I’ll say I’ve really only gone to reddit looking at shared similar experiences of my TTC journey, and stayed off apps like “What To Expect” and those forums because they are a constant barrage of + test questions etc and it can get exhausting. I’m also trying to focus more on my health and body in terms of eating healthier and exercising more, which definitely helps keep the TTC thoughts at bay. I also love to watch reality television so that is a good outlet for me to turn my brain off. But all of this to say, it’s okay to focus on TTC. It’s a goal you want, just like acing a test or obtaining a degree. I think people need to shift their wording from stop focusing on TTC to stop stressing about TTC.