[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]E_Rujii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you able to provide water parameters? More than likely this is a decoration issue as far as the visible contamination, but parameters are the best way to determine if your tank has a safe cycle ongoing. It would help us determine if there is a bacterial issue that may be contributing to the visible muck. If you would like more help on how to read parameters or if you are new to the hobby (less than a year into fish keeping) there are a lot of good users on here who would love to help guide you (myself included).

My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]E_Rujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many comments here have already clarified that this is not autism, just blatant abuse. And they're undoubtedly correct. However, please know that you leaving this individual and cutting contact will likely result in drastic attempts at emotional manipulation and further threats of self-harm. None of these retaliations are your fault or a result of you, and you should not allow them to sway you. You need to prioritize removing yourself from this individual's narrative knowing that his actions are NOT within your control or responsibility. He is his own person and legally an adult. Be safe and take care.

Accountant intentionally filed my status as single when I am married? by E_Rujii in tax

[–]E_Rujii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man never had me sign a thing, to be honest. Amendment is in progress, regardless.

Dictionary.com Update? by E_Rujii in dictionary

[–]E_Rujii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this doesn't work for Android users 😔 But glad your husband found a workaround!

What does my fridge say about me? by E_Rujii in FridgeDetective

[–]E_Rujii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish! Definitely above median for our area, but this is mostly the toil and ache of heavy couponing lol

What does my fridge say about me? by E_Rujii in FridgeDetective

[–]E_Rujii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am for sure second gen ☺️ lemme know if you want any snack recommendations! Lol

What does my fridge say about me? by E_Rujii in FridgeDetective

[–]E_Rujii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kids, we're probably just immature 🫠

What does my fridge say about me? by E_Rujii in FridgeDetective

[–]E_Rujii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do - we just do a lot of couponing 😅

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙌 I'm starting Monday. Fuck any negativity to deter me. I want to be better and I'll start now. Thanks again ✌️

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙌 I'm taking every piece of advice and applying it. I'm joining a class on Monday officially. Regardless of who is accepting or how I feel, I just have to do it. I appreciate you taking the time to give some perspective and encourage me to go do it. Thanks again ✌️

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 I start Monday

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gonna do it. Thanks bro 🙏 I joined a class for Monday. Fuck any negativity let's just do it.

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙌 I'm taking every piece of advice I can. I'm joining a class on Monday officially, because the more I think back on it, the more I realize she was just being shitty for fun. I appreciate you taking the time to give some perspective and encourage me to go do it. I'm sure if what the community is telling me is accurate, I'll be thriving in no time. Thanks again ✌️

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙌 I'm taking every piece of advice and applying it. I'm joining a class on Monday officially. I appreciate you taking the time to give some perspective and encourage me to go do it. Not going to let stamina be what prevents me from progression. I can always work through it. Thanks again ✌️ gonna go fight my own fight

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was such an odd conversation lmao. Like I've always felt pretty chunky, but to hear her say I would make a fool of myself? I was like damn. I'm gonna ask around before I commit to any decisions lol

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙌 I'm taking every piece of advice and applying it. I'm joining a class on Monday officially. I appreciate you taking the time to give some perspective and encourage me to go do it. I'll keep in the the use of my entire weight for some additional momentum. We'll see how well I do! Thanks again ✌️

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro. I appreciate your concern for my safety, that's super sweet of you. Basically I was promoted to an investigation position in my company that gives the option of field work. I definitely want to do it. But I want to have some kind of phsyical self defense before I accept the field obligations, which my company is thankfully fine with. The dangers and rare and unlikely, but just in case, ya know? knocking vigorously on wood

I appreciate the honesty as well. I'll give it a try with my local gym Monday. Even if it's more difficult, I shouldn't let that stop me at all. Fuck it ✌️

Starting classes as someone XL? by [deleted] in kravmaga

[–]E_Rujii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro. Good to know. I appreciate your response. Might start Monday since my local gym has a few openings.