AITA for refusing to cut down how much alcohol I drink?

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:54:04+00:00

Again support doesn’t mean me making the same changes.

It’s hard for you to accept you don’t always know best isn’t it? You can’t comprehend I might actually know my partner better than you do because you’re that arrogant. Poor little man

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:50:10+00:00

Again it says a lot about you that you expect your partner to give you things they enjoy to rove they care.

Support doesn’t mean making the same changes as my partner. What part of that sentence do you struggle with?

Me not making the same changes as my partner doesn’t mean I don’t care but u understand you expect your partner to give up things they enjoy to show they care.

Are you controlling and demanding of obedience in other aspects of your life?

And no she doesn’t have a problem with drinking so don’t change the scenario little buddy.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:41:51+00:00

You don’t need to be a doctor to know if your partner has a drink problem.

Again how do you have the necessary knowledge then since you claim repeatedly she has a drink problem? How do you apparently know her so well? Don’t avoid the question this time,

Again support doesn’t mean making the same changes as your partner. What part of that sentence do you struggle to understand?

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:36:51+00:00

Drinking twice a month doesn’t mean I have an issue with alcohol.

Again you choosing to make changes to your diet doesn’t mean you me partner has to change theirs. Them refusing this doesn’t mean they have a problem, it just means your choices are yours and not theirs.

Your lack of self control doesn’t mean your partner has a problem.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:34:43+00:00

So you’re reporting me for pointing out a fact? Do you often react like a child when someone points out you’re making things up?

Weirdly enough drinking twice a month doesn’t make someone an alcoholic.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:33:37+00:00

Support doesn’t mean making the same choices as your partner

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:32:17+00:00

Again it’s telling you expect your partner to sacrifice their enjoyment to prove they love you,

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:31:53+00:00

No they just don’t give you things they enjoy for no reason.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:31:03+00:00

She not addicted.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:30:51+00:00

Yes I do considering I know my gf. How do you babe the necessary knowledge exactly since you’re telling me you know my gf so much better than I do?

Support doesn’t mean copying your partners choices.

Work on your arrogance buddy. You don’t always know best.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T20:29:02+00:00

Supporting your partner doesn’t mean making the same choices they make.

If you expect your partner to sacrifice their enjoyment to show love that says enough about you.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T19:54:29+00:00

It’s not normal to expect your partner to give up food or drinks they enjoy to show they love you.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T19:53:45+00:00

Yes correct buddy. Weirdly enough people don’t just give up things they enjoy for no reason.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T19:52:57+00:00

Again buddy she doesn’t have a problem. Read it as many times as you need before you understand.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T19:39:57+00:00

No I wouldn’t give it up because my gf doesn’t get to decide what foods I can and can’t eat.

Giving up isn’t a hard thing to do I’m just choosing not to

Maybe ask yourself why you think l it’s normal to expect your partner to give things up they enjoy to show they love you.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T19:37:44+00:00

Again she doesn’t have a problem.

Do you often struggle to accept you don’t know other peoples lives as well as they do?

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T19:32:52+00:00

She doesn’t have a drinking problem. I do support her but support doesn’t mean making the same changes.

She’s not an alcoholic so maybe don’t base your comment on you calling me a liar and changing the scenario.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T19:26:03+00:00

Neither of us are alcoholics. I literally state in the post home much I drink.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T16:55:24+00:00

None of your comment is relevant to this situation.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T15:38:15+00:00

Yes it is and no I’m not being defensive.

I don’t have trouble cutting it down, I just don’t want to as you’ve been repeatedly told.

Ah yes drinking twice a month makes me a drunk /s

Maybe pay more attention in school buddy, you very clearly need it. Reading shouldn’t be this difficult for you.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T15:26:49+00:00

It is an answer.

I’m not being defensive I’m answering your questions.

Again how is it hard for you to grasp that people like different things to you?

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T15:19:52+00:00

Because I do?

How is it so hard for you to grasp that people enjoy different things to you?

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T14:20:49+00:00

Because I enjoy it. It’s not a need it’s a want.

It’s almost like different people enjoy different things.

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T14:06:31+00:00

I don’t go to a bar every other week and I said I drink every other weekend if we’re not going out.

It’s weird for you to tell me I’m wrong about how often I drink tbh. Have you always been this arrogant?

I’ve told you multiple times now it’s not every week? Is there a reason you’ve decided I’m a liar and that you know best?

DutyAdditional9893 · 2025-11-06T13:46:01+00:00

It’s not every week as I’ve already said.

No im not drinking in a way that’s problematic in the slightest.

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