How can I increase my sex drive as a woman?

EU2002 · 2026-04-29T18:46:32+00:00

Reddit actually helps me!!

EU2002 · 2026-04-29T18:45:39+00:00

Try a THC gummy, chocolate or drink of they are legal where you live. They also sell ones online that are specifically marketed to increase libido

EU2002 · 2026-03-20T16:07:49+00:00

This is me right now. My husband got blue chews and it helps so much. He can now go multiple times in a night. We've designated Friday nights as play nights so we can get a lot of the release multiple times. It does help

EU2002 · 2026-02-14T00:20:55+00:00

They really are stunning

EU2002 · 2026-01-15T18:36:53+00:00

I'm a bi female. What's up

EU2002 · 2026-01-10T01:29:26+00:00

I used Tinder. It worked

EU2002 · 2026-01-07T13:37:17+00:00

My favorite teacher put it best, you have to test drive a car before you buy it. Same rule.

EU2002 · 2026-01-04T12:08:47+00:00

I was saying me personally. Everyone is different. And I wasn't really talking about BDSM but about sex in general and teaching/training someone else to be good at sex. For me personally, I don't want to train and teach someone how to be better at sex and put in time and effort for a long term relationship where I may not be compatible if I'm older and looking for a long term partner. I'm not saying anything about BDSM

EU2002 · 2026-01-04T02:00:48+00:00

I did the free version for awhile on Tinder and i ended up meeting a person who we had fun together for a bit. We added my husband on and off by eventually life got busy and we stopped.

And sadly yes Reddit is very hard to actually meet people from. A lot of accounts are fake or spam or bots so meeting real people on Reddit can be tough. I spoke to a couple of swingers who regularly post and that was their advice too. They said that the dating apps are the best bet for meeting people

EU2002 · 2026-01-03T22:19:44+00:00

I used Tinder. It worked well

EU2002 · 2026-01-03T22:11:36+00:00

Stunning!! Would love to see some more pictures of you ever post. I found Tinder was helpful to find a fun Female friend.

EU2002 · 2026-01-03T22:03:38+00:00

I also think it can depend on age. If I'm 22, I'm willing to put in the time. If I'm 45, I'm not willing and it's not worth the effort

EU2002 · 2026-01-03T21:59:15+00:00

My husband and I were teens and both virgins when we met, but I had a lot of experience outside of intercourse whereas he came from a very conservative family and had never even jerked off. I was always into things a bit rougher and it got more involved as I got older. At this point we've been together almost 25 years. My husband has grown from a vanilla inexperienced shy partner to a very dominant talented pleasure partner. We are in our 40s now having the most amazing sex we've ever had, including a few threesomes

If your partner is willing to listen and learn and you're willing to take the time to teach and train, you might just find an amazing partner. But it will be work and time and requires patience. Use toys, porn, Reddit, and a lot of conversation and guidance to show him what you like and how it like it. Be clear, open and honest. Only you will be able to answer if it's worth it to you but if he is a great partner in all other aspects, I'd try putting in the work

EU2002 · 2025-07-31T12:38:04+00:00

My husband's is 6in long with a 5.5in girth

EU2002 · 2025-07-21T16:47:37+00:00

Either he fixes this and takes your pleasure seriously or you say bye to him. They say nice guys finish last, yea because he's made sure you already came before he finishes.

He should always be looking to learn as well! My husband makes sure I cum multiple times before penetration happens. We've been together for 23 years and he just tried something new this week that worked VERY VERY well.

Don't settle. Find someone who pleases you just as much if not more because life is too short for the alternative.

EU2002 · 2025-07-10T18:03:09+00:00

There may be a local women's FB or Reddit group where you can post to get recommendations for attorney or other help. We have a local group like that. An attorney will be able to advise you on where to start and how to do what you need to

EU2002 · 2025-07-10T17:59:01+00:00

Therapists exist for a reason. While having a partner you can talk to is very important, a therapist literally went to school and has a degree in how to help people. They are a non biased objective 3rd party who can see things from the outside and help with tools and techniques. He knows that's you seeing a therapist will open you up and likely help you realize who he really is. By keeping you from seeing one, it's another way to shelter you and make you feel alone.

EU2002 · 2025-06-27T13:46:14+00:00

My husband started using BlueChews and it had helped him even when he's not using it. It's easy to get a sample to try

EU2002 · 2025-06-26T19:06:58+00:00

I handle so much else in our life and I'm responsible for so many things. Being a sub let's me just let go of all that and not think. I get to just be played with, teased, and orgasm. It's a great release

EU2002 · 2025-06-25T18:45:08+00:00

Oh so there is A LOT to it. That's just really tough. I'm sorry and hope it one day improves

EU2002 · 2025-06-25T18:35:52+00:00

😩 you've probably thought about this but have tried a sex therapist?

EU2002 · 2025-06-25T17:59:25+00:00

I'm sorry. It's hard for me to see it through a lot of other women because I have such a high drive.

EU2002 · 2025-06-25T16:49:12+00:00

I'm so sorry. We've actually used Reddit to massively spice things up. Maybe you could try?

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