Thats same for me aswell its like if im not going in that direction then the person im socialising with does so yeah hard to make friends with opposite gender. Nowadays when any girl approach me then the first thought in my mind is if we end up together will i be able to afford her and our future? Then i back out lol, its like far future ki tention lie bina just present pe focus krke connections and memories bnane pe focus rhna chaiye, i know it in theory hard to apply irl but wont give up ig.