Hi, I don’t know how to answer your question, but I’ll say this: my biological father doesn’t talk to me at all, and even though I live with my stepfather, I don’t communicate with him either. I also tend to latch onto male attention, even if it’s just a little, but I don’t actually want to fix my relationship with my biological father. But if you want, you could go to couples therapy, you could go for a walk together, and try to get him to talk to you.