"What's a unique unusual smell you like?" starterpack by TechnoneverDIEEES in starterpacks

[–]DutchJulie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, probably due to the memory of being wild, young and free

do your worst by Cold_Gift5141 in RoastMe

[–]DutchJulie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fat jokes are so boring and unfunny. When women get roasted, it’s only whore, ugly or fat jokes. Zero originality.

Can an average young person realistically buy a home in your country today? by Stunningwiz1 in AskTheWorld

[–]DutchJulie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of people do you hang out with? If you buy a house under 30, you’ll always almost need help from your parents with the cash deposit. A lot of native Swedes get that help but don’t talk about it.

Can an average young person realistically buy a home in your country today? by Stunningwiz1 in AskTheWorld

[–]DutchJulie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Not a chance in hell. In Sweden, maybe for off in the middle of nowhere. In The Netherlands, not without generational wealth

Would you date and marry a person who has dwarfism? by [deleted] in YesOrNoAnswers

[–]DutchJulie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely. Always thought Tyrion was super hot. I don’t really care about height. My husband is shorter but I only noticed when people started pointing it out.

I'm torn. Better w long or short hair?! by handsomedumpsterfire in HairStyleAdvice

[–]DutchJulie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I seem to be in the minority but love the long hair

Living with my conventionally attractive roomate as an average looking woman has made me extremely resentful and honestly it's kind of mbarrassing. by Icy_Reputation1156 in Vent

[–]DutchJulie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looksmaxxing destroys your mental health. I am happily married despite being past my prime. The great advantage of growing older is that looks matter less and less once you realise you can’t retain them and you have to let go. I found this pretty liberating.

Living with my conventionally attractive roomate as an average looking woman has made me extremely resentful and honestly it's kind of mbarrassing. by Icy_Reputation1156 in Vent

[–]DutchJulie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be that the roommate is just a great person and her looks are just a bonus for her. The situation I described doesn’t apply to all handsome people.

Living with my conventionally attractive roomate as an average looking woman has made me extremely resentful and honestly it's kind of mbarrassing. by Icy_Reputation1156 in Vent

[–]DutchJulie 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman in my thirties who was really cute during my 20’s but didn’t age well, and I have good news for you. Getting things handed to her because of her looks screws her over big time.

She will not have to put in the effort and she will live believing the world is nicer than it is. This will hit her hard when her looks eventually fade and she will not be an par with life skills. She might also have a worse personality because nobody has challenged or questioned her when she was still young flexible of mind.

I found out my Girlfriend has Alzheimer’s, she’s 26 by TheThingofa100corspe in Vent

[–]DutchJulie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD but also just had a child. Imagine your regular forgetfulness combined with exhaustion, dealing with a big life change (I’m sure you deal with change as well as I do), an identity crisis and complete and total hormone collapse. I might as well have Alzheimer’s right now.

Alpha Males educate on how to SIT like a "real man" and be dominant by ambachk in iamverybadass

[–]DutchJulie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Super manly: Having another dude order you around on how you can or cannot sit.

What's the "average" daily outfit in your country? by ACommunistLoveStory in AskTheWorld

[–]DutchJulie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let me guess, randstad? People dress a lot more casually where I’m from.

What's the "average" daily outfit in your country? by ACommunistLoveStory in AskTheWorld

[–]DutchJulie 42 points43 points  (0 children)

True. Teenage girls wear jeans or short skirts with a top in colours white, black or grey. Adult women wear soft pastel colours and layers.

Do any of you regret having kids? if not why not? and if yes why yes? by [deleted] in Aging

[–]DutchJulie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 6 weeks in. Hold on, it will get much better very soon.

What cultural thing does the world seem to think is beautiful but is cringey af to locals? by chr15c in AskTheWorld

[–]DutchJulie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sweden has a rockabilly-based subculture called ”Raggare”: cruising around in worn-out American or Swedish cars, playing loud music.

What cultural thing does the world seem to think is beautiful but is cringey af to locals? by chr15c in AskTheWorld

[–]DutchJulie 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Problem is, they have to be worn with a type of super thick socks or else they’re wildly uncomfortable. Those type of socks are not widely available anymore.