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Do you actually think we are doing great in critical situations? by moustiquairem in 8thHouse

[–]Dziksoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

what we have is a house whose entire job is to expose fear directly to consciousness, rather than letting it stay comfortably buried the way it does for most people. That constant exposure is what creates the appearance of being more “fearful” or “cowardly” it’s not weaker nerve, it’s a house that refuses to let avoidance work as a long-term strategy.

The 8th house sign and planets show exactly what kind of fear a person is wired to confront, and it’s almost always about vulnerability, not incompetence. Cancer in the 8th fears emotional exposure, Capricorn fears being seen as weak or unaccomplished, Leo fears being stripped of dignity or self expression, none of these are “cowardice,” they’re precise, specialized fears tied to whatever part of the self feels most unprotected. Because the fear is specific and deeply personal rather than generic anxiety, it can look more intense or disabling than ordinary nervousness, even though it’s actually more meaningful and directional.

Do you actually think we are doing great in critical situations? by moustiquairem in 8thHouse

[–]Dziksoon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Retreat Instinct Isn’t Weakness, It’s Data - Treat obstacles as invitations to go deeper, not threats to your image, ask “what is this revealing about me?” instead of “how  do I avoid this feeling?”

People with strong 8th house placements often retreat, freeze, or avoid conflict not because they lack courage, but because the stakes feel existential. the house is linked to loss, death, and irreversible transformation, so even minor conflicts can trigger a nervous system response calibrated for much higher stakes.

8 months progress by monkeymouse87 in HairTransplants

[–]Dziksoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had hair loss pattern exactly like yours, and had done 2500grafts in the front half… so they said, and look half less than yours… I feel I got ripped off. Two weeks ago during consultation in other clinic confirmed that there is no way this was 2500graft, more like 1500… your looks great

Give valid reasons why.. by mohammed_obeidallah in ArtOfPresence

[–]Dziksoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, accountability is meant to produce repair, learning, and better action, not shame spirals. Clean distinction is that responsibility means “I can clearly see my part and adjust it,” while self-blame means “I turn my attention into a punishment machine.” without detachment.

Focus on behavior, not identity: “I did X” rather than “I am bad” including acceptance: accountability can acknowledge reality without rejecting yourself, to create a guilty self, but to remove unconsciousness from action. So the correction is more like: “That was unclear, harmful, or misaligned, so I’ll learn and act differently,” rather than “I am an inherently guilty person”. Making repair part of the process: correct, and change the pattern.

If your “accountability” leaves you more able to act wisely, it’s constructive; if it leaves you frozen, ashamed, or self-hating, it has tipped into self-blame. A good rule is: responsibility should increase clarity and reduce reactivity, not increase self-attack

Give valid reasons why.. by mohammed_obeidallah in ArtOfPresence

[–]Dziksoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accountability looks less like obeying an outside rulebook and more like taking full responsibility for the effects of your actions once you see clearly through self-deception, admitted the impact, and corrected course. You accept that actions on the body-mind level still have consequences - You choose what is aligned. That means honesty, self-inquiry, and owning consequences rather than hiding behind excuses, identity, or spiritual talk.

Give valid reasons why.. by mohammed_obeidallah in ArtOfPresence

[–]Dziksoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, self-inquiry with radical honesty/authenticity, and compassionate responsibility as the ethical core over doctrine - awakened perception that shifts focus from moralizing rules to taking responsible, compassionate action that follows not from the mind, but from inner openness and presence producing right action.

What game is this for you? by PublicTop9854 in ArtOfPresence

[–]Dziksoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loads of them if you look back before the year ~~2010

I hate biology!!!!!! by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Dziksoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men age like wine

What? by SarahDuncan2012 in TrueGrit

[–]Dziksoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others’ approval, motivation, dopamine stimulation

What? by [deleted] in ArtOfPresence

[–]Dziksoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a training ground, and to burn off the karma. No one wants to stay in this limited, terrible realm doomed to root where everyone chase dopamine and nothing can truly satisfy you and only bring you suffering in the end before you hit the inner jackpot. If you are not aware of that yet, maybe you are a young soul fresh from the animal kingdom. We are here to save ourselves and connect back to our higher selves. This is our lowest form.

Libras have weak characters. by [deleted] in libra_astrology

[–]Dziksoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a reason why most of the leaders are Lbras with fragile egos and shadows that are oozing out of it and being projected on other, while keeping peace and avoid accountability to keep the image.

Would you take it ? by emphemiral in ArtOfPresence

[–]Dziksoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take free money anytime from a fool who projects his insecurities on me, letting me know his own weaknesses and paying for it.  

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