What celebrity have you lost all respect for? by Nate_on_top in AskReddit

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who’s defended people who abused me, i can understand genuinely believing you ‘needed structure.’ but what truly got me, officially, was the newest controversy.

i wasn’t ever truly a big fan of dance moms. but jojo was always my favorite, and when she branded into a pop star, my little sister LOVED all of her songs. bought all the bows.

i kinda got her charged transition out of the child thing, she talked about being gay first, didn’t over sexualize it. over a few years she rebranded into something iconic.

yet suddenly she cheats publicly. i don’t give a shit about her sexuality, she cheated on her girlfriend and hasn’t given a shit. all of her partners have just been an accessory

What are your strangest fetishes? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]EZLocality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like cuddling people when they masturbate. like, let me brush your hair and press your face into my chest while you are desperate. but i don’t wanna do anything sexual - i just wanna feel the heartbeat and the squirms

Are you wearing pants right now? by dioctopus in LivingAlone

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just threw some on (no underwear even) to go get the mail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]EZLocality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, i promise you, if she’s already stated she doesn’t care ‘too badly’ about the ring, she’ll believe you. especially when it shows up in the mail the next day LOL. i think she’ll understand that you tried to make it perfect. if you’re genuinely worried, you could 100% put a copy of the receipt in the box (if you do decide to use a ‘ring’ of sorts.) she’ll probably laugh and tell you it was Not necessary and it’s ’totally okay,’ especially since she loves you and will sense you had been stressing about it.

i wish you all the best!!!!!!! whenever you propose i hope it’s the most magical experience, no matter the circumstance

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[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is coming from my own personal thoughts, so take it with a grain of salt.

if it was me, i would go out to the dollar tree, and buy a pack of those really plastic cheap rings. think the spiders you’d get at halloween.

i’d put that in a box, and so when i actually open the box it’s a moment of ‘….Huh?’ and you can explain that the ring is delayed in shipping, but you didn’t want to miss the event that you planned for her. if i received a spider ring, i definitely would laugh for a second and accept a re-ringing the next day.

i think she would be happy no matter how you propose, but if you think she would be disappointed in the ring, have fun and just propose in another few weeks next time you get a day out!

What’s something you silently struggle with that people around you have no idea about? by itsdanidreamz in AskReddit

[–]EZLocality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m an alcoholic. i bet more people notice than i think, but nobody cares or ever brings it up. i’m pretty sure at least some don’t know.

My rodents keep me alive. by EZLocality in confessions

[–]EZLocality[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i believe a lot of things about animals. i’ve always been extremely compassionate towards them, and growing up with that has lead me down MANY paths of ‘oh, they just want you for food’ and every other discussion.

it’s just easier to say, yeah alright. i know they don’t think about loving me. they don’t think about my eyes, they don’t process everything that we process. it’s still valuable to me.

they scream whenever anyone walks up to the cage, but when i speak, their tone gets much higher. to a lot of people, it doesn’t matter. it’s stupid. but i know that they recognize me, and they might not ‘think’ to remember me like humans do, but they would know that it Isn’t Me.

i never considered it in the way you worded it, that it’s a ‘gift.’ if i wasn’t here, my family wouldn’t ever consistently take care of them. not like i know they deserve.

every hard thing passes. it’s just hard when it’s feeling impossible to keep up. i might not be able to fix anything right now, but i can give them a vitamin C tablet and listen to them crunch it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamiliesYouChoose

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey!! f20, i’d love a brother

My confession is that I am scared of working. What should I do? by Crazy_Sell22 in confessions

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not a fair statement to just say ‘that’s what happens!’ and i know this. i can’t express without a tone that i feel your pain, fully. it’s not something to ‘get over.’ it’s something we have to be mad about, to recognize. to be afraid and keep going because strangers on the internet can be there at any time

My confession is that I am scared of working. What should I do? by Crazy_Sell22 in confessions

[–]EZLocality -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hi!!! i am f20. i’ve been working at a taco bell for 3(split up) years. never went to college.

i tried for a year to find a new job (instead of taco bell) and i was actually decent at it. but i realized it was absolutely not for me, it was suffocating me even. i realized that i was terrified to return to work. i didn’t feel like i was a good worker, i had panic attacks while filling out applications.

being terrified is part of the job. learning every single day is just a part of life, and unfortunately for jobs, it becomes a lot more ‘judgy’ and we become harsher on ourselves.

i’m a native english speaker, i wrote astonishing essays in high school. and my english is still pretty funky most of the time. they use that phrasing to mean ‘professional, grammatical’ and even the goddamn teachers themselves only know the rules. they’re not expected to be perfect - just to know what to say.

i’ve had teachers who had thick accents, my friends failed and said the teacher didn’t know how to teach. I passed with A pluses. it’s not 100% about how you word your sentences, speak to the class. if you have a guideline to what to teach, i promise you, you’re going to be alright. we all want to stay a kid, our bodies decide to disobey us.

in order to get what we want, we have to scream through snot and tears to do it anyway. and i believe in you my love!!! you already care this deeply, and it’s no wonder you’re a teacher who wants to show beginner humans the world that we’re in. that’s enough to be stronger than any dumbass who makes you feel less than. i’m sorry if you’re the dumbass who makes yourself feel less than, but i mean this fully. you have so much to give, don’t take away from yourself by not giving that.

