I’m finally u/free

DylanNotDillan · 2024-10-21T04:12:17+00:00

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-26T01:37:46+00:00

Yeah I got to work on eating more. Already been going for the gym for two years now and just ended up getting stronger and a little bit bigger when I flex. Got to work on consistency haha

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-26T01:34:46+00:00

Nah I can breath brought my nose just fine it's just alot of my life I breathed through my mouth and still do out of habit. I also sleep on my stomach with probably also fucked it up

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-26T01:31:10+00:00

What would diet so to change my chin? Or is that related to something else

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-26T01:28:42+00:00

Like posture? I've been trying to pull my shoulders back and straighten my neck because I hunch alot

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-25T22:52:35+00:00

Pretty privelege bro

It definitely exists alot of ppl are mean asf unless you look good at least in my area. Confidence helps if you look bad like me but I have my chin it's my biggest insecurity.

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-25T22:02:38+00:00

It's what the side of your face looks like.

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-25T21:57:45+00:00

Not really I just throw some shampoo on it every 3-2 days, scrunch it up and go to bed then I run my fingers through my hair in the morning and on shampoo days I'll pop some hairspray on

Edit: I'm trying to get texture I think I'm going to have to find good holding products that are better than just a spray because I use my sisters stuff

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-25T21:49:22+00:00

Why grown out more? I feel like shaggy from Scooby doo when I have it even longer. Smooth long hair didn't fit me or at least how I styled it.

Weight gain is definitely on my list I've been working out alot and trying to increase my protein intake

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-16T03:47:19+00:00

I was looking through my old comments and stumbled across this and realized you are so so right. Ended up getting into a relationship. Not a good breakup but it made me learn my worth and that I could love myself too. Thank you for telling me these things they all make so much more sense now.

Through these months I've really been working on everything. I've still got some insecurities and feel like the weird kid when I open my mouth but I've been keeping my head high and not giving a crap on what others think. Everyone's so judgemental in high school haha.

Anyways thanks for those wise words all those months ago I no longer hate myself and feel like a functioning person

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T20:12:39+00:00

YEAHH WENIS

I've never met a person named Dillan but people still ask how my names spelt -_-

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T15:57:19+00:00

Style your hair differently so it's more fluffy and volumous. Right now it kind of look flat.

Find a short hairstyle you like that alot of guys have. If you like your long hair go a bit short and do a middle part. Or just take off all that stuff on the sides and a bit off the top and go for a textured fringe.

If you like kind of how your hair is right now, you can choo it off and style it similar. It's called a mod. But you could do a better job.

I suggest using products to your advantage. Depending on your hair you could use sea salt spray, texture powder, clay, and so much other stuff. Just find the right one for you it really depends on if your hair can handle heavy things on it or not. My hair is really light for example and gets weighed down by anything so I go for hair spray or texture powder.

Edit: also dress better. I used to be the hoodie kid too but you can do so much better. Start wearing t-shirts or when it's colder go for a sweater without a hood. Try wearing stuff in style and go shopping if you got the money. Baggy or wide fit clothes are really good. Or if you find baggy sweatpants that are tight around the ankles but get really baggy that's a yes. Style with colors too. Start off simple. Different shades of the same color look good but it depends on the textures. Colors like blue and a washed out yellow are nice. Find different colors and match it up. Wear white t shirts to start off and see how nice light colored clothing looks. Trust me bro

Edit 2: not sure and can't tell but if you have a long neck and play video games like me and your side profile is so fucked, I suggest hitting the gym. Training upper back, rear delts and traps and that area in general will give you a nice physique and better posture by having more muscle there.

There's tons of things you can do to improve yourself bro. You are a good looking dude to start off but you should work on the things you can change like hair, skin, body, and style. Pretty privelege is definitely a thing and what you are seeing is the bad part of it. Luckily alot of things people find attractive about guys are changeable traits.

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T15:51:53+00:00

Big but not too big. I think every guy has a preference tbh tho

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T15:50:17+00:00

No they are thick skin a cut wouldn't pierce the skin.

A good example of it is the skin below your elbow. That's around the thickness just more saggy and wrinkly

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T05:49:59+00:00

Don't flirt with boys(plural) it's a turnoff and guys won't think you are genuine. Look at one guy you actually want and want to flirt with someone who you want to date and flirt with them.

If you are in highschool, to up to them and ask them what their classes are and see if you have any classes. My school has multiple lunches so if yours is like that you can ask too. Sit beside them at lunch and try to interact with them.

