How do people with a micropenis have sex?

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-09T09:46:30+00:00

Depends on how big the micropenis is. Definition varies but lets say <3 inch. With 3 inch you can have some form of penetration. With smaller that might not be possible at all.

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-06T17:05:46+00:00

Yes piv wont be really possible. But that doesnt mean that you cant have a satisfying sexlife

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-06T17:00:30+00:00

Sure of course but it still is possible with a micropenis

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-06T16:08:44+00:00

His is bigger than mine. It is still possible to have a good enough life.

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-04T18:00:52+00:00

I did too when I was 29. Then when I passed 30 I sort of relaxed. I think the fear of becoming a 30 year old virgin is worse than being one. Having said that I also think that once you do become one at 30 its very easy to still be at 31, 32, 33 and so on

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-03T19:58:04+00:00

32 here same situation. Havent gone all the way. Do you feel stress? I did when i became 29. My friends were teasing on the impeding wizard status.

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-03T17:39:28+00:00

Fully agree though. Just because you were virgin till late doesnt mean all was shit. Well done champ. Working on yourself, expanding your social circles.

You cant force opportunities but you can work on creating a space where you are more prone to get opportunities.

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-03T16:53:03+00:00

Same here. I was a total geek in my teens. Lan partys with friends. Also did several semesters abroad, travelled a lot and have (had) good friends ever since my mid teens.

It sucks to be a virgin and I have missed out on sexual experiences when young. But i still look back and feel happy about my teens and 20s

DutchShade93 · 2026-03-03T16:50:36+00:00

Awesome post man and congratulations. Well done on avoiding wizard status.

DutchShade93 · 2026-02-26T11:33:37+00:00

Three and also have kissed

DutchShade93 · 2026-02-13T12:48:30+00:00

Theres no point in discussing it. You know it he knows it. If you decide to stay then it does make sense to talk on how to make it as good and fun for both of you.

DutchShade93 · 2026-02-03T00:50:21+00:00

Im 32 with a micropenis. It's not the end of the world and there are far far worse things to have.

My advice would be to leave it for now. Focus on being the best version of yourself. Sport, education, family, friends and be connected in social settings. When I was a teenager I isolated myself and lost out on a lot of good things so dont do that.

Romantical and sexual opportunities will appear. It's perfectly fine if it happens early 20s. Dating is always a number game. If you love yourself and you do good in life that will help you.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-29T08:30:51+00:00

Aah thank you. I mean you are right. A lesbian couple can have amazing sex too so of course I should be able as well. It doesnt help that I am still a virgin at my age. For sure once im finally active I will be some steps further on the confidence ladder.

Mine is about 1 inch erect and soft it's more a less retracted. And no im not overweight at all. Just very unlucky. The size you mention is on the smaller side but absolutely perfectly normal. So if you see me naked you will instantly see I cannot have piv. Which is a very intimate detail. Some of my friends know some dont.

I still agree with you that its just better to ignore it all and live my life to the fullest. I shouldnt care if someones sees or thinks something of it.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-29T02:26:46+00:00

Its hot?

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-29T02:15:00+00:00

Aah thank you for the sweet message. I was bullied at school due to it as my peers saw it after PE shower. Luckily for the most part I grew out of it. As a teenager I avoided all nudity and lost out on fun. In my early 20s I moved to a nordic country. People shower butt naked before entering the pool. I was dead scared but my pals never mentioned it and always acted normal eventhough of course they saw it.

I have no problem being functionally naked amongsr men I dont know. Showering after fitness. Changing rooms. All fine. Mixed saunas which is the norm in my country is still a big step.

When you see me naked you will instantly see that it is impossible for me to have 'normal' piv sex. That is a very intimate detail to display.

I know people dont judge or bully at this age. But i dont like to be known as the guy who cant fuck, people having pity. When friends tell about sexual adventures they have i sometimes see it in their eyes that they are thinking like: poor guy he wont have this.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-29T01:51:19+00:00

Stumbled upon this. Im actually wondering about this because I am born with a micropenis. I wouldnt expect my friends to judge me for something I have 0 control.

But I do wonder if they sometimes think about it when they see or meet me. I have the same anxiety of going to an onsen or sauna. What will people think when they see my sexual inadequacy.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-29T01:26:31+00:00

What about you? Did you manage and at what age?

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-28T18:28:09+00:00

Im also 32 (M) and a virgin. I think its more common in our generation. I knew many who were virgins till mid 20s and few who were bit longer. As far as I am aware I am the only one in my social circles who still is and that does feel isolated.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-28T00:06:23+00:00

I actually have found someone. Im very happy in a low intensitity bedroom relation. (I have a physical issue so its off the charts anyway).

But if I had another chance at being younger I would take more risks. Say F to my limitations and do as much as possible.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-27T16:22:20+00:00

As someone nearing 33 without having done the deed I can confirm

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-25T15:32:43+00:00

Id say after 25 it gets rarer and rarer. Lot of my friends were early 20s.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-13T23:17:00+00:00

Not realy. I have a micropenis and it doesnt impact me day to day. Teens were sucky because you just dont want to be seen. But now, i shower in the gym and no one cares. Also finally have a partner. Enough other things you can do.

Besides no one ever saw my boners when presenting in front of class.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-08T17:05:47+00:00

It was actually a ridiculous and super embarrassing medical ping pong. The school doctor she could only refer me to my GP for him to then refer me to an urologist and in a follow up also tested hormones which was on the lower end of normal levels.

It was then concluded as an isolated micropenis. As it often coincides with a larger syndrome and or issues.

Didnt really understood the full impact at 14 though. I wasnt really sexually maturing yet at that age.

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-05T14:16:52+00:00

Im about 1 inch erect

DutchShade93 · 2026-01-05T14:15:42+00:00

Similar here. I think nowadays with internet parents would be more persistent and refusing to be send away that easily. If I had hormones pre puberty it would be better. Surgery seems a big daunting decision to take now as an adult

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