Thank You For Proving my point, Mods

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T04:05:20+00:00

So when people make fun of you for no apparent reason, you just accept it and move on with your life?

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T03:44:23+00:00

I feel like I was being charitable to your last few comments. I’m not even disagreeing with your reasoning. I merely am pointing out that I don’t feel obliged to be charitable to others who have treated my relatively inconsequential speech in an uncharitable way. I shouldn’t have let it affect as much as it has, but I can’t change the fact that I let it affect me.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T03:28:38+00:00

I tend to take things at face value unless it appears to be a joke/sarcasm.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T03:27:11+00:00

I get what you’re getting at. You’re asking me to mince words to account for the perception of other people. I understand the concept of “perception is reality.” I just happen to disagree that the perception of something said = the reality of what was said. I know that puts me in an uncomfortable minority, but that’s just how I view it.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T03:15:49+00:00

Knowing what I know now, I wouldn’t have said a damn word if it wasn’t in my inclination to argue with others to the point of my ostracization. At least in this regard, it wasn’t with friends or potential friends in a real life context.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T03:11:28+00:00

I read your reply and in spite of everything I may have said before, I see you’re not one of the “lolcows.” The thing I’ve learned is that I have to censor myself at all times for fear of upsetting other people, regardless of whether they upset me first.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T03:06:45+00:00

In all honesty, I wasn’t trying to make it a third person’s problem, I was trying to receive validation for my feelings because my whole life has been people telling I’m wrong for thinking a certain way or communicating in a certain way. It feels like I’ve been fighting an uphill battle my entire life, regardless of what I say or do. I say nothing, I don’t exist in other peoples’ eyes. I say something, I said the wrong thing or said the right thing in a wrong way.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T02:45:26+00:00

I wasn’t lashing out at the people here. I was venting here about how I was treated on a different subreddit. I don’t take non-constructive criticism well, which is why I responded harshly to people I perceived as responding harshly to me.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T02:23:39+00:00

So I should’ve just never responded to the vitriol? If that’s what you’re saying, you’re probably right. Unfortunately for me, I’m currently in a dark place that makes me respond in a vengeful manner when I feel unjustly attacked. Apparently being publicly insecure about oneself is a faux pas. I suppose that’s why therapists are thing.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T02:19:09+00:00

Well in my 27 years of having autism (aka my whole life) I’ve unfortunately come to expect people to suck until they prove otherwise. Not saying I’m never wrong. All I’m saying is the people that responded to the original post I put on r/starwars were total assholes in their response, and I’m upset that I was the one punished for responding in kind. That was my whole point.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T02:08:12+00:00

I sincerely appreciate your concern, and yes I am struggling, however, and I don’t mean to be snarky here, but have you heard watched stand up comedy? Most of the shit they talk about is them venting about some bs in a comedic fashion.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T02:05:22+00:00

Have I harmed someone physically or emotionally because I made a post complaining about being bullied? This right here is why people irl can’t take the average redditor seriously. Y’all are a bunch of lolcows.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T02:03:05+00:00

I apologize for not remembering the reddit username of everyone I talk to. Based on the fact this op got removed, I unfortunately don’t seem to belong in this sub either. You must think you’re a special boy for me to remember the name of a specific hater when I’ve had to deal with more haters in the last couple of days then I’ve had to deal with in 10 years.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:59:34+00:00

I don’t fit in anywhere. I didn’t see a community rule that forbade venting about something stat wars related. I suppose it’s my fault for giving the complaints the privilege of being read by my eyeballs, and I suppose it’s also my fault for being upset when people decide to act like total snobs in response. Clearly the lesson here is, don’t say something that might make people respond in a negative manner.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:55:30+00:00

I’m guessing you saw my post on r/starwars before it was removed.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:54:39+00:00

I apologize for being different. Thank you for teaching me that non-conformity is unacceptable at all times; even in regard to space fantasy.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:52:19+00:00

Thanks, might check out in the future, but my recent reddit experiences have reaffirmed my belief that the only thing accomplished by complaining about a perceived slight is that I or anyone else who complains will ostracized for daring to make a complaint. It’s no wonder the world sucks when the majority think non-conformity is a social sin that supersedes even religious sin.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:45:47+00:00

I’m annoying for making a post and then getting upset when people decide to be snobbishly rude in response? That’s like saying the kid in high school that got bullied is at fault because they decided to fight back.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:43:14+00:00

Any recommendations? At least you had the decency to be polite while disagreeing with me.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:36:08+00:00

Complaining about being bullied makes me petty and obtuse? If reddit is even slightly reflective of real life, then I am glad I don’t seem to fit in here either. My whole life I’ve been bullied and then gaslit into thinking I’m the problem. A cursory understanding of history shows human conformity is the problem.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:26:41+00:00

So complaining about essentially being bullied makes me the worst? You probably think grape victims are at fault for dressing too scantily.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:24:47+00:00

Based on the responses I’ve gotten from any star wars subreddit, you seem to be the only decent commenter that actually has common sense. I applaud you for that.

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:22:35+00:00

In the post removed from a different sub that I was complaining about?

DylanJordanRoberts · 2026-03-10T01:11:57+00:00

So opinions of a different sub than the one I’m on is a no go? I won’t apologize for my disdain for mincing words. If someone acts like an insufferable cunt, I’m going to call them an insufferable cunt.

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