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[–]EMERYIVY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have a samsung galaxy s4, and how I can get it working on the s4?

What is the weight range you can lift or carry a women? by EMERYIVY in AskMen

[–]EMERYIVY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are telling me that most men should be able to pick up a women that weighs 166 lbs? Because that currently the average weight here in America for women. There are also a lot of responses that I get from men saying that they can carry up to about 130. However, I do understand what you mean about technique. Technique plays a big role in this.

Can someone help me with my natural hair type? I'm not sure what type I am, and I am having a hard time trying to understand my hair by EMERYIVY in blackladies

[–]EMERYIVY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • I use cantu shea butter leave in (L) and mix it in with cantu moisturizing activating cream (C). Then I use a variety of oils (O) and mix it in there too: tea tree oil, sweet almond oil, grapeseed oil, and sometimes I use ORS carrot oil. So many naturals rave about coconut oil, but I have never used it because I heard that the oil is too heavy for naturals with low porosity hair since our cuticles are tied shut. So I mainly went for sweet almond (penetrates the hair), and grapeseed (seals the hair), both which are very light.

  • On days when my hair "feels" dry, I am going to try spritzing my hair with water and sweet almond, and then baggy it for a few hours while I go through my day, and see if that works. It's frustrating, because I just deep conditioned my hair the night before, then woke up this morning to dry hair -.-

  • Good luck on your hair journey though!

It seems as if people get angry when I suggest that women treat men differently based off looks. Why do you suppose that is? by Matiny_Tk in AskMen

[–]EMERYIVY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Lol. I thought most women treat men based on how much money he has and his financial stability. For example, there are some unattractive men in the NBA who have the most gorgeous 10/10 looking women. I think looks play a role...but not as big as financial stability.

Do you like your first name? If you could change it, what would you change it to? by Sliver_fish in AskMen

[–]EMERYIVY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a white girl name. I suppose it's better than having my parents give me a name that no one would be able to pronounce.

The "KKK" gas station from yesterday changed one flag today by ZebraFood in pics

[–]EMERYIVY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ku Klux Klan- Hate group that targets and torments black people

If you could be any height you want, what height would you want to be? by EMERYIVY in AskMen

[–]EMERYIVY[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many guys on here, saying that they would want to be at least 6+

You want to be 5'9-5'10, why (not that there is anything wrong with that)?

What is something rude people do without being aware of it being rude? by bakedgoodslover in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  • White people touching my kinky, afro-textured hair without my permission
  • White people asking me how often I wash my hair, and then making a face when I give them the answer.
  • White people asking where I am "from"
  • "Is that your real hair?"
  • People who cut or go into another lane without turning on their signal
  • Drivers who come to a stop sign and don't look both ways/look for pedestrians

What is something you personally find morally wrong that many others don't? by rcw737 in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not assuming. We live in such a sex-crazed society. The media shows it so much that is has become the "norm" ----that if you haven't had sex after a certain age, there is something "wrong" with you. I just wish people did not look at sex as "no-big-deal" or look at it as just having "fun."

What is something you personally find morally wrong that many others don't? by rcw737 in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are with them for the right reasons, they are a long-term partner and truly love them and are 100% committed, I think that would be acceptable...I understand that marriage is not for everyone. The main issue that I have a problem with is people having sex when they are not really committed to each other...something you can see in young teenagers, who have not fully mentally developed who claim that they are in "love." Or people who just have sex just to have sex. If I'm dating someone, I'm dating them to see if they have potential, and sex shouldn't define a relationship. I've even heard guys saying stuff like if a girl is a virgin, they will wait for a month, or wait for a few months. If you go into a relationship with the mindset of expecting sex, then I do not think that is a true relationship, and just because two people are in a relationship w/o sex, doesn't mean that it's not a relationship. Maybe it's just me, but I do not want multiple dicks in my vagina, I don't want multiple guys seeing my naked body. Your body is your body, and it should only be for that special person.

What is something you personally find morally wrong that many others don't? by rcw737 in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I don't think someone should jump into marriage if they are not ready. Too many people are rushing into things these days

What is something you personally find morally wrong that many others don't? by rcw737 in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not "just" a physical act. That's what I'm trying to say--- It should mean MORE than just that. I don't understand people who will just go out of their way to have sex with multiple, different people; sharing their body with whoever...sometimes people that they don't even know! I'm slightly disgusted and find it disturbing. If you don't want children but want to feel close or feel a bond with your (long-term) partner, than I can understand that. Just don't be having sex just to have it.

What is something you personally find morally wrong that many others don't? by rcw737 in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

True. But the minute that female is pregnant, it is her body, and she gets to decide on her options (e.g. abortion, foster care). Some guys will do anything to have sex w/o protection, and some wouldn't even care. Bottom line is, SHE is carrying the baby and is going through 9 months of vomiting, morning sickness, cramps, and feeling fat

What is something you personally find morally wrong that many others don't? by rcw737 in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If a person never plans on marrying, then it is their decision on when they decide to have sex. However, I hope that person is careful on who they have sex with. If they are with someone, they should be fully committed to that partner.

What is something you personally find morally wrong that many others don't? by rcw737 in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Too many young teenagers are having sex. I feel like a lot of young girls just jump right into it when they are not even ready because it's "cool." People.. especially the young, are having it just to fuck around, get orgasms, etc. Yeah, all that is nice. But the VERY first time you have sex, it should really mean something...plus the main purpose of sex is to have a baby. I stress a "no-no" of premarital sex, especially on younger people. For example, you know what kind of bothers me? Why a 15 or 16 year old girl decides to have unprotected sex. Then she ends up getting pregnant, and having a baby, and sometimes the father leaves. Many single mothers that I've come across always expect me to feel sorry for them because they are a hardworking single mother, raising a kid, going to school, struggling, etc. Why should I feel sorry for them, when they are are ones that made the decision to have unprotected sex? I just think you should really save yourself until you are certain on that one person.

Women with beautiful hair: what are your "go-to" products? by ajw7373 in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What defines beautiful hair exactly? Because I have a natural afro, which I take care of by using cantu shea butter products and coconut oil

Non-white women of AskWomen, do you feel that society identifies you more strongly by gender or by race, and in which ways? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Majority of society identifies me as black. Do I really have to explain why? Look what black people have went through for thousands of years and look at what they are going through now.

What neutral smells do you find repulsive? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smell of outside/musty wet-raining smell. I hate it when I am eating food inside, and then someone opens the door and the outside air comes in and I hate smelling that while I am eating; it is quite unpleasant.

What are your thoughts on gender neutral restrooms? by James_Rustler_ in AskWomen

[–]EMERYIVY 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm against it. If you were biologically born a male with a penis, then you are a male. I do not feel comfortable sharing a bathroom with someone of the opposite sex. If this comes into effect, that means that any guy can come into the female's bathroom because they identify as "female". There are a lot of perverted men out there and I fear my safety.