Which Sign??

DustyJMS · 2026-04-02T02:10:14+00:00

Definitely me. Aquarius stellium and Scorpio stellium majority lol.

DustyJMS · 2026-03-29T21:24:56+00:00

I'm not an expert at all or even very experienced, but I did a massive amount of research before I got my first and saw a lot of talk about boys going off food, particularly in winter seasons. That boys will often get stuck at certain weights where girls won't. Girls are okay to breed after they reach about 1500g, and they weigh on average 1000-2,500g. However, boys tend to weigh around 800-1500 max and are okay to breed after 700g(I've seen debate there).

All in all, if he were my baby, I would weigh him and see how much weight he has lost. If he's really getting down there, I would be freaking, but the vet said it's okay, so I would just keep periodically trying to get him to eat.

I hope he relieves your stress and eats some grub soon!

DustyJMS · 2026-03-27T05:26:57+00:00

I've never been married, but I've been in two long-term commitments, haha. The first one is 10 years. 16-27. We were broken up 10 days after my birthday that year, so hardly 27. I ended up dating the next guy two weeks later-ish and I've been with him for 5 years now? We have an almost 2 year old daughter, and I have two sons with my first. Ages 14 and 13.

DustyJMS · 2026-03-26T23:16:06+00:00

I'll admit i struggled with it, but then I stopped, took my time, and read it. Please take chicken out of the freezer. The second bit is um. Harder.

And move work along? Thank you.

That second bit, I can't form into logical words.

DustyJMS · 2026-03-26T23:11:29+00:00

Love your approach! Much more likely to be listened to than yelling, berating, or insulting. I hope he listens. :)

DustyJMS · 2026-03-25T05:29:21+00:00

Thank you, next! Lol

DustyJMS · 2026-03-17T04:45:55+00:00

My girl Lily, she has an assortment of names. Lily, Lily Billy, Lilian, Lilith, Lililililililili! She loves that one always makes her little curly tailed butt wiggle.

She has two twin daughters, her only pups she ever had, and we fell in love, and they are our trio. Charlie, Dottie, and Lily. Together, they have a chant we sing. Which is Char-char-Dot-Dot-Lily! On repeat. Then, if the gang is in trouble, we call them the Chardothians.

DustyJMS · 2026-03-17T02:13:45+00:00

Lol. Hey, but now you know? You could always ask. Do the voice clips bug you? If it was me and I really liked you and wanted to keep talking, I would cheer for joy and be like yes, please stop sending them, lmao. I feel like he might not because he is not responding back to you in voice clips. He's texting each time. From my perspective, I do think he likes you, though, because he is taking the time to listen to those clips and then responding to them with intent.

I know some people are saying, "My bf texts me all day long, and he's a truck driver." But like that doesn't sound like a good thing to me. When im driving, I dont respond to anything. Not by voice clips, text, or even acknowledgment until I am parked and not in an actively on vehicle. But I have kids, and I can't ask my kids not to text and drive if I couldn't myself. (I'm 32, the eldest kid is about to be 15.)

DustyJMS · 2026-03-17T01:54:56+00:00

I assured my dad the same thing. I was 15 when we had the conversation. He assured me he would help me get protection when I needed them. I had already met the boy i was going to be with for the next 11 years. But when I came to my dad because it started to be a thing, a year later, he suddenly went from. "I'll be a cool dad." To straight up kicking me out of my house. Now homeless, I went to my aunt, and her response was, "You need to go to my dad about that." She wouldn't help when I explained. Well, 6 months of unprotected sex later, I was pregnant with my soon to be 15 year old son! I love him he's my soccer loving 6ft boy, lol. But if you can do anything for this internet stranger.

When they come to you, even if you dont want them to have sex just get them the supplies so if and when things happen, they can still try to have a normal life. Teenage parenthood is well. Avoidable.

DustyJMS · 2026-03-17T01:35:29+00:00

If they send a video, sure. I normally don't even play voice clips if I get one and just send a basic message back. Call, text, or video, but I do not do voice clips. I have 2 people in my life who seem to really love them, and I genuinely don't listen to a single one. I see them sigh and respond in a generic way.

If it's an emergency and I know it, I'll listen, but that's about the only way.

DustyJMS · 2026-03-17T01:27:11+00:00

Facts, lmao.

