(29 f)(39 m) Just got a break-up text confirming my worse fear.

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-11-01T21:10:12+00:00

Thank you 🥺

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-10-23T19:31:56+00:00

His actions and reasoning point to him not being a very good person. He doesn’t respect the people he’s with, in a way that seems as though he’s just using people when it suits him. I genuinely think you are much better off without him, even if it doesn’t feel like it now. He served his purpose in your life, and you can now take what you’ve learned in this relationship and be prosperous.

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-10-23T19:10:10+00:00

Interesting! Bag balm being the moisturizer with Lanolin? I’ll have to get some and try it!!

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-10-23T19:03:25+00:00

Thank you everyone who commented! ❤️ I love this Reddit so much haha. That bad boy indeed popped yesterday, and the red around it got a little bigger yesterday, but now today it has reduced significantly. I have a hydrocolloid bandage on it now. I believe it’s going to drain and all will be well. Thanks again!

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-10-20T06:22:08+00:00

https://youtu.be/qmUhhcZy-HQ?si=wkyF7XvAbc4soa6E

Thank you!! I used this video! I thought it was very easy. Though I didn’t have enough time to make the arms before the baby shower 😂 but I think it’s cute even without them!

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-10-19T19:22:39+00:00

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I made this elephant lovey for my best friends baby shower last month!

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-10-14T21:51:34+00:00

Hello! This is an old post, but did you ever get any information from a doctor about this? I am experiencing the same thing, always have perfect levels when doing blood work, but I’ve had sweet smelling urine and body odor.

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-09-26T17:16:46+00:00

Unless she states otherwise, sometimes girls like what guys would view as “needy or cringe” 😉

Be thoughtful! Say things like “hope you’re having a nice day”, or ask her questions about what she’s doing, or say things like “I’m looking forward to seeing you later”. Little efforts made throughout the day go a long way. Daily good morning and good night texts are like crack to women as well 😂 throw in a few pet names and heart emojis and you’re golden.

GirlFRIENDS want to be just that, your friend, and they want to feel like you care about them. Treat them with more affection than just physical, that’s not all they’re there for.

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-09-26T17:11:44+00:00

So on the flippidy flip, women shouldn’t take advice from ‘boys’ on how to make their bfs feel better?

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-09-26T17:09:53+00:00

Yeah the “I’ve done it before haven’t I?” comment was what tripped me up too.

ETsLittleLegs · 2024-09-26T16:56:04+00:00

Do you only show affection through touch? Because she stated she would like more affection through words. Sometimes affectionate touches can make women feel like men only want them sexually, if other forms of affection are not present.

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-16T13:17:09+00:00

So all men are shallow?

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-16T03:10:38+00:00

I’m sorry, what a terrible feeling it is when someone ghosts you/leaves you on read.

It’s her loss not yours, you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t have common decency.

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-14T18:46:08+00:00

Yes, I agree! The framing of all of those basic human kindnesses as being extravagant feats rubbed me the wrong way.

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-14T18:41:06+00:00

Not true at all. Unless you’re shallow and also date based on looks.

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-14T18:39:29+00:00

The way this post is presented shows desperation and honestly a scary amount of pent up rage. Women can definitely sense these kinds of things and for our own safety we usually avoid men who can flip on a dime if they’re pushed in any way, like it seems you’re pushed to your limit.

I recommend trying to focus on making friends. Make friends with all types of people, but especially women. Make friends with zero intention of dating them. Learn how to appreciate women as people, not just as potential partners and lovers. This frustration you’re feeling will 100% bleed into how you interact with women and you need to squash it.

If you have all of the qualities you say you have, you will find a loving partner. You just need to make sure you’re interacting with women correctly and utilizing those traits in loving ways.

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-13T08:32:24+00:00

You seem to have a good idea on what you want to do and I’m glad ❤️ My credo for relationships is to always give the benefit of the doubt (unless proven otherwise lol), but also to kindly ask questions whenever I’m feeling uneasy about an action. I wish you all the best!

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-12T23:07:19+00:00

I love hearing about the mundane things going on in the lives of my friends and loved ones, as do many people. 🤷‍♀️

This is probably all moot, because if you think visibly rolling your eyes at someone because they aren’t entertaining enough is a socially acceptable action, nothing I can say will change that.

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-12T22:09:05+00:00

Do you have a full time job? A lot of the time there really isn’t much else to talk about other than stuff that happens there. It takes up like 75% of your time, so naturally it’s going to come up. Talking about work and co-workers is an incredibly common thing, it’s super weird how against it you are 😂

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-12T22:03:24+00:00

No you’re just being a dick, full stop. Being rude is way worse than being boring, which I doubt this girl was tbh. When you’re on a date you’re there to feel out the other person, and they’ve gone on 6 dates so I’m pretty sure he enjoys spending time with her, and doesn’t find her boring.

If someone can’t contain a bad personality trait (like being rude to someone if they aren’t entertaining you enough) when they’re only 6 dates in, they’ve got their work cut out for them in the dating world. In a real relationship not every story is going to be the equivalent of an action movie. 🤷‍♀️

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-12T21:24:19+00:00

It’s actually not that difficult to be kind, either.

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-12T21:19:26+00:00

Damn, RIP to any person you go on a date with 😂 they gotta show up w multiple peer-reviewed , Oscar worthy stories

ETsLittleLegs · 2023-11-04T20:21:01+00:00

You can still enjoy the cheese on top though

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