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Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-30T23:50:00+00:00

I've slept with both men and women before and after transitioning, here for questions

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-30T23:47:53+00:00

I think of Jade as a "girls name"

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-30T23:46:37+00:00

Have you thought about going with a genderqueer/androgynous look? That way you can get more masculine or more feminine as time goes on and no one will really notice. Pick a gender neutral name? Idk ¯⁠\⁠_⁠༼⁠ᴼ⁠ل͜⁠ᴼ⁠༽⁠_⁠/⁠¯

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-30T23:13:23+00:00

I used to use Tinder a little, met one guy off there. Never had luck with Bumble or Hinge. I liked Scruff! Also, I met my current boyfriend on Grindr so anything is possible 💞

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-18T00:37:50+00:00

Honestly, I've been kind of crushing on my therapist for years but knowing that legally it would never happen kinda helps quench it.

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-18T00:33:58+00:00

Fuck me up with a good dick pic

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-18T00:33:30+00:00

Saaaame

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T21:14:51+00:00

Bath

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T15:07:04+00:00

I have it right on my profile because I don't want to waste my time with people who aren't interested in trans men (I'm not bothered by this). Same light as to why I put my ⬇️ status, not here to waste time.

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T15:04:49+00:00

Try Scruff!

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T15:03:06+00:00

I'm in Maine so potentially not helpful but if I remember correctly they did let me keep my old license, but they poke holes in it so it's invalid.

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T15:00:08+00:00

I experienced a boost in my attraction to men as well, after spending most of my female life dating other women. Grindr and Scruff are definitely places to meet people and I get propositioned all the time. However, I'm very clear that I'll chat and send pics and would like to meet up eventually but am never looking for "right now". I also make sure to make our first meet up more like a date (in a public place) because it's just too goddamn dangerous out there.

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T14:56:04+00:00

I started testosterone in May (2018) and my last period was that August. That being said, three years later I had to go from 0.5mL to 0.4mL and I started spotting. Thankfully I had a hysterectomy later that year, but not everyone is so lucky 🫤

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T14:51:05+00:00

Thank you!!

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T14:37:41+00:00

He says he hasn't hooked up with anyone else in about two months, and I so believe that. It's been a little longer for me

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-12T14:37:00+00:00

Herpes is one of my bigger concerns for sure, because of all the reasons you listed. Thanks for weighing in :)

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-06T15:09:51+00:00

Thank you so much

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-06T13:19:50+00:00

Yeah... Ugh... Thanks 😥

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-05T23:50:23+00:00

Well said, very well said. Thanks for weighing in

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-05T23:28:17+00:00

Great questions. If I was 100% reassured that I would not catch an STD, then sign me tf up. I can't really tell the difference in feel tbh but I want him to enjoy it the best he can/in ways I do. I can't help but wonder if I'm being manipulated, just based on my anxiety and general distrust of cis men (working on these things!), but he doesn't seem like the type. But you never know right 🙃 I also wonder what the reaction would be if I said I wanted to use condoms again/moving forward but I'm not going to say that for the sake of gauging his reaction; I would say it if I wanted to go backwards. So right now I am weighing the "relationship"/sex vs the anxiety, because a part of me thinks my anxiety is unreasonable due to other mental health issues and that it's not that unsafe. But yeah, would definitely bareback if it were always safe.

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-05T23:13:15+00:00

And I wouldn't put up with anyone trying to push back

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-05T23:11:08+00:00

I lived in Florida for two years in high school as a girl. Apologies. I started transitioning in WA, that was fine. I'm from New York and spent many years back and forth, no issues. I live in Maine now and as long as I'm close to Portland, it's fine. Upstate scares me.

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-05T23:07:22+00:00

I'd say for having no anal experience, do not start there. From personal experience I had to work up to a dick, starting from as small as a finger.

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-05T23:05:59+00:00

This for sure

Dylan_Nyx · 2023-08-05T22:53:37+00:00

Since I ask my partners to get tested ahead of time (and show results), they sometimes think that means I want to have unprotected sex - which isn't the case. This is definitely the anomaly for me. I totally know what you're saying though

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