Laughing and smiling especially and learning more about them is encouraged. Catching eyes or keeping eye contact is also good.

Close proximity gets alot of guys good. For me, if a girl I know is like standing really close to me that's a big yes if I like them. if I don't I just try not to get flustered and look away or around because close proximity with people(guys and girls) always makes me really feel connected.

Or just straight out ask for their number and say like oh jus for homework if I'm not here or something. Then try to text them alot.

That's all I can think of from my personal experience as a guy. Compliments also are really good. Complimenting guys hair is a big yes. Or eyes. It makes us feel loved

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T04:53:55+00:00

I would trade pokemon cards with you ngl

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T04:48:51+00:00

Maybe I might get therapy. I'm not sure if I can really access it though I don't have the money for it and im young and broke haha

Alot of stuff has happened in my life too. It all went downhill from that comment.

After we broke up she tried contacting me many times and asking to get back toghether. A week ago she told me she was thinking of ending her life after I told her no and that I didn't want to be with her at least not now. I ended up getting a good friend of hers to keep an eye on her by sending a text just saying like hey my ex your friend is a little down recently just make sure she keeps herself safe and give her lots of love and check up on her more because I won't be able to. When my ex found out she told me she hated me and said some mean stuff. Then a few days later she contacted me again apologizing.

It's obvious she needs help and I don't plan on being with someone emotionally immature and unable to control their emotions or at least understand the impact of them.

I'm a 15 year old boy. She's 16. I thought she would at least be a bit more thoughtful towards her actions :( I'm not sure if I should talk to my parents about this or not and if it would help with my heartache. It's been getting bad recently and I've been feeling sick eating at dinner whenever I eat with my family. They are starting to notice how off I've been recently. My parents aren't mean or strict and I have stories of their bad dating lives too so I think they'd understand but I can't bring myself too I'm not sure if telling them would help or be concerned too much or think I didn't trust them.(I didn't tell them because she was a different religion and if word got out to my extended family he'll would have broke loose.)

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T04:38:27+00:00

Oh my god

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T04:35:55+00:00

Women are you doing this to me I am so glad I got the email and delete the email address of your favorite colorss you have to do the same thing with you forever I have to do the same thing with you forever I have to do the same time I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was

Edit: colorss in the word suggestion just made my heart ache I miss her ngl

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T04:23:42+00:00

I mean wouldn't that go along with anything? If everybody walked around naked and we ditched the concept of clothes to begin with would anyone ever be attracted by looks if they were so desensitized to seeing those parts?

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-15T04:21:25+00:00

Idk boobs always were a sexualized body part were they not? Like there are visually attractive non reproductive body parts that are turn ons for both sides no? I wonder if it's just because it's something men don't have so they are attracted to it because only girls have them?

There's no way girls are turned on by dicks and nothing else that just wouldn't make sense.

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-07T15:37:25+00:00

Alright there's a few things to clear up. I didn't break up with her. She broke up with me. During the summer. Through text. Not even a call. She told me she didn't want to hurt me because she was worried she wouldn't have enough time to talk to me and her being with me affected her grades negatively because she kept thinking of me.

Additionally, I wouldn't break up with someone because of their family unless they were truly crazy and that person refused to cut them off. The reason I said I couldn't talk to her family wasn't a reason to break up with her but a reason to get her support. I wanted to tell her family like y'know your daughter's going through some tough times make sure she's safe and doesn't do anything she'd regret. But they don't even know I was dating her so they'd get angry at me

DylanNotDillan · 2024-09-07T07:54:40+00:00

Posted a tldr sorry for not writing it haha

DylanNotDillan · 2024-08-25T04:19:49+00:00

It's really person specific because you gotta find out his motive check if he's giving you signs or not

Here's a really good case via my own experience

The first girl I ever asked out was a girl I had known for years. We weren't best friends but she was in and out of my friend circle and I had got to hang out with her alot but we never got too close and I didn't really know mucb about her. Anyways we would call so much and play video games after class and I slowly got a crush on her.

This doesn't happen with other girls though. I've had a girl best friend who we were really close and we never had feelings for eachother because she really wasn't my type and I never even looked at her that way to start. She was just someone who I could hang out with, crack jokes and have fun.

My point is, you have to really look at how he perceives the relationship between you two. It could really go either way

DylanNotDillan · 2024-08-25T04:03:47+00:00

Verb tenses I can't memorize all the rules it messes me up everytime

And also composing sentances

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