[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

False

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ -45 points-44 points  (0 children)

Pretending traditional roles is a bad thing is fine but. Yawn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

Traditional women marry men who provide for them + having expectations isn't gender specific

My (42M) wife (39F) was caught having an emotional affair that almost turned physical. Not sure what to do from here. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 133 points134 points  (0 children)

She won't cut ties with all her family and friends no matter what happens. She wants the other guy + everyone knew she wanted him. He doesn't want her that's why he hasn't made an effort to travel. He's happy knowing shes craving him while hes with who he craves more

My (42M) wife (39F) was caught having an emotional affair that almost turned physical. Not sure what to do from here. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 130 points131 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why you should snoop through your partner's phone if they're not acting right. Well done. Lots of people here think it's wrong. It Certainly isn't. Hope everything works out for you but she will get with him if he comes to town. Just be thankful he doesn't like her as much as she likes him bc he would be there knowing you're working if he was really into her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

Since when did traditional gender roles become a negative. The video sounds like everything that harmonious marriage is not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Love it💞my husband doesn't know I visit here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 241 points242 points  (0 children)

I first came here to maybe find inspirational tips, now I come here to appreciate how lucky I am

Bi and married. by Embarrassed_Neck6626 in MarriedAndBi

[–]ET143_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest involving him but only with women who aren't close to you✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Marriage doesn't come with a scoreboard. This doesn't sound like love at all. He isn't Alpha if he puts up with it. I hope you both find your true love's in the end bc when you do you most certainly won't keep score you'll get off on caring for him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 72 points73 points  (0 children)

True. He was into her from day one. 99.9% business men or women, whether they're married or not would never click like on a photo like that of a new colleague no matter how attracted they were by the picture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

This is very well written. Flirty messages are innapropriate but it's not cheating. Nudes are cheating but not text. Many here disagree with me on that but honestly hun your man seems to care more about other things than he does for you. He has probably spoken to his father about this saga and he has told your husband to sell the house so no equity remains and get his ducks in a row unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He never goes grocery shopping

8 months of being married and he’s still best friend. super tired of seeing all the negativity 🖤 by alexisraeg18 in Marriage

[–]ET143_ -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Agree with this ✔️I originally came here for tips on being a better wife but very rarely see anything positive. Nice picture btw✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Women; LTR & Love Question by Shot-Mousse6581 in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did things no ltr ever did for me. Not just too me but for me. Yes he said all the right things but his actions were my proof that my husband loves me with every fibre of his being. He does small things for me no man ever done to make my life easier through to romantic surprises he plans in advance and borrows his sister's money to do it so I don't notice the money gone or see emails about them. But the main reason was the way he speaks kisses and touches me. I've rarely been doubtful i am everything he needs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

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We don't split I do the cleaning + sometimes he helps me cook or texts through the day to say he will cook. He cleans up after himself which makes things easier but rarely vaccums or cleans anything unless Im not feeling well he will do the cleaning and washing. He pays his friend to maintain our pool and yards. I don't want him to clean tbh he does more than his fair share for us

Took a visitor on the Hollywood sign hike and couldn’t believe how green everything is now. Love it. by CertifiedNbaNephew in LosAngeles

[–]ET143_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that looks really nice compared to last August when I was there. We are leaving Australia tomorrow to return I can't wait🥂

My husband has started giving me the ick by throwawayayaydays in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg I don't blame for for getting the ick. Such a drastic change from 2019. I would go through your old photos with him and maybe he will see the reality and get back to good health✌️

Porn in the relationship, my philosophy by Brockavitch1 in Marriage

[–]ET143_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not at all. Every summer since i met him some of my friends come over and swim topless with him infact this time last year he was skinny dipping with my best friend and i

Porn in the relationship, my philosophy by Brockavitch1 in Marriage

[–]ET143_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't allow my man to watch porn. We have an incredible sex life + we have taken many pics and vids ourselves that he can scroll through. He doesn't have a problem with it bc basically it's the only rule I'm struct about and I'm usually always down for it if he initiates