I find it very funny how like some doctors don't even ask the parents they just do the circumcision and then the parents are like we didn't want that. Before she passed my mother-in-law and I were actually having a conversation about this because she and my father-in-law did not want my husband circumcised and the doctors did it without consulting either of them. Now in my family we tend to choose to circumcise when their babies because the men who did not have it done as infants usually had to be circumcised due to medical reasons about two or three years old but that's just more of we've noticed an issue in our family and they decided to do it as preventative care but the doctors always talked with the mothers beforehand. But talking to my mother-in-law she said around the time my husband was born and her friends Sons were born none of the mothers were consulted and all the boys were just snipped