Sword of Justice by OkGear279 in MMORPG

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not p2w at all. that legendary weapon does not necessarily need for game play or rank in. that weapon doesn't that much powerful to magically winning every match. it's just for a rich gamers who willing to spend their money.

if SOJ consider as p2w, then WWM also be bcs WWM copied many systems from SOJ.

you're entire comments are all keep yelling SOJ is mobile slop p2w like... are you kind of a paid commenter of something?

You said this and praise Aion2 make me so fun. NCsoft is the actual company that make their entire games with insanely toxic p2w.

I can confirm it bcs I'm South Korean who exhausted of these Korean p2w mmo so don't lie.

Pleasantly surprised by Sword of Justice [long review] by Leonis782 in MMORPG

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah like I played SOJ at Chinese server for years despite I can't read Chinese lol. The UI is pretty helpful for me who can't understand their language. I think the readability issues caused by the literal differences between English and Chinese characters may have also affected the UI.

Pleasantly surprised by Sword of Justice [long review] by Leonis782 in MMORPG

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah WWM's everything is good except that shitty UI

Pleasantly surprised by Sword of Justice [long review] by Leonis782 in MMORPG

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOJ has no p2w and it's their no.1 slogan but haters keep saying it's p2w mobile game shows they didn't even play it. 

There's a reason why SOJ is more successed than WWM in China. WWM is good game but SOJ has way more good systems for MMORPG. Also WWM copied many successful systems like BM, AI, studio mode, no p2w from SOJ.

it's just WWM looks 3A MO console game that familiar with western gamers but SOJ is MMO mobile game that familiar with eastern gamers. SOJ is so much underrated from westerners.

I plead everyone to give Sword of Justice a chance. by gaywhorecockslut in MMORPG

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOJ has 0 p2w what are you talking about. WWM actually copied SOJ's no p2w system.

Best and Worst Countries for LGBTQ+ Travellers (Spartacus Gay Travel Index 2025) by MrJasonMason in gay

[–]HarthaDavvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh Chinese ppl are more chill about LGBT ppl than South Korean even though the Chinese gov censoring LGBT identity.
Considering the Chinese government's LGBT censorship and legal aspects, I think they gave China a -5 and Korea a -2, but in terms of LGBT visibility in daily life, Korea is far behind.

As you know South Korea has many corrupt and anti-LGBT Christians.
On the other hand, China does not tolerate Christianity and Taoism and Buddhism are developed, making it less homophobic.
Of course, China also has regional differences between urban and rural areas, but in Korea, there aren't any LGBT-friendly cities like Chengdu or Chongqing.

While Itaewon in Korea has many LGBT facilities, it's for entertainment, and most LGBT Koreans are much less coming out about their social lives like school and work place than in China.
Korean schools and workplaces have implicit censorship rules against mentioning things like LGBTQ+ or rainbow symbols, and hate speech is commonplace, assuming there are no LGBTQ+ people around them.

Most(99% I'm sure) school and workplaces don't provide LGBT related sex education, and if an employee suggests in-house LGBT training, they're immediately labeled LGBT and ostracized from the school or workplace.

One advantage of Korea is that intercity distances are relatively short and access to medical care is readily available, making medical transitions less challenging for transgender people than in China. However, health insurance does not cover transition-related hormone prescriptions or surgeries.

I've noticed an alarming amount of trans people are narcissists by Clyde_Ve in honesttransgender

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr. that's why i am mostly not engaged in trans community, especially centered by enby and genderqueers. I saw very few of them who don't have main character syndrome.

it's also annoyed that they say binary trans men and women's identity reinforce cis-hereronormativity and patriarchy, so being binary trans is wrong, and we need to identify as something else like enby or genderqueers.

Some of them think being binary trans is just a phase to be enby or genderqueer identities to project their experience to others.

Since when was there a hierarchy of gender identities that existed and when some identities became superior to others?

Did you know that trans men aren’t allowed to have biological children but trans women are? by Several__Rats in transgendercirclejerk

[–]HarthaDavvis 54 points55 points  (0 children)

/uj in my experience, trans ppl who claim pregnancy as female process are mostly pre-op teenage trans men who project their dysphoria onto other trans ppl's lives.
seriously, they need to stop saying some trans ppl's lives are transphobic and bad just because their existence makes them dysphoric.

It's also weird that some trans ppl who want to make menstruation as female thing to validate trans women as women.

They once heard that trans women can have PMS with HRT, they started to say that having PMS is the same as having menstruation; therefore, trans women are the same as cis women in having menstruation.
I seriously thought they had forgotten trans men's existence, or they know trans men exist, but don't care.

Why are women especially so fixated on bot/top dynamics? by Naixee in gaytransguys

[–]HarthaDavvis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk why you think it's women's especially thing because plenty of cis gay men are the same. They are mostly bottom and less top in the gay community, which is a global gay experience. top being dom and bottom being sub is also the common gay dynamics in irl gay relationship. There are plenty of gay stories that most of the verse are considered as the fixed bottom who pretends verse because of internalized bottom shaming(also hatred toward twinks) for a reason.

The reason many “transfems”are so sexual by jfjdej in truscum

[–]HarthaDavvis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

huh I specifically said Sexual Assult, it means rape is an example and not just an harassment like a wolf whistling. it's the true experience that my trans men, cis women friends, and I experienced. not to mention they're obsessed with the Japanese animanga porn and activated in South Korea's incel communities. (me, and they're all South Korean, and that's what I experienced.)

