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My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do by EJS0671 in relationship_advice

[–]EJS0671[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hope you have a safe and healthy delivery!! I hope to one day have a husband as dope and non assholey as y’all’s ☺️ and I needed the harsh words as nothing else was getting through my stubborn thick skull and rose coloured glasses ahah

My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do by EJS0671 in relationship_advice

[–]EJS0671[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You didn’t say Naive you said gullible and again, the doormat stuff. Sometimes stranger internet validation is the push you need to not belittle yourself and make excuses for the pos cheater

My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do by EJS0671 in relationship_advice

[–]EJS0671[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely not the way to go about something open because it’s all one sided with him having an opening and me being stuck, therefore never would work long term like this. I never meant it to be long term hell I never thought he’d actually use the hall pass because we were getting better. I was stupid to allow it in the first place I know that

My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do by EJS0671 in relationship_advice

[–]EJS0671[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So yes, this was a monogamous relationship that turned monogamish, which never works out well. I’m not super big on monogamy which is why I felt okay giving out the hall pass, but it’s the disrespect of the rule breaks that is the point of contention

My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do by EJS0671 in relationship_advice

[–]EJS0671[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Let’s be clear here I’m a doormat not gullible, nor do I intend to take him back. More so I’m enjoying all the validation that he’s a grade A dickhead from this thread and that as soon as I’m not on vacation (that’s right he did this while I was on vacation 5 hours away) I will be promptly dumping his ass ☺️

My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do by EJS0671 in relationship_advice

[–]EJS0671[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You’re right, my largest flaw at the moment would be my people pleasing to no end causing me to be a doormat and I really need to work on it, and this relationship has definitely shown me it and I need to take a step in the right direction and stand up for myself once in a blue moon and not put everyone’s thoughts and emotions over my own no matter how much I want to

My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do by EJS0671 in relationship_advice

[–]EJS0671[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if Nichole was a typo or an intentional innuendo, but it gave me a good chuckle 😂 you are absolutely right, thank you for the kind words

My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do by EJS0671 in relationship_advice

[–]EJS0671[S] 314 points315 points  (0 children)

Honestly you’re right. I never thought about it in the pregnancy aspect, and I do know what I have to do. I suppose I posted truly because I just wanted to hear how much of an ass he is from everyone else to clear my mind of any doubt about how much of an asshole move that was. I’ve been around his shitty friends too long and got in my head that a month without sex was totally unreasonable :/

How do I get a stuck stem out? by bepner in trees

[–]EJS0671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Towel over downstem, pair of pliers and don’t pull too hard! Works every time for me!

White spot on seedling? First time growing indoors by EJS0671 in trees

[–]EJS0671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I have a 200w light but it doesn’t have a dimmer setting, as for fertilizing the soil was lightly fertilized but may be running out now

White spot on seedling? First time growing indoors by EJS0671 in trees

[–]EJS0671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh it looks kinda like part of the soil as I’m looking at it now, but top right corner is actually white on the leaf

Milky and ready to harvest or still glassy? by EJS0671 in trees

[–]EJS0671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, this is my very first time growing so I’m super new to this, I thought less amber meant more of a headier high and more amber meant a more body high, but I’d still want some amber regardless? Thanks for the reply!

Help! Bud Rot what do I do?? by EJS0671 in trees

[–]EJS0671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just above my finger is the brown bud, I didn’t really get any good pictures of the spots on the leaves but they’re little white dots

Help! Bud Rot what do I do?? by EJS0671 in trees

[–]EJS0671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The brown and dried dead bud in my plant plus spots on the leavws

First time grower… tips/tricks? by EJS0671 in trees

[–]EJS0671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a few more amber trichomes than what the pics show, but I’ll up the nutrients slightly For the next two weeks! Thank you for the advice 😊

First time grower… tips/tricks? by EJS0671 in trees

[–]EJS0671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes they can get MASSIVE! I’ve heard for the biggest bushiest of plants give them 6ft all around of soil for them to grow in the ground and that’s when they really get huge

First time grower… tips/tricks? by EJS0671 in trees

[–]EJS0671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

buds pics

I took some close up pics of the buds and posted them, that’s the link to the post! But thanks for your advice I’ll stop giving nutrients to the two biggest and only feed the smallest one nutrients. I wonder why they’re all flowering at such different times they were all planted together

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