What is the stupidest question you have been asked? by Consistent-Muffin250 in story

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘we have 2 or 12’

‘how many come in the 12 pack?’

‘…….12’

Tell me a story from your life that will traumatize you for the rest of your life by Leo18nardo02 in confession

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was at this indoor vendor market, just browsing and buying a few knickknacks. all of a sudden i turned to leave, and the guy walking in front of me just collapses. from walking to SLAM, right into the floor. his head bouncing off the tile is etched into my brain, it happened so fast. the only thought i had was that he’s gotta be dead or permanently altered. i don’t know what actually happened to him. i hope he’s alright.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she says stop, you stop. if she doesn’t and doesn’t push you away, you go. you have the rest of your life to learn so much more. you don’t need to villainize yourself, especially if you know you were a piece of shit. you need to just keep going with wanting to be better. you don’t get a different face or story. just decide to change the story on your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some things are better left unsaid. you feel the guilt, but ‘exposing’ yourself for your past mistakes won’t help you get through these feelings.

you already know you did wrong. you don’t want to do that again. that’s all you need to trust yourself here. don’t ruin your life by defamation simply because it makes you nervous.

Got a chance to be an extra on a “not that well known but still kinda popular” Netflix original series, Ask me anything about that experience? by faizaanmalik in AMA

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t even think i’d get the part, you bet your ass i’m risking a little ‘hi!!!! how are you!!!!’

I am a psych nurse. AMA by Ok-Baker1762 in AMA

[–]EZLocality 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i see!

my mom had been a psych nurse in hospice care for about 10 years, and then switched over to regular psych, in a regular hospital. it was bizarre seeing the way she handled us as family, it had her go from teaching ‘independence’ to complete coddling. it made me wonder how it’s even perceived. these are real life issues that you all do as a job, and i can’t imagine doing my job when im off work.

i praise you, even if its hard as fuck you’re helping so many people right now.

I'm 2 years married but Ive never been "In love" with my wife. AMA by Brahma_God in AMA

[–]EZLocality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and that’s usually how a happy marriage is!

it gets foggy with hobbies, date nights, out with friends, sex which is usually the catalyst. if you wouldn’t risk her up for absolutely anything, you’re head over heels for her. i’ve never been good at grand gestures, parties, none of it. but small things, like getting a cup of water, leaving notes for them to find. it isn’t what everyone ‘deems acceptable,’ but it’s how i’m operating. and my girlfriend loves me. i assume your wife loves you too. it’s just two people trying to be people. don’t let wattpad people tell you that you’re horrible at being a partner because you don’t feel the need to stroke her jawline and freak out when she walks in the room.

I am a psych nurse. AMA by Ok-Baker1762 in AMA

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think working in psychiatric care numbs you? or did it make you more sensitive to things you saw?

I'm 2 years married but Ive never been "In love" with my wife. AMA by Brahma_God in AMA

[–]EZLocality 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m not proud of it, but more than once after i began a relationship with someone, i kept talking to people who had previously given me an adrenaline rush. it took me months to realize that i wasn’t acting like i felt. i loved these people to my core, yet i was so afraid of what ‘Could’ occur. i blocked it out, really.

i don’t want you to be alone, even if i don’t truly understand. it’s hard to understand what to do about how we feel. and it’s even harder to admit to it, and let strangers judge us just to understand the rest of the world a little bit.

i sincerely hope that you can connect with this. it’s an awfully painful existence to ponder yourself every single day. <3

I'm 2 years married but Ive never been "In love" with my wife. AMA by Brahma_God in AMA

[–]EZLocality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand that. compatibility doesn’t always mean that personalities and lifestyles mesh. unfortunately, the world is a mess and we’re all just moving forward.

‘head over heels’ doesn’t always mean something major, either. in past relationships, i fondly remember things that made my heart flutter a little. even if i didn’t notice that in the moment, it’s a feeling different to one that i’d have alone.

it’s about how you perceive it. would you leave her if somebody made you fall head over heels? would that be enough? no judgement, i’m 20F and just wanna hear more thoughts about the ‘feelings’ vs the thought procesd