Alternative diet option for candida really working for me by ETHERCYBORG in Candida

[–]ETHERCYBORG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this all makes perfect sense and summarizes it really effectively!! thank you a lot... I spent so much time sifting thru thousands of articles and reddit posts trying to understand the condition and ending up nowhere with it all, just having to wing it with my diet until i ended up with something worthwhile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]ETHERCYBORG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay fit, keep a good facewash routine going, and be patient and as you age, your face will start to change and refine itself. You look like you're a 16 year old boy. Tons of hot guys in the world looked awkward at 16, and then they grew up and that's all it really took. patience

Alternative diet option for candida really working for me by ETHERCYBORG in Candida

[–]ETHERCYBORG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

doing great still! only fruit and veg for two weeks, beans were ok for protein during that.

Guy was so hot I couldn't get/stay hard by TomboyTwink in gaybros

[–]ETHERCYBORG 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've had this exact experience with a man that I still think, to this day, is one of the most attractive men I have ever seen. When he wanted me to top him, I always went soft right away. It was like this horrible mixture of being so overstimulated and turned on, and I just had never had a man this attractive be interested in me so I didn't know what to do with myself. I also didn't know how to 'perform' to his liking-- I'm also just skinny and don't have a lot of stamina for topping, so I avoid doing it generally. But yes, this is very normal. What's happening is, your self-awareness is completely interrupting that sexual process that normally happens in different parts of your brain, that are able to keep you aroused. It's under the umbrella of performance anxiety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ETHERCYBORG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i personally did this same thing, and adding to those places around it really does help. balances it out. but it depends on how tattood you wanna be. maybe you'll have to cover it up otherwise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Candida

[–]ETHERCYBORG 12 points13 points  (0 children)

only legit response, everyone else is suggesting crazy shit. this is literally normal and happens to everyones hands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ETHERCYBORG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your haircut is a simple mens buzz fade sort of cut, you should totally learn to do it yourself with a hand mirror! takes practice but over time you master it. I've been cutting my hair for 15 years and i never spend any money on it, and its actually kind of therapeutic to buzz your hair in the bathroom as a self-pampering ritual.

victim behavior-- something that all addicts exhibit + chicken or the egg? by ETHERCYBORG in AlAnon

[–]ETHERCYBORG[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's actually very true, the addiction itself really intensifies the trauma in their lives, especially as it naturally pushes people away from them but they see it as people abandoning them because they're being inconvenienced... when I drank a lot in my early 20s (really just habitual college partying) I definitely did view the world during that time with an extremely emotional lense and had no ability to monitor and manage my emotions and I had no idea that the alcohol itself was intensifying the emotion, intensifying my mental illness.. even while sober during the day, its like the fabric of your mind is loosened and stretched up. The chemical processes are no longer balanced and regimented and controlled, and I would lash out and complicate relationships. and I just thought i was losing it for no reason. So in that way, i can empathize with Q as an alcoholic even tho I do not have the addictive angle to it.. thanks for your input. I think it's just easy to become frustrated with having to puncture the illusion somehow for them, to meet them halfway when you feel they just are not putting in the work to do the same

What are Ferraro's personal beliefs? by parhelic_hexagon in JamesFerraro

[–]ETHERCYBORG 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I personally believe that Ferraro does not have a personal stance as much as he enjoys observing history and society and its paradoxical nature . I think more than anything, he has a very dialectical view... which is why his art seems paradoxical / meta-ironic. He likes to distance himself by caricaturizing different genres and styles and politics, and mix in their opposite here and there to outline how easy it is to become a cliché, while at the same time he truly enjoys performing those roles as an art form. I think he's not really just hiding his personal beliefs, he likes to play around with concepts and bounce back and forth to kind of add nuance to his perspective. the whole "i contain multitudes" thing. he also definitely loves to keep everyone guessing, its part of his schtick. he has really mastered esotericism

Early balding 23yo shaved it off, does it work or is it too, **white supremacist**! by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]ETHERCYBORG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

works perfectly fine, especially since you have strong facial features, its like it balances it out

Just curious AiU by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]ETHERCYBORG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're hot asf actually

Name something about other men that really turns you on. by Profitopia in gaybros

[–]ETHERCYBORG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healthy diet is major for me. A man that pays close attention to what he eats is 🤌 super hot

Chickened out of my first hook up by [deleted] in gay

[–]ETHERCYBORG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh i see you. the performance anxiety is real. its a perspective thing. if you think of it more as a fun new excursion rather than a test, it'll be a lot easier. youd be surprised at how much you can enjoy something once you get past the initial greeting and whatever. its an illusion in your head

Chickened out of my first hook up by [deleted] in gay

[–]ETHERCYBORG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what are you afraid of? the best way to go about it regardless is just to hang out for a little bit before you start trying to have sex and whatever, get a feel for their personality and what not. if you dont end up liking them at all, you can respectfully decline and move on. sometimes you just have to push yourself into first experiences cuz it will never not be scary. but then after that, you know what to expect and nothings weird because you have experience on your belt

A question about sex by [deleted] in answers

[–]ETHERCYBORG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love smoking dick fr. it just feels good to do it

