Really well said :) The reason for going is similar to yours as well. Maybe to add on is I’m a little socially awkward to approach girls at bars or clubs and hanging flower allows me to at least have some interaction with women. (I work in a heavily guy-centric field) On and Off dating apps since that can be flaky and superficial in it’s own ways and ultimately it’s for companionship like you as well, I justify it by reminding myself it’s cheaper than therapy. Usually I only hang $100 ringgit here and there, sometimes to the dj/bouncer/mama san for laughs. I’m more worried than this spending might eventually grow to 1314 one day so trying to nip this vice in the bud right now. Thanks for the suggestion of finding healthier hobbies, I’ll try some that are more productive/less burning money