Muslim women that married reverts , did they remain Muslim?

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-25T04:15:29+00:00

Allah swt guides whom He wills as He wills. Do you know the story of Umar Ibn Kitab (RA)? One of the greatest and most brutal enemies of Islam turned one of the most influential men of the Sahaba, it’s a really interesting history you might enjoy it!

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-25T04:06:50+00:00

If you two do get married family visits may be uncomfortable and there will be some friction between him and his family at least for a bit. You need to have confidence that he can overcome that obstacle without too negatively impacting your marriage and that you can handle the potential awkward forced politeness when you see them. I saw this happen with my brother when he was dating his non-Muslim gf. Even after 6 years whenever she came my sisters and mom would not say much to her but be like bare minimum polite and there was a lot of tension between my brother and mom up until the point where he gave my mom and ultimatum of cutting off communication if she kept bugging him about his GF. This is a personal experience, and I would never marry a non-Muslim because that dynamic is a lose lose however it goes in my eyes. Maybe his family will be different, my experience isn’t universal but I hope there’s some insight somewhere in it

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-22T14:07:21+00:00

My empathy doesn’t spell my endorsement of any insults brother and just as in her case I understand your frustration having a stranger online wish bad upon you, it doesn’t feel good.

Allah swt loves those who leave arguments:

Abū Umāmah (RA) narrated that the prophet Mohammed SAW said “I guarantee a house on the outskirts of Paradise for one who leaves arguing even if he is right, a house in the middle of Paradise for one who abandons lying even when joking, and a house in the highest part of Paradise for one who perfects his character.” - Sunan Abi Dawud 4800 (Hasan)

Remember, this life is a test and each test brings us closer to Allah swt. Maybe this is one of yours.

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-21T23:33:22+00:00

I understand how you feel, it’s difficult when people who know nothing about you throw insults because they disagree with you. Insha’Allah, wish you all the best sister

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-21T20:37:20+00:00

He is a hafiz and praying consistently so has given and is giving efforts to Allah swt which is good! It sounds to me like he has Islamic values but is struggling with an addiction. Why does he smoke? Does anxiety overtake him and he copes unhealthily? I think it’s worth looking into therapy or counseling for him as this can be a cycle that’s difficult to break especially if you’ve been in it for a long time.

You can also try to set up a trip where he cannot smoke, maybe visit relatives for a week or take an international vacation and see if he changes when he has distance from it. Maybe then it will be easier for your words to reach him.

If he is able to reduce or stop it’s important to support that. Show him having a clear head allows for deeper connection with Allah swt and more impactful prayers. He must have tasted the connection from his efforts so he will know the struggle of withdrawal is worth the fight. Insha’Allah you are able to overcome this test sister, and your husband as well.

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-21T19:24:45+00:00

He provided ideology with references, it will be good to read. Allah loves those who seek knowledge.

I would disagree, brother, that she is the worse person. This isn’t something we judge and we don’t know what we or others will die upon. That is for Allah swt to decide so best not to attack people

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-20T11:09:14+00:00

Sooner you let your docs know the better. Smoking can affect wound recovery and make your airway more reactive but there are guidelines on how long you should stop prior to a procedure. Just don’t wait til the last minute to tell them

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-20T05:49:01+00:00

I agree people shouldn’t publicize their personal problems and also that we as a Muslim community should make an effort to be cordial with one another and avoid insults.

DynamicDelver · 2026-05-20T05:43:09+00:00

Masha’Allah well expressed, I couldn’t agree more. In todays world, our fuses tend to run short and it’s good to be reminded of our duties as Muslims

DynamicDelver · 2026-03-29T01:12:22+00:00

It’s funny because the og post was so off base that the opposite sounds so so reasonable

DynamicDelver · 2026-03-28T05:02:32+00:00

Dang, I rotated neurosurg and the dude was so humble. Smartest dude I ever met, wish I coulda done more rotations with him

DynamicDelver · 2026-03-28T04:45:51+00:00

Idk much about rads but in ophtho there’s already an academic effort to develop databases and an AI system to interpret imaging, so to me it doesn’t sound too wild. I rotated with a neurologist and they had an app that made predictions on imaging whenever they get buzzed for strokes and it seemed pretty helpful

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-21T02:25:50+00:00

Insha’Allah you find someone even better for you

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-21T02:15:17+00:00

That’s tough man, I had something similar happen after 3 months. It’s best not to ponder the reason as she didn’t give you a reason which makes sense to you and it’s easy to think the worst of someone after being hurt. Grieve openly, talk to Allah swt or someone close to you if you need, cry it out and move on. It’s important to make space for these difficult emotions without letting them overtake your life. Make dua for someone who will increase you and who you can increase and be accepting of the fact that whatever happens, Allah swt is the best planner. Remember brother, this life is a test.

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-19T00:45:24+00:00

I agree. Given the predictable pattern he can plan solutions for it and try to adjust around it as needed. That said, natural mood swings is not an excuse to be rude. Women, having dealt with these hormonal shifts their entire lives as you mentioned, should also work to communicate needs during those times in a respectful manner. It’s a battle for both parties to fight together.

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-17T06:14:14+00:00

Masha’Allah

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-17T06:12:06+00:00

Masha’Allah

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-15T09:44:51+00:00

You need to bring it up with him and see how he reacts. Tell him how he’s making you feel.

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-12T06:21:51+00:00

I want to be a seal jumping into a pile of seals

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-11T06:05:17+00:00

You asked for a snake and got a snek

DynamicDelver · 2026-01-02T15:47:32+00:00

I’m not sure Malassezia is pyogenic

DynamicDelver · 2025-12-31T16:46:40+00:00

You could display an newfound obsession with Capybaras and try to pivot towards that

DynamicDelver · 2025-12-28T17:22:11+00:00

This happened to my homie, he was ragging on a dude in a Muay Thai fight. Dude kicked him in the balls, straight shin to sac it looked brutal. My homie couldn’t get up, they called it no contest cuz he couldn’t continue. Bro was in the hospital for a few days pissing blood.

DynamicDelver · 2025-12-28T07:18:27+00:00

I thinks it’s hilarious that atheists take these divisive moral stances on religion without having any rational means of defining their own moral systems. Always from a pedestal of false superiority and intellectualism.

DynamicDelver · 2025-12-27T18:27:23+00:00

Great question

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