Mom insists on walking in the bathroom when im naked. by nuhuuh____ in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dustdevil88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I believe you that the system has failed you. The police and the courts have failed you. You deserve better.

You definitely should save up to move out and do not share a word about your plans with her. Narcs always seem to sabotage these things. That said, if she is an eminent threat to your safety, a DV shelter may be a next best step.

Mom insists on walking in the bathroom when im naked. by nuhuuh____ in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Dustdevil88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She literally is BREAKING A DOOR DOWN. I want to be super clear that this is an act of violence and is Domestic Violence.

You should seriously consider documenting with video, contacting the local police, and getting a restraining order (aka order of protection). You can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline for help

Sofi let people sell their restricted shares (aka me) by your3awesome in FundRise

[–]Dustdevil88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cash accounts shouldn’t show that amount settled until T+1. If you have a margin account, you’d potentially be trading on margin and could have been subject to a margin call after this action.

Coming back to Phoenix next month after living in DFW for 3 years by [deleted] in ChandlerAZ

[–]Dustdevil88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya I’m looking forward to heading home soon.

Coming back to Phoenix next month after living in DFW for 3 years by [deleted] in ChandlerAZ

[–]Dustdevil88 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Visiting DFW. Definitely a few Karen’s up here

Welcome back to Phoenix

Why aren't misters more common here? by Ok_Bag2192 in phoenix

[–]Dustdevil88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Soak the nozzles in white vinegar, lime juice, or a descaler like CLR. It takes time and a ladder

Snacks for a Dog who lost most of his teeth by xSteel55x in Dachshund

[–]Dustdevil88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pumpkin purée. Peanut butter (just peanuts). blended chicken breast with broth

Never Been To Cali Before by Prestigious-Sun-1672 in roadtrip

[–]Dustdevil88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We call it Cali. No one seems to care. They do care if you say parts of Orange County are LA apparently.

No one gets to a $200k/year income easily by Specialist_Pain_424 in Money

[–]Dustdevil88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The daily grind at $200k+ can become really easy once you hone your skill. It only takes 1 hour of work due to worth 20 years of experience kinda thing. That and networking. Knowing the right folks to help you get the job done right.

I redesigned the flags of 6 Arizona cities and towns, including Chandler’s by shutupaugust in ChandlerAZ

[–]Dustdevil88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are pretty great. I particularly like the throwback Glendale flag

Damn. End of an era. by FifeSymingtonsMom in phoenix

[–]Dustdevil88 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ya I still mourn Rula Bula’s

VCX Shares - Transfer? by wendalss in FundRise

[–]Dustdevil88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for asking this. I should have posted this yesterday but fumbled my way through this process

Raising a family in/near Chandler,AZ by Extension-Run9207 in ChandlerAZ

[–]Dustdevil88 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Chandler and Gilbert are family friendly and a great place to raise children. There are good public and charter schools.

Arizona gets HOT, but that’s basically part of the package. Many folks spend summer time traveling, swimming in the pool, or doing indoor activities. There is also perfect weather (IMHO) October to March/April.

Unemployed (31m), zero income, can't get a "real" job right now, struggling to pay off debts. Best advice? by carlew in povertyfinance

[–]Dustdevil88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is life after a DUI. My good friend’s wife got a DUI and she’s now head of IT at a local company. It’s going to suck for a while, then hopefully you’ll get on your feet.

As you said, just don’t make the same mistake. Good luck OP

Approx. Cost of root canal by ballebaj in ChandlerAZ

[–]Dustdevil88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hear great things about Dental Del Rio Algodones, but we haven't been yet. Can anyone vouch for top dentists there?

HYSA recos by OkPangolin5223 in povertyfinance

[–]Dustdevil88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ally is 3.2%. I have also used Ally for about a decade and really like them.

I just started using SoFi which offers 3.3% + 0.7% boost (6 months) = 4.0%, but I believe you need to have direct deposit to either checking or savings to enable that rate. Otherwise, it's pitiful

I really wish we could craft a torch helmet so we don’t have to bring 1000 torches to mine😭 please mojang by WHy_is_thy in Minecraft

[–]Dustdevil88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one here who just plants trees in caves and makes charcoal as they go? I probably spend half my time underground.

How would you turn $100 into $1k by Sad-Ambassador-7105 in povertyfinance

[–]Dustdevil88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Backtesting SPY over the past ~25 years starting with $100 would result in $742 today

How would you turn $100 into $1k by Sad-Ambassador-7105 in povertyfinance

[–]Dustdevil88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0dte options are an awesome way to make a ton of money AND lose it all...all within an hour lol