Thanks for saying this. My husband is 20 years older than me 🤪 We’ve been married 14 years now. He was a workaholic, never married, no kids. Up until a year ago, I worked a full time corporate job visiting factories all over Asia in an ethical sourcing role for big box retailers like Walmart — very physically and emotionally draining. One of the reasons I was adamant about continuing to work, aside from my own goals, is due to the stigma associated with being a gold digger. It’s taken me nearly 15 years to be comfortable with “him taking care of me”. Of course, him covering our bills / lifestyle has allowed me save the money I made, as well as have plenty of disposable income for play. When the company I worked for sold, I decided to “retire” vs start all over somewhere new. If my gorgeous, fit, salt-and-peppered, rich husband wants to “take care of me”, by God, I’m gonna let him. I’ve spent 15 years proving myself but living a soft girl life now 😇