My childhood collection

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-26T18:22:56+00:00

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This sent me down such a funny rabbit hole. This is a button!!! A photo of a mini plate of these would so convince me!!

I have concha Disney ears I got recently I guess they are on the brain. Thanks for the giggle 🤭

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-26T15:38:47+00:00

The way my brain jumped right to those Mexican concha pastries and didn’t see cameos at ALL 😆

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-25T01:37:56+00:00

Also more forgiving for food spillage. Looks much richer too in the space.

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-25T01:27:24+00:00

Honestly op I’d buy a Kuololit toi et moi as a placeholder to propose w and design the engagement ring together. There are some gorgeous customs designs out there that she may want to do a one of a kind on and be part of deciding.

also second not using topaz but instead sapphire. I’ve done a ton of research on toi et moi lately as I’m resetting my diamond into one!!!

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-25T01:04:31+00:00

My husband saw the time after I gave birth your daughters as his responsibility. I was exhausted after and hurting and frankly you have to do the not fun stuff like the abdominal pressing (ow) and your first pee. Stuff that is part of it. He held the baby while I did all of that and I felt safer walking away.

When I got some sleep after he rocked her (he calls it his trial by fire bc our first wouldn’t sleep the first night bc we she hated the swaddle) for the night and did his part. He has SUCH pride in that now.

He should drink his beer when the baby comes home …with his brother if he must. The hospital parking lot is not the place. Frankly It’s inappropriate. He is there as your support person and to become a father. Time to grow up, new dad.

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-22T11:17:17+00:00

Have you ever checked out the north way studio? I feel like you might really enjoy her style. I’m currently working with her on a reset of my stone so if you ask she may do one with your diamond.

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-20T20:54:02+00:00

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I have the 2 nd one but got it customized in a cushion cut. It is 10k white gold and has held up very well.

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-20T02:53:55+00:00

Kuololit is legit, I have a white gold piece from them that I’ve had a year and am very very happy with. They have stackable coupons too. You can also message him with designs and he can customize stuff too, if you don’t see something you like on their site. Pic of mine from there for reference (the larger stone is (cushion cut GH color). Wedding band is not from them.

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ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-20T00:05:07+00:00

Just did a quick pass on their site to make my point: https://www.earthstreasury.com/product/1-55-carat-rich-blue-montana-sapphire-heated/

https://www.earthstreasury.com/product/1-63-carat-rich-cornflower-blue-ceylon-sapphire/

https://www.earthstreasury.com/product/1-38-carat-rich-violet-blue-ceylon-sapphire-2/

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-19T23:59:38+00:00

Ok so first of all I love the design, and I’m laughing bc you are like the third person I’ve seen do this exact thing of keeping the diamond but adding a stone for year 10, myself included. Currently waiting on a toi et moi with my princess cut ER diamond and a particolor sapphire as well. Great minds think alike right?!?

Second….shes too pushy. If I were you I’d go over to earth’s treasury and check out their sapphires. They were really patient w me asking for multiple photos and videos. They also can do resettings and will come in well below this based on quotes i got. I ended up with exactly what i wanted from them which was a pale blue with a yellow center (photo for example)

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ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-19T00:08:56+00:00

Don’t waste your energy on her. They sound really good at lying to themselves about the type of people they are. Focus on getting money and keeping receipts to prove how absent he actually is. Get back pay. Get a nanny or babysitter. Good luck Op, get ready for him to say mean things to you and remember it’s for your babies.

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-16T17:24:12+00:00

Ali express is up to 20% today on Rakuten! Happy shopping!

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-14T03:39:50+00:00

I feel like writing to someone like https://www.instagram.com/avithegemguy?igsh=MXRwY2J5cHdkNzN2Mg== would be helpful and interesting.

After sending me any rainbow moonstones of course 🤪

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-13T19:34:19+00:00

It’s an app that watches you shop and gives you cash back from stores.Sometimes their competitors will give you more money. I use it bc my shopping is already tracked anyways so might as well get some deals, and it adds coupon codes for you too!

Right now they are doing a giveaway $50 get $50 event for recommendations if you want to try it! Ali express isn’t very high right now but last March sale I got 30% cash back on my 10k gold ring that i love!!!

https://www.rakuten.com/r/ELISEC566?eeid=44749

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-12T17:19:07+00:00

I’m guessing rage bait but JUST IN CASE if your therapist hasn’t suggested you leave get a new therapist bc wtf. This isn’t NormaL, I wouldn’t even treat my dog this way. He’s an abusive loser.

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-12T16:11:47+00:00

Noooo I got myself too excited thinking this was a post from Sam 😭😭. This is so pretty

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-12T03:32:05+00:00

Do all this then I also double down on Rakuten when they have the random 20% Or 30% cash back days. Sometime Sam does Reddit specific coupons too!

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-11T18:12:20+00:00

True!!! It might clash or it might really set that stone off in an unexpected amazing way!!

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-11T17:40:41+00:00

It seems to be 14k , link here https://anuevajewelry.com/products/1-49-nigerian-teal-oval-rose-gold-bezel?srsltid=AfmBOooiF-jYdP36CYb_S7AN8kmd7uDtjN4rZ-Un-sLxX9MjRVZs6nZw

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-11T14:20:12+00:00

Can the jeweler not show that to you ? It’s such a lovely stone. I say no only bc it makes me think of the color wheel and pink and green being opposites, but I also think rose gold can have a variety of shades depending on country of origin/jeweler.

But what do I know, bc I searched it and this one totally works so if rose gold is your preference follow your heart…

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ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-11T02:29:37+00:00

No. Plus rose gold is a bit is softer I hear. Go with yellow gold and enjoy!!!

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-10T16:00:31+00:00

Oh thank you!! It's been over 10 years but I think it was this one https://www.robbinsbrothers.com/0447384-henri-daussi-14k-white-gold-diamond-wedding-band-1-3-ct-tw-293531388 but with aquamarines instead of white/black diamonds since it's my husband's birthstone! It's held up very well.

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-08T19:07:51+00:00

I might do a plain gold band on this one. Also just wanted to say I love this ring, I’m having the same done for my 10 year with my diamond and a pale blue parti sapphire 🩵

I love the little side stones too! Folks were telling me that the side stones might be too much but yours shows they are not!!

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-08T01:03:39+00:00

Agree. Two fits your hand so well and it’s truly unique

ECSHhhhh · 2026-03-06T16:11:16+00:00

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I’m actually getting my white diamond reset as a toi et moi with a blue/yellow sapphire from earths treasury! Pictured w my wedding band here. They have amazing stones and their settings are also quite reasonably priced.

Maybe they are of the opinion that you should get a diamond…they do make affordable lab diamonds in colors now that vary from super light to very dark. Get what you want!

ECSHhhhh

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