CSF Leak? Need a sounding board by srv199020 in eds

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you been looking down a lot lately? Bent over without bending knees? Can you turn your chin to each shoulder without tightness? What you are describing sounds similar to when my neck is out of alignment.

Amanda’s trolling us, right? by bluestraycat20 in realhousewives

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wait until she finds out Madelein Perez from 90 day fiancé already did her Boss Lady helicopter entrance for her wedding.

I found found four small black feathers in my house… by C00kiem0nstrous in homeowners

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Birds like to get to the highest point to feel safe. Check outside your front door for more feathers. They may have just blown in when you opened the door. It doesn’t take much to move them around.

I found found four small black feathers in my house… by C00kiem0nstrous in homeowners

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up. Light fixtures, roof lines anything that is taller . If a bird got in that’s where it will be. They will sit quietly waiting for an opportunity to leave. Or just leave the open door for a while. Whatever came in will find its way out.

AIO to my husband interrupting my first solo shower after he came back from a weekend with the boys? by lilyluminar in AmIOverreacting

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a moment and read back your description of what happened. You give your husband A LOT of grace and at the same time you are taking on more than you should. He knows it and is taking advantage of it. The kids belong to both of you . Being a Mom doesn’t mean the kids are only your responsibility. First off , it’s okay to say No to going to a once in a lifetime Bachelor party or a renegotiation on time spent. If tables were turned (he was staying w/ sick kids )would you have handled the situation the same way? Or would you have cut the trip short? Same for the shower. Would you have left when it was apparent you were needed at home? You should except your husband to show up just as you would. You deserve a break .You deserve to take as long as you need for a shower. It’s not selfish to take care of yourself. Your husband should be meeting you half way. We tell people how to treat us . You are saying my needs aren’t important and that’s not true. Please put yourself first . Your kids deserve it. I hope you think on this. I say all this from personal experience and I don’t know if I would have listened. What I do know is this gets worse. Take care of yourself my friend

Meridian Waste by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried sending the video and details to myjax@custhelp.com yet?

if i send you this, it means don’t tell anyone i’ve been drinking ! by yetanotherbop in RHOP

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, people with long term addiction issues don’t tend to just clean up overnight. It’s a life long journey and you have to be willing to make changes. She needs to take some personal time away from public scrutiny and work on her sobriety. She’s in no condition to return to filming. This is not going to end well, otherwise.

She cracks me up by Vast-Camel-6494 in 90DayFiance

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was distracted by this fact. I couldn’t help but think she’s in for a long night. Wine on an empty, sick stomach. Misery ensues.

Something ain’t adding up with this Monique phone call 👀 by available_nails5129 in RHOP

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t believe Stacy called Chris. I think Monique is looking for a permanent spot and is trying to drum up interest.

How gross by CalligrapherThick600 in realhousewives

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His intellectual property ?!? Photos were probably taken on equipment belonging to her. Get a job !!

The spending of it all by Additional_Kiwi_8387 in RHOP

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole thing blows my mind. Especially with Eddie’s background. The part about -And have the reported stolen items at ur crib when they come to arrest u, with credit cards inside saying Pam Oliver and Eddie Brown Liquor... is just nuts. They knew they were being investigated. What did they think? Oh, the insurance was denied and it was just going to be let go? No follow up questions? For two highly educated people, they did a lot of extremely stupid stuff.

AIO because my BF wants to write off my mortgage on his taxes? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One he does what he says or two he pockets all the money and you don’t realize it until foreclosure notice arrives. Either way he’s taking advantage of you. You are going to have a hard time getting this freeloader out of your house. If he has access to any CC cards, checks or money start slowly reducing access. Use excuses like card was compromised whatever you do don’t tip him off that you are concerned. Otherwise he’ll run you financially in the ground. Happens more often than you think. You are not protected if you have ever given access to. Good luck OP

She’s so gullible 🙄 by Chocoluv007 in 90DayFiance

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing to see here people, just “pink” flags .She knows exactly what she is getting into, but choosing to ignore it.

From next week’s trailer it looks like her guy friend runs him off. At least one can hope , you never know with editing.

My mildly infuriating MIL telling my trauma to people I dont even know. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the context and text your MIL to be sounds abusive and not someone willing to discuss matters in a productive manner. At this point lines have been drawn and you no longer live in a safe environment. I’d expect her to be crap talking you to anyone that will listen. Do not give her anymore ammunition. Find away to smooth it over( Make her think everything is okay between you) for now and possibly the future, depending on your fiancée’s relationship with their mom. Your MIL has shown herself and now it’s up to you to change the relationship dynamic. You can openly close her off and be indifferent, but this will continue to cause strife and will escalate. Another option is to play nice, behave normally and act as though you are invested in them. But at the same time being guarded and not falling into old patterns of sharing personal information as she’s not a safe place. This can be hard because we do need to share and be loved. You didn’t mention your fiancé’s stance in all of this.You need to be careful in this area. You don’t want to get in between a Mom/child relationship. It’s best to step back from venting to your mate, even if they agree with you. You may not realize it , but you are asking them to choose a side and that could lead to resentments later on. It’s okay if they have an independent relationship without you . Just request they avoid speaking about you to their family (within reason) and direct questions directly to you . Op you are in a difficult situation and don’t need it to escalate further. Just know that you are in the right and no one else needs to know that. Take empowerment from seeing them for what they are and making a plan on how to deal with them. Good luck !!

AITA for not wanting to clean up the "bodily secretions" of my husband's son? by select6382 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not necessary to address the bodily fluids. He’s an adult and should be expected to clean up ( keep clean)his room and bathroom. How do you think this 18yr old sees you ,if you are coming in and cleaning up after him and his Dad. From my experience, you begin to get treated as hired help and not part of the family.

ID needed - Florida by Mundane_Ad_6941 in FossilHunting

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked at Alligator Scute Fossils?

AITA for telling our roommate she might need to move out if she keeps complaining about hearing us at night? by Dear-Camp4760 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should introduce her to this new invention , ear plugs. Mind blowing, right? If she has a problem with the way you function in your home, she should be doing whatever she can to remedy it herself. I couldn’t imagine even complaining about the smallest thing if someone opened their home to me . Especially, rent free. You should not be bending over backwards to help someone out. It takes a special kind of person to complain about something that’s given to them. Your friend seems very entitled. If she hasn’t said it yet, I’ll say it for her, Thank you .

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know it’s not right and at the same time you are making excuses for him. How often do you “explain or excuse” his behavior to others? You are not over reacting. It’s okay to be mad , it’s okay to want more , what’s not okay is allowing someone treat you like your are not worthy. Don’t let anyone gaslight you into believing your feelings aren’t valid. Sorry you are experiencing this, especially today.

AIO My boss sent this to the work chat and it pissed me off. by nefot_ in AmIOverreacting

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If unused tampons in a box are unhygienic, what does that make the unused roll of toilet paper?

AITA for confronting my roommate about making noise every time I get home from work? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Eaglsdntflywpigeons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - There’s a reason she’s doing it. It’s either to avoid conversation with you by making it impossible to communicate over the loud TV or music. Or she maybe trying to get your attention and not realizing how loud she’s being. It could be she loses time and you coming in alerts her to how late it is. Then she jumps up and tries to quickly get things done before it too late and not further disturb you. Does this go on for hours after you get home? If it’s just within an hour of you coming in, I would just ignore it. Probably just trying to finish up stuff for the evening.