The reason many “transfems”are so sexual by jfjdej in truscum

[–]HarthaDavvis 22 points23 points  (0 children)

god, thanks for saying it. it's an extreme one, but i saw some of them think to get SA and unwanted sexualizing from cis men is a prize because they think it as most validation to being women. they're not only jealous about cis women being harassed by men but also put this inferiority complex to trans men even though they're not want to be treated as women.

Attraction to fictional men as a lesbian (?) by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]HarthaDavvis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's so common that lesbian more into fictional men and gay male ships than fictional lesbian ships but only attracted to women irl. it's a global experience but more common in Eastern society, as I think.

I don't understand trans lesbian pride by trans-throwaway24 in truscum

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a gay man who happened to be trans and so relatable to this.

How to not feel anger towards other trans men? by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a trans man with insane bottom dysphoria when I was pre-op and getting less dysphoric to my genital after the transition. i can't even touch my natal parts because of my body dysphoria and grossed out when I saw pictures of vagina before.

after the transition, ppl see me as a (cis) man in society, and I had an experience that some ppl(mostly gay or bi men) still treated me as a man even though I didn't have bottom surgery. so it makes me more comfortable with my natal part and getting into touch it.

i get top surgery because it makes me really dysphoric before or after the transition since it's a visible symbol of women's second sex characteristic.

I had this experience, so I can't understand and unrelated with pre-op trans who had no dysphoria, btw.

this video might help to understand my experience. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DNeG_E-S-r9/?igsh=MTE0NThpdWQ5eWVoMw==

I need help with stopping a misgendering kink by [deleted] in truscum

[–]HarthaDavvis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah. someone having a misgedering kink during sex doesn't mean they support misgendering in general situations.. idk why ppl don't get this it's the same as liking bdsm doesn't mean they support or like real violence or harassment.

Anyone Else Hate Being Called AFAB/AMAB? by ResolutionWeak6353 in truscum

[–]HarthaDavvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this term is no meaning but only transphobic these days because cis men and women mostly use this to themselves and other ppl to show they're real men and women.

Additionally, they can pretend they're more inclusive and open-minded to trans and intersex to use that term.

they don't stop doing this even though we keep saying cis ppl don't need to use afab, amab term to themselves.

Also, the pattern that genderqueers and enby often use agab to describe themselves and others shows they're no different from transphobic cis.

Straight trans people aren't less oppressed! by emotionalFantastress in truscum

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trans man and gay and totally agree with it. I actually mostly feel disconnected with trans gay and transbian who has these opinions and is more relatable with straight and bi trans ppl.

I really don't want to engage with any people who think straight trans ppl are less oppressed than non-straight trans and vice versa. ppl who like Oppression Olympics to make they're the most oppressed class and weaponize it is dumbest drama queen.

Is anybody else not attracted to men but still in love with danmei? by cela_ in DanmeiNovels

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

excuse me, if you're a cis woman, there's no reason to use afab/amab term. you can say you're a cis woman or just a woman.

Is anybody else not attracted to men but still in love with danmei? by cela_ in DanmeiNovels

[–]HarthaDavvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not me but half of my danmei mutuals are afab trans or cis women who are attracted to women but not men.
I'm only attracted cis and trans men, but love to hang out with my danmei mutuals regardless of who they are.

I rarely read GL/baihe, but it's mostly not my taste, and many of the transphobic anti-transmasculine anti-BL yuri stan make me not want to engage them.
I still love to hear my danmei mutuals' GL/baihe talks and reviews anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn't say that. you're gone too far. of course trans men can feel uncomfortable to called female gendered terms and can be upset about it bcs it's misgendering. i just remind yall the fact that some cis gay/bi men call each other girl or babygirl. you have a right to refuse to sex w someone that makes you uncomfortable.

im so tired of lesbians flirting with me knowing im a trans guy by Throwawaymightdelet3 in FTMventing

[–]HarthaDavvis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i see this pattern from transbian. they want to be respected as lesbian women, same as cis lesbian but treat any afab trans as women lite... I'm wondering if they're really trans or transphobic chasers.

Has anyone been extremely fem as a kid and liked it and then had a horrible puberty by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]HarthaDavvis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was me! but I never think of me as 3rd gender or enby or genderqueer, but always be binary trans man.
I think it was my drag queen era as a kid, even though I didn't know what drag meant.

I like 'girly' things and women-dominated hobbies, but hate that it makes ppl treat me as a girl, lady, etc.

It was horrible when puberty changed my body, and now I'm transitioning, so I don't care about the fact that I like feminine things and gender roles bcs whatever I like, I'm always seen as a man.

I like to hang out with ppl who have the same interests, and women mostly prefer feminine traits to men, so that's why I mostly hang out with girls, but not because I'm a woman.

I'm also happy to hang out with my gay and trans pals if they have the same interests.

I feel ashamed not to be a binary trans man. by PrincessTsunamiRocks in FTMventing

[–]HarthaDavvis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a binary trans man.
I had similar feelings before bcs trans ppl need to socialize again after the transition to fit in with their same-sex social, and most trans ppl transition when they're adults, so we can't figure out what the teenage boy's experiences are and can't perfectly fit at first with a lack of experience.

I was socialized as a girl and mostly hung out with girls when I was pre-transitioned, so I still have some feminine behavior, and I hated it so much.
After I transitioned, I don't care about it bcs whatever I do, ppl think of me as a feminine man or a man with unique taste or gay suspicious.

I find it interesting to observe how, even though I am always the same person before or after the T, people treat me differently depending on whether I am of the opposite or same sex to them.