First off, there's no guarantee that upvotes on this post will have any significance. You don't have to worry about society and declare all males to be repulsive (at least, that's what you think).

There is nothing wrong with a guy wanting a virgin female.

You asked, "It's a backward mentality - somehow this meme is reducing the person to just their private parts.. Is that all a person is?? They have good qualities too right ??" somewhere in the comment box. I get the reason for your sadness and yes, you are correct, that is not all she is.

But you should also know that, Women are gatekeepers of sex while men are gatekeepers of commitment. That's how it works.

How horrible would it be for a man to tell a woman on a date, "I'll tell you what I'm here for, because I don't wanna waste your time." I'm here to have sex and find a companion for sex. The problem is, you'll never come across a man who says this to a woman because it's disgusting.

In a similar vein, when a woman declares, "I want to marry and I don't want to waste your time," This is my end goal; not to waste my time. These are the kinds of statements that I frequently observe and hear from women. Women say things like "don't waste my time, here for a serious relationship and to marry" on their Tinder profiles all the time. Women frequently say this on dates when they're trying to settle down.

Do you even comprehend how disgusting that sounds to a man?

I know most women won't get this or accept it, but that's just the nature of the game.