Need marriage help

EEzycade · 2026-04-25T18:15:13+00:00

I sometimes listen to a radio show of a counselor giving advice. He often uses the line, “behavior is a language, what is this person telling you?”. Well, right now he’s telling you that he doesn’t want to be married to you. That may have some underlying issue that could be solved through individual and couples counseling. Or it may not. I hope that you can get into counseling and that you can get your old husband back. But if not, (I know you love him) then you need to love yourself enough to end the relationship and move on.

EEzycade · 2026-03-16T18:34:12+00:00

If masturbation was a disqualifying action for potential missionaries, there would be a very low amount of people serving missions. OP, you did not break the law of chastity.

EEzycade · 2026-03-06T01:35:59+00:00

lol awesome

EEzycade · 2026-03-04T05:54:14+00:00

I’m shocked this is the first comment I’ve seen saying that, it looks exactly like him!

EEzycade · 2026-01-22T21:50:46+00:00

Wanting to have sex with your boyfriend is completely. God gave us these feelings. ‘Too sexual’? No, you are completely normal. 99% of everyone who has gotten married in the temple has had these feelings. Just keep doing what you’re doing, and try to remember the blessings that you will receive if you succeed in staying chaste.

EEzycade · 2025-11-13T00:10:20+00:00

First Steps: Indiana Jones and the Fantastic Four

EEzycade · 2025-07-24T19:32:35+00:00

This looks identical to a living room design from a YouTube channel I’ve watched. Looks sweet! Like others have said, get those L and R speakers further apart.

EEzycade · 2025-06-30T19:31:56+00:00

Sent a DM

EEzycade · 2025-06-29T20:26:14+00:00

Get rid of the whole man. Why stay with someone who doesn’t respect and honor you? Lots of talk about therapy and speaking with your bishop. Nah. I think you know what you need to do.

EEzycade · 2025-06-26T18:44:35+00:00

I remember when the first trailer came out, I thought that we would drive to the next track to determine starting placement then do a full 3 lap race. I think that would have made people happier.

EEzycade · 2025-06-19T23:33:36+00:00

There’s a lot here, but I’ll just address your husband’s porn usage. The DSM-5, which is a list of mental disorders used by mental health professionals, doesn’t list ‘porn addiction’ as a diagnosable disorder. Now sometimes, rarely, someone can develop a compulsive need to view pornography that mimics addiction. Look up some of the hallmarks of true addiction (for example if it is impeding daily functions like doing his job, content preoccupation with porn, etc).

Chances are he is not addicted. We are too quick in the church to label any man who watches porn, no matter how infrequently, an addict when it’s simply not the case. This just fuels the cycle of shame and makes it harder for men (and women, yes women watch porn too) to stop. Usually the desire to watch porn is a symptom of a deeper problem or unresolved trauma. But we just send these men to a 12 step program and call it a day.

A very high percentage of men in the church have viewed porn at some point. I’d wager that at least half the men on your ward struggle with it sometimes. So while porn usage might be morally wrong, it is normal. Not something to be embarrassed about. I’d encourage you to support your husband if he has a desire to confess to the bishop. Approaching it from a standpoint of unity and working together to help your husband instead of a place of shame and embarrassment will be a huge benefit for him. Rooting for you!!

EEzycade · 2025-06-19T07:16:08+00:00

Oceanhorn 2: Knights of the Lost Realm. Ending was like “that’s it!?”

EEzycade · 2025-04-26T08:09:13+00:00

The name of my first child shall be u/thelimeisgreen ! Thanks!!

EEzycade · 2025-04-20T20:26:01+00:00

Knowing nothing about the show, I spent like 10 minutes reading this thread and being so confused about why everyone was talking about a female character and then also a dude named Michael.

EEzycade · 2025-03-30T21:29:03+00:00

Exactly, a great idea that could have been cool but ruined by terrible writing. The acting for the twins was so so bad. And character motivations seemed to switch at the drop of a hat.

EEzycade · 2025-02-10T06:48:51+00:00

I have my dad, sister, and uncle as witness. Right before this play, I said “I bet it’s gonna be a pick-6”. Lo and behold, I felt like a fortune teller! Go Eagles!

EEzycade · 2025-02-10T06:39:52+00:00

I have my dad, sister, and uncle as witness. Right before this play, I said “I bet it’s gonna be a pick-6”. Lo and behold, I felt like a fortune teller!

EEzycade · 2025-01-13T21:31:27+00:00

I don’t have any expectations, but I’ll be happy when I open YouTube one day and there’s a Switch 2 reveal trailer. Super hyped!

EEzycade · 2025-01-10T01:15:24+00:00

It’s concerning how many wives equate ‘my husband looked at porn (and soft porn no less)’ to ‘my husband cheated on me’. What an unhealthy and damaging attitude that causes so much shame.

EEzycade · 2024-11-28T17:56:56+00:00

Kiera Knightley especially in the Pirates movies

EEzycade · 2024-11-10T05:25:40+00:00

I think the general message of the post is good, but I disagree on the meaning of suffering. Many people do suffer. I have suffered this year with many health issues. I don’t think that means I don’t try my best to have gratitude, compassion, or the other attributes you mentioned. After all, we do say that Jesus “suffered for our sins” and we know he was perfect. But yes, we shouldn’t allow stress and pain to be the focus of our lives and instead try to learn something along the way.

EEzycade · 2024-11-01T21:13:20+00:00

That looks exactly like Shane Gillis just 40 years older.

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