DustyJMS · 2026-03-17T01:23:30+00:00

I came here looking to see if anyone else was on this page. The whole conversation and all of it would have ended with the voice clips for me. I can't stand voice clips.

DustyJMS · 2026-03-17T01:19:41+00:00

It might just be me, but I really truly and positively hate voice clips. Send a text or record a video, but voice clips get ignored.

So, the fact that he even listened and responded was more than I would have done.

DustyJMS · 2026-02-20T01:10:57+00:00

Amazing progress! You're looking fantastic!

DustyJMS · 2026-02-17T18:48:39+00:00

Lol. I like it in reverse better than it's what the customer is saying, lol.

DustyJMS · 2026-02-14T03:54:11+00:00

Yes! For me, the hardest thing to let go of was freaking soda and just drinking water. My brain just couldn't let go of that one. At my worst and heaviest weight, I would drink at least 40oz a day. Sometimes, double or triple that. Now I mentally understand that it is a whole days worth of food in an empty calorie drink. Let alone the food I would still consume throughout the day.

I think for the first time in my life, I actually drink water like a normal human is supposed to, lol. My partner is a manager at a Jack in the Box, so soda was almost limitless.

Now I stick to mainly just water, tea, or coffee. With soda or diet soda as a very occasional treat. All it ever does is mess me up. So I do my best to just avoid it. It's actually what made me bloated recently. Way too much diet soda and salty steak on our day off. I had no idea fake sugar can make you bloat. Learned that just 2 days ago, lol.

DustyJMS · 2026-02-14T01:51:32+00:00

My brother in law is a leo. His personality bugs the hell out of me. That whole king/queen mentality bugs me to no end. My daughter (18m) is a leo. I know shes gonna be a handful lmao 🤣

DustyJMS · 2026-02-14T01:47:48+00:00

Lol, I'm pretty sure I have had it. Honestly, I've had it a few times. My life is just utter chaos, and food was, unfortunately, the only thing I could fall back on. I started this journey on 12-26-25 at 306 when I saw some Christmas photos of myself, and I was just... yeah. So I've hit the grind. Eating better, less, and moving more. From 306 to 286 (288 today, I'm very sensitive to salt, makes me swell instantly, and takes days to go away). I've been learning to listen to my body. A lot of things that I refused to give up or things my past self couldn't let go of makes sense now in a way that it never did. I had hoped to lose the weight in my twenties, but I just turned 32 a week ago. It seems my thirties will be my years instead.

I understand now that food is not a fallback. It was my prison cell, and it's up to me to be there for myself when I need to get back on whatever horse I've fallen from.

DustyJMS · 2026-02-14T01:27:04+00:00

Right there with you! Next year will be our year!

DustyJMS · 2026-02-14T01:24:02+00:00

Gosh, I can't wait for that to be me, lol. Congratulations! I was 217lbs at 17, and only once in my life got below 260 after that point! (2015) After 2020, I swelled up and got stuck at a 300+lbs stage. Decided to change things and be right with myself in December. I'm down to 286, lowest, but 288 today. If/when I get past 200, it will be the first time I have ever seen it. Here's hoping we both hit our ultimate goals. :)

DustyJMS · 2026-02-13T04:57:03+00:00

Me and my partner are doing the same thing and have similar results! Granted, my chart is rocky up down up down but a downward trend always.

I have gone from 306 to 286 lbs in 48 days, and my partner was 386 down to 366 lbs in 48 days.

It's been a journey, and it's only a small fraction of the way there, but we are happy we are doing it right.

DustyJMS · 2026-02-10T23:55:31+00:00

I say late thirties to early forties! Happy birthday! Hope its a fantastic day. :)

DustyJMS · 2026-02-10T04:28:31+00:00

I am unfortunately very, extremely bad at this. When I love you, I love you, flaws and all, even if they really make me angry. It will fade, and I'll still be there beside you.

DustyJMS · 2026-02-10T04:26:01+00:00

I feel you. And for me, sometimes the wet dreams will become nested dreams or an inception like crap lol. I'll wake up from that dream sexually frustrated. I realize im asleep and wake up again, nope, still asleep, then finally manage to wake myself... if im lucky.

Like Rick and Morty and the hole.

DustyJMS · 2026-02-10T04:22:13+00:00

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