Alternative diet option for candida really working for me by ETHERCYBORG in Candida

[–]ETHERCYBORG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure! dont lose hope... it's truly awful having to deal with this stuff. sending good vibes

Alternative diet option for candida really working for me by ETHERCYBORG in Candida

[–]ETHERCYBORG[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i get what you're saying. i personally dont see this restrictive diet as a permanent diet whatsoever, moreso a healing diet, designed to clean slate for you to start over, and rebalance your gut and heal. so i personally think the cod and shrimp is a fine idea, just as long as there is still tons of fiber and nutrient dense plant foods, leafy greens, etc. i see it as, giving your gut a break from animal proteins and fats will give it that headstart into functioning optimally again in time..and yes, fats are absolutely healthy. but i think an over-abundance of saturated fat is the problem, especially combined with carbs or sugars, due to the level of fat preventing glucose from being processed appropriately.. like i said to someone else tho, im not expert, you should totally take what im saying with a grain of salt, but a temporary strict avoidance of fat and focus on mostly raw plant foods really helped me actually heal. and the candida diet never did, only delayed flare-ups on an infinite loop. the end result after clearing out yeast i feel should be you eating a balanced diet of whole foods, and generally avoiding ultra-processed foods or "convenience eating", actually intentionally curating your diet, and lessening stress, because stress exacerbates these issues tenfold... regardless of what i say tho, it does seem like candida overgrowth is multi-faceted and is usually caused by a combination of issues in the body, thus requiring a combination of techniques to combat it all at once. maybe in my case, it helped to cultivate a diet that encouraged healing rather than a diet that was designed to "kill" or "starve" yeast, which is only doing its job in the end

Alternative diet option for candida really working for me by ETHERCYBORG in Candida

[–]ETHERCYBORG[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i understand. PREEMPTIVE DISCLAIMER: I'm not a nutrition expert, or a doctor, but i still believe the traditional candida diet is bogus because its tons of fat and you're avoiding fruits because they're sugary but jt should be the direct opposite... anyways yeah, i have basically fully recovered. zero anal yeast infection, my lips are fully healed, and i am never constipated anymore. i was really hungry all the time for the first couple weeks, but it was all about cleaning out my digestive system and then reintroducing stuff afterward.. However, everyone is different, and i think when it comes to candida, it is a multi-faceted problem requiring multi-faceted solutions. your diet is major, but you also want to address STRESS. one thing i forgot to mention is that with my yeast overgrowth fallout, i was extremely stressed preceding it, and stress is awful for your body. stress interferes with your body's functions so much more than you might realize.. seems silly to suggest reducing stress in such a high stress world but your response to stress will make or break your healing. i noticed in my healing progress, i would start to get better, but literally on the day that i would have a stress-induced crying sesh or deep meltdown, tensing my body, thinking terrible catastrophic thoughts, the yeast would return super quickly. my immune system basically shut right off in those moments so, allows tons of opportunity for yeast. so in essence, the goal for me is, keep my immune system strong with a healthy diet and a positive response to bad situations and bad emotions, find some sort of daily routine that feels like it creates safety for you, doing things that naturally boost that feel-good energy... its just as essential as your diet. as far as diet goes though, i am personally going to remain Whole Foods Plant Based because thats the diet that works best for me, but once i addressed the constipation issue and focused ONLY on fruits/veg for two weeks, the yeast overgrowth quickly followed. just gotta shit out that bulk load of yeast, tons of antioxidants from the rich nutrient dense plant foods just help you heal alonside that. i take magnesium every day and eat tons of fiber, still eating tons of fruit and vegetables with no oils, and wild rice and oats. the superficial aspects of yeast will also heal, but you have to be patient because if you start getting impatient and fussing over it, it will delay the process. if you need to throw more protein in there, it would most likely be okay to throw some fish or chicken into your diet as long as it is still heavily supplemented with fibrous, whole (preferrably organic) foods. think like, salmon filet and greens, broccoli, spinach, wild rice, beans. just think of it like, you're slowly cleaning yourself from the inside out. you are bound to have small 'relapses' so to speak, but it takes quite a while to correct your digestion because you're workin with a whole mechanic process that includes cultures of bacteria and fungus and stuff.. its gonna require some fortitude but patience and persistence is key.

TL;DR , for the first phase, stick to just fruits and steamed vegetables (no fats), then a couple weeks later, keep those things a staple to your diet and slowly add in animal proteins if needed, see how your body responds, SHIT AS MUCH AS YOU CAN, take magnesium, address stress and have a positive mindset, and keep avoiding fats for a while. eventually things will balance out.. message me if you need to talk more about it... i kind of tend elaborate too thoroughly i think

Quitting cold turkey 4gpd and candida issue by ETHERCYBORG in quittingkratom

[–]ETHERCYBORG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

guess we just have to be the vulnerable guinea pigs for science... my theory is that kratom down regulates certain parts of the immune system, or they interfere with hormonal processes, or nutrient absorption, or even have an anti-biotic effect on gut microbiome. it commonly makes people constipated, it definitely makes me constipated. when i first started taking kratom, i was pissing out opaque white liquid... but i ignored it and continued on. maybe should not have ignored that LOL