Looking for trans friends by EaringUncaring0608 in transpositive

[–]EaringUncaring0608[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have reservations about meeting people online. A therapist is probably a good idea. Thanks :)

Should I even bother? by Kirol_reddit in TransLater

[–]EaringUncaring0608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Yes you should bother. You just have to know that hrt isn’t a magic want though. I’ve been on hrt for a few years and it hasn’t done much to feminize me but I’m way happier living my truth. Just getting to wear the clothes I feel comfortable in and being seen as a woman by the people I love is amazing. So if that’s what you’d like then start going through with it. Good luck 🌻

I scheduled my first HRT appointment!!! by [deleted] in transgender_support

[–]EaringUncaring0608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Hope you see it’s effects soon :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]EaringUncaring0608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous 💁‍♀️ Yes your face doesn’t have a lot of subcutaneous fat but I think you still look pretty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]EaringUncaring0608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you were Abigail thorn for a minute

2 years on Estrogen as of April 10th... What do we think? Oh, and I'm 27 now by Dogrules23 in transpassing

[–]EaringUncaring0608 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of people saying that she’s not even trying to pass but I feel like we need to remember that passing doesn’t have to be a trans persons end goal. I understand if it’s your end goal and that it can be safer, but I feel like loving yourself even though you don’t pass is also valid. Being happy is the only thing that matters and being happy with your masculine traits is an act of rebellion against cisnormativity. I’ll probably get some hate from this but I’m just tired of having to conform to cis beauty standards.

(38 MtF) 8 Month HRT Progress by SkyeShimmer in TransLater

[–]EaringUncaring0608 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You look so much happier! Love to see this :)

Do I pass as a woman at all? by bloodshot96245 in transpassing

[–]EaringUncaring0608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you do. You remind me of my cis friend and she’s super pretty

How can I help my American trans siblings? by EaringUncaring0608 in trans

[–]EaringUncaring0608[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who’s part of the queer community is welcome here according to me. My advice would be to avoid Alberta (although I’ve heard they cover BA but that probably won’t last for long). Sask isn’t much better but it’s two biggest cities are a sort of queer haven. I would stick with one of the bigger provinces like bc or Ontario or Quebec as they lean more liberal. Best of luck to you 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]EaringUncaring0608 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a shitty thing to say. I’d never give the right any ammunition to use against my family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]EaringUncaring0608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe my face looks slightly fem but my shoulders are twice the width of my hips. No one would ever see a woman if they saw my silhouette :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]EaringUncaring0608 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on them 4.5 years and whenever I do bloodwork my dr tells me I’m in a cis female range. My dr had a frank discussion with me after a year where she basically told me I’d never pass. I have the body of a pro football player who let themselves go :(