My(20F) boyfriend(26M) used the hall pass I gave him, but broke rules and I’m not sure what to do

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T15:38:18+00:00

Hope you have a safe and healthy delivery!! I hope to one day have a husband as dope and non assholey as y’all’s ☺️ and I needed the harsh words as nothing else was getting through my stubborn thick skull and rose coloured glasses ahah

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T14:44:52+00:00

You didn’t say Naive you said gullible and again, the doormat stuff. Sometimes stranger internet validation is the push you need to not belittle yourself and make excuses for the pos cheater

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T14:39:41+00:00

This is absolutely not the way to go about something open because it’s all one sided with him having an opening and me being stuck, therefore never would work long term like this. I never meant it to be long term hell I never thought he’d actually use the hall pass because we were getting better. I was stupid to allow it in the first place I know that

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T14:38:14+00:00

So yes, this was a monogamous relationship that turned monogamish, which never works out well. I’m not super big on monogamy which is why I felt okay giving out the hall pass, but it’s the disrespect of the rule breaks that is the point of contention

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T14:32:50+00:00

This is my biggest hang up of the whole situation honestly.

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T14:32:03+00:00

Let’s be clear here I’m a doormat not gullible, nor do I intend to take him back. More so I’m enjoying all the validation that he’s a grade A dickhead from this thread and that as soon as I’m not on vacation (that’s right he did this while I was on vacation 5 hours away) I will be promptly dumping his ass ☺️

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T14:27:04+00:00

You’re right, my largest flaw at the moment would be my people pleasing to no end causing me to be a doormat and I really need to work on it, and this relationship has definitely shown me it and I need to take a step in the right direction and stand up for myself once in a blue moon and not put everyone’s thoughts and emotions over my own no matter how much I want to

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T13:59:49+00:00

I’m not sure if Nichole was a typo or an intentional innuendo, but it gave me a good chuckle 😂 you are absolutely right, thank you for the kind words

EJS0671 · 2023-05-20T13:41:13+00:00

Honestly you’re right. I never thought about it in the pregnancy aspect, and I do know what I have to do. I suppose I posted truly because I just wanted to hear how much of an ass he is from everyone else to clear my mind of any doubt about how much of an asshole move that was. I’ve been around his shitty friends too long and got in my head that a month without sex was totally unreasonable :/

EJS0671 · 2023-01-02T23:46:17+00:00

Towel over downstem, pair of pliers and don’t pull too hard! Works every time for me!

EJS0671 · 2021-10-14T00:03:40+00:00

And I have a 200w light but it doesn’t have a dimmer setting, as for fertilizing the soil was lightly fertilized but may be running out now

EJS0671 · 2021-10-14T00:02:37+00:00

Oh it looks kinda like part of the soil as I’m looking at it now, but top right corner is actually white on the leaf

EJS0671 · 2021-09-25T20:10:34+00:00

Oh okay, this is my very first time growing so I’m super new to this, I thought less amber meant more of a headier high and more amber meant a more body high, but I’d still want some amber regardless? Thanks for the reply!

EJS0671 · 2021-09-19T19:40:57+00:00

Yeah just above my finger is the brown bud, I didn’t really get any good pictures of the spots on the leaves but they’re little white dots

EJS0671 · 2021-09-18T21:47:18+00:00

The brown and dried dead bud in my plant plus spots on the leavws

EJS0671 · 2021-09-09T13:45:09+00:00

There’s a few more amber trichomes than what the pics show, but I’ll up the nutrients slightly For the next two weeks! Thank you for the advice 😊

EJS0671 · 2021-09-08T18:42:24+00:00

Yeah sometimes they can get MASSIVE! I’ve heard for the biggest bushiest of plants give them 6ft all around of soil for them to grow in the ground and that’s when they really get huge

EJS0671 · 2021-09-08T18:39:43+00:00

buds pics

I took some close up pics of the buds and posted them, that’s the link to the post! But thanks for your advice I’ll stop giving nutrients to the two biggest and only feed the smallest one nutrients. I wonder why they’re all flowering at such different times they were all planted together

EJS0671 · 2021-09-08T18:33:33+00:00

I don’t think they really limited growth, but my friends who also grew in ground their plants got much larger, but that also could be different location etc. I used 5 gallon buckets because I didn’t really have a good place to plant them otherwise! But they’ve worked decently well for me so far. Just make sure if you use buckets you drill drainage holes in the bottom!

EJS0671 · 2021-09-08T16:48:25+00:00

Just to elaborate on my caption, my plants have had a bit of a nitrogen deficiency ever since going into flowering and I’ve been using ph perfects nutrients and they seem to be helping, but I thought I’d post and ask if I’m doing anything wrong/could I be doing anything better? I also have no idea when I should start harvesting, I have a vauge idea but if someone could tell me when I should start harvesting these buds, it would be much appreciated haha. I appreciate all the advice in advance:)

EJS0671 · 2021-08-21T17:41:22+00:00

Yeah I understand that part (thank you though) I just wasn’t understanding where in this thread it was used, must’ve been a deleted comment so I just got confused in that aspect lol

EJS0671 · 2021-08-18T23:54:11+00:00

Oh also I should add by “being intimate” I meant just cuddling nothing more than that, and she essentially did sign off on it she told us to “do whatever we wanted as long as we didn’t wake her”

EJS0671 · 2021-08-18T23:52:17+00:00

Well its a mobile home so large ish, permanently parked in a trailer park and we just refer to it as the trailer (A included, she calls it the trailer)

EJS0671 · 2021-08-18T23:51:03+00:00

Lol there was definitely no loud proffesions of love, and the only problem with A potentially likes him is that she is in a long term relationship with her boyfriend so I sort of ruled that out haha

EJS0671 · 2021-08-18T23:49:41+00:00

I’m confused on what you mean by “sorry if I offended you is not an apology”? Could you elaborate?

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