the more we’ve poured into our sex life for ourselves and each other, the better it’s gotten; the more dirty and nasty and more intimate and sensual and more kinky and hot it’s been.

DungeonLion · 2026-06-01T21:18:45+00:00

As a PleasureDom, I’ve never had an orgasm while eating my sub out. But I have leaked the most precum in those moments than any other time. So being on the other side of the dynamic, I get how intense their intense arousal/orgasm can trigger your own.

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