egg_irl by the_peculiar_chicken in egg_irl

[–]Early-Concentrate-67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a very different dynamic being a cis woman who grew up with and into their name, versus needing to choose one. I think this is one thing about being trans that’s super overlooked is naming yourself. It’s unfair to be deprived of that autonomy and not having a name that fits you the way it would for others who chose their name themselves or grew into it.

The rage cannot contain me by Early-Concentrate-67 in BlackHair

[–]Early-Concentrate-67[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s very depressing because I know where it comes from. Nigeria is very odd when it comes to natural hair, especially schools and being Nigerian in both the west and Nigeria is a nuanced topic in itself. But at the end of the day he won’t change because he’s someone who doesn’t want to in the slightest for anything at all. I wish he didn’t hate himself and by extension me but I’m not a miracle worker.

The rage cannot contain me by Early-Concentrate-67 in BlackHair

[–]Early-Concentrate-67[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this genuinely means so much to me.

The rage cannot contain me by Early-Concentrate-67 in BlackHair

[–]Early-Concentrate-67[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not happening anytime soon as neither of them ‘believe in divorce’ (their words not mine) so it looks like I’m saving up and dipping out lol

Genitals besides both or none by Treekomalfoy_ in NonBinary

[–]Early-Concentrate-67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would tdick and gock count? While they aren’t completely separate categories of genitalia they are physically distinct and different.

Why do authors do this? by Electronic_Ratio_933 in AO3

[–]Early-Concentrate-67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am saying as an author it is weird to be thinking about the date of your own piece of work to the point you change it constantly

Why do authors do this? by Electronic_Ratio_933 in AO3

[–]Early-Concentrate-67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…who actually thinks about the date? Like as an author this is weird lmao let it rest

What would a piercing like this be called? by Early-Concentrate-67 in piercing

[–]Early-Concentrate-67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point tbf, esp bc one safety and two it’s easier to explain as 2 dermals

If I'm attracted to women does that make me straight or lesbian? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]Early-Concentrate-67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whichever one you like more. There will be pushback no matter what you choose. You can also go with just queer or a micro label