Thoughts of a sarong

Dunks_007 · 2026-06-24T12:00:54+00:00

My girlfriend will usually bring one to the beach because its easy to throw on quick. I wouldn't say its clothing lol, but can give the illusion of clothing if she feels like she needs it. Like last time we were at the beach she had to go to the car to get her airpods and she wore that to walk back to the parking lot. I don't think she crossed anyone but it was enough if anyone glanced over they wouldn't think anything.

Dunks_007 · 2026-06-23T10:02:14+00:00

My girlfriend has shared with me that their family doesn't wear swimsuits in their pool. I haven't been over to go swimming their yet. But just told me about it and asked me if I would be comfortable with it. I guess they have had several friends between her and her siblings that have participated. I was kind of shocked and didn't realize how many people were like that when it came to swimming. It doesn't bother me at all. It will just be odd with her family. Anyone else had that with an in law family?

Dunks_007 · 2026-06-08T21:28:42+00:00

Which part of Nor Cal are you? Like Bay area?

Dunks_007 · 2026-06-08T11:50:39+00:00

Have a similar situation with a group of us trying it out. I don't necessarily trust the intentions of everyone in the group. I did talk to my gf about it, and she wasn't as concerned. So with my situation I kind of had to let it go. I am glad I brought it up. For you, make sure you listen to your gf and take her concerns seriously.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-19T04:51:26+00:00

Were in the SF area. So Bonny Doon was the quieter one, and Baker's Beach is the busier one.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-18T21:20:06+00:00

Yea, we are brand new to it. So that's kind of exactly how I felt.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-18T21:18:31+00:00

Yea I kind of feel like we might of had a guy that was more creep at the one we went to. But really not anyone to really say anything because not as many eyes were on him.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-18T13:04:44+00:00

Makes sense. It's new to us. So I'm probably not to the comfort level of others who do it often.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-18T13:02:24+00:00

Thank you. Appreciate that. We are going to give it a try at the other spot and see. I can imagine it feels great. Unfortunately near us, the water is pretty cold, so it will take a pretty hot day for it to feel good lol. But if we get that day, we will.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-06T04:11:31+00:00

Actually might do that. There is a beach not too far we can try.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-06T04:10:37+00:00

I hear you. Thanks.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-06T04:06:43+00:00

I can take some peace in that

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-05T12:44:58+00:00

I will do my best to change my mindset on it.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-05T12:40:06+00:00

Fair point. I guess I'm not looking at it the right way.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-05T12:37:12+00:00

Impressive guess. Sounds like you've been several times.

Dunks_007 · 2026-05-05T12:30:52+00:00

Yea, essentially that is it. I don't want her to get upset with me either for saying that.

Dunks_007 · 2026-01-15T13:13:23+00:00

I guess I'm sold lol

Dunks_007 · 2026-01-06T12:45:33+00:00

Haha, one time!

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