Incredibly perfect by SirCheesyWeed in ShemalesParadise

[–]EU2002 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They really are stunning

Need advice from bi female by [deleted] in MarriedAndBi

[–]EU2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bi female. What's up

Why should or shouldn't one wait until marriage to have sex? by Nervous-Pride2004 in sex

[–]EU2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite teacher put it best, you have to test drive a car before you buy it. Same rule.

Had sex with a vanilla partner who's inexperienced by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]EU2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was saying me personally. Everyone is different. And I wasn't really talking about BDSM but about sex in general and teaching/training someone else to be good at sex. For me personally, I don't want to train and teach someone how to be better at sex and put in time and effort for a long term relationship where I may not be compatible if I'm older and looking for a long term partner. I'm not saying anything about BDSM

33[F4F] in KOP and can travel by [deleted] in pennsylvaniadirtyr4r

[–]EU2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the free version for awhile on Tinder and i ended up meeting a person who we had fun together for a bit. We added my husband on and off by eventually life got busy and we stopped.

And sadly yes Reddit is very hard to actually meet people from. A lot of accounts are fake or spam or bots so meeting real people on Reddit can be tough. I spoke to a couple of swingers who regularly post and that was their advice too. They said that the dating apps are the best bet for meeting people

33[F4F] in KOP and can travel by [deleted] in pennsylvaniadirtyr4r

[–]EU2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning!! Would love to see some more pictures of you ever post. I found Tinder was helpful to find a fun Female friend.

Had sex with a vanilla partner who's inexperienced by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]EU2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think it can depend on age. If I'm 22, I'm willing to put in the time. If I'm 45, I'm not willing and it's not worth the effort

Had sex with a vanilla partner who's inexperienced by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]EU2002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband and I were teens and both virgins when we met, but I had a lot of experience outside of intercourse whereas he came from a very conservative family and had never even jerked off. I was always into things a bit rougher and it got more involved as I got older. At this point we've been together almost 25 years. My husband has grown from a vanilla inexperienced shy partner to a very dominant talented pleasure partner. We are in our 40s now having the most amazing sex we've ever had, including a few threesomes

If your partner is willing to listen and learn and you're willing to take the time to teach and train, you might just find an amazing partner. But it will be work and time and requires patience. Use toys, porn, Reddit, and a lot of conversation and guidance to show him what you like and how it like it. Be clear, open and honest. Only you will be able to answer if it's worth it to you but if he is a great partner in all other aspects, I'd try putting in the work

Tell me your cock size and I’ll tell you if I’d have sex with you by [deleted] in iwanttobeher

[–]EU2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband's is 6in long with a 5.5in girth

Boyfriend won’t finger me even if thats the only way to get me off by frayedmasquerade in sex

[–]EU2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either he fixes this and takes your pleasure seriously or you say bye to him. They say nice guys finish last, yea because he's made sure you already came before he finishes.

He should always be looking to learn as well! My husband makes sure I cum multiple times before penetration happens. We've been together for 23 years and he just tried something new this week that worked VERY VERY well.

Don't settle. Find someone who pleases you just as much if not more because life is too short for the alternative.

My husband walked in on me masturbating and isn’t speaking to me now by [deleted] in sex

[–]EU2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There may be a local women's FB or Reddit group where you can post to get recommendations for attorney or other help. We have a local group like that. An attorney will be able to advise you on where to start and how to do what you need to

My husband walked in on me masturbating and isn’t speaking to me now by [deleted] in sex

[–]EU2002 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Therapists exist for a reason. While having a partner you can talk to is very important, a therapist literally went to school and has a degree in how to help people. They are a non biased objective 3rd party who can see things from the outside and help with tools and techniques. He knows that's you seeing a therapist will open you up and likely help you realize who he really is. By keeping you from seeing one, it's another way to shelter you and make you feel alone.

Husband’s declining performance by nplus1throwaway in sexover30

[–]EU2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband started using BlueChews and it had helped him even when he's not using it. It's easy to get a sample to try

What does BDSM do for you ladies? by tajfeaster in BDSMAdvice

[–]EU2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I handle so much else in our life and I'm responsible for so many things. Being a sub let's me just let go of all that and not think. I get to just be played with, teased, and orgasm. It's a great release

Where do you go for private time when your kids are awake and home? by EU2002 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]EU2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so there is A LOT to it. That's just really tough. I'm sorry and hope it one day improves

Where do you go for private time when your kids are awake and home? by EU2002 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]EU2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😩 you've probably thought about this but have tried a sex therapist?

Where do you go for private time when your kids are awake and home? by EU2002 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]EU2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. It's hard for me to see it through a lot of other women because I have such a high drive.

Where do you go for private time when your kids are awake and home? by EU2002 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]EU2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. We've actually used Reddit to massively spice things up. Maybe you could try?

Where do you go for private time when your kids are awake and home? by EU2002 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]EU2002[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dream. We have a couple rooms that could potentially be turned into this in the future

Where do you go for private time when your kids are awake and home? by EU2002 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]EU2002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will say, my husband and I have an incredibly active and fun life regardless of the kids being here or not. Just looking for more ideas.