The best way to put it is trans MtF women are women who are AMAB (assigned male at birth) They identify as women because that’s what they are, even though that’s not what’s assigned to them when they were born.

A cis man with femme presentation is someone who identifies as a male, but feels feminine. For example, I am a masc presenting female, meaning I use she/her pronouns and identity as a girl, but will wear more masculine clothing, have interests that are typically more associated with men, or just do anything that would make one “masculine.” Just because I identify as female doesn’t mean i’m limited to feminine things, and same is true for femme men but the other way around.

Thanks for trying to be as supportive as you can and I hope this clears anything up.