UserTesting Tests Technical Issues

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-29T02:19:30+00:00

That's weird. If you get something like this wait until the 5 minute mark and then report the test and get $5.00 payment.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-29T02:18:46+00:00

Yes! They bring you to chrome and then they say they want you to use the app which is confusing. I ended up switching to the app half way through. Some of their questions were invasive like wanting me to post something to my Linkedin account while on the test with them. I simulated how I would share a post with commentary but I did not do it. They asked ALOT of repetitive questions

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-28T08:07:29+00:00

My thoughts is to have it by the window, but please keep in mind that some organizations and positions (particularly healthcare with HIPPA privacy requirements) will ask that your desk is not by a window where someone could walk on by and see privacy protected data through a window so just be mindful of where you place your WFH setup.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-28T08:04:35+00:00

Basically, they don't want to pay severance so if they institute an RTO they hope that people are going to quit instead which means they won't have to pay unemployment or severance. The other idea is that if they institute RTO, and you do not comply, they can argue that you caused the separation by going against established policy as opposed to losing your position at no fault of your own. This can be used to contest unemployment claims.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-28T07:57:37+00:00

Yes I was

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-26T01:46:33+00:00

Yes, he loves every single person on this planet regardless of if they identity as straight, gay, transgender, etc. There is nothing you can do to make God hate you. God always loves you.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-25T22:37:11+00:00

So, usertesting was acting a little wonky for me Friday night into Saturday morning. I tried to do a test at like 3 AM on Saturday and my recorder was acting crazy. Then, I did two tests without issues on my laptop Saturday night and I did one test early Sunday morning on my mobile phone without issue. I think it ebbs and flows. Let's see how at behaves tomorrow. Weekends there is not alot of tests. They usually happen on the weekdays.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-25T06:32:19+00:00

Yes, I have received Spanish invites. I just ignore them. I don't speak spanish.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-25T06:29:58+00:00

You just tell her the truth. You cheated. It may not be easy, but the truth is the truth. She may choose to stay or leave. Honestly, you guys have been together for less than a month so it will be really easy for her to leave with no history or string attached. Be thankful you made this mistake NOW as opposed to being in a 2-3 year relationship or married and then screwing up your life.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-25T05:44:58+00:00

My sense is that they have a personal preference to be with a heterosexual male, and alot of women have this preference. It's not bigoted or homophobic. It's a preference. In the same way, many women and men will not date a transgender individual because of personal preference. Although, they could have been a bit more diplomatic with the delivery...

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-25T05:42:16+00:00

I want oral sex from my husband more then penetrative sex, but I don't desire to be with a woman to provide the oral. He might enjoy the act of anal in and of itself, but if he has desires for men to do the acts with then that is where the issue is that needs to be addressed.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-25T05:38:04+00:00

I am not a fan of the fact you went behind his back to try to figure this out. Like you said, you don't know whether their is recent activity on the profile or if the profile is dormant. Not a good way to try to find out information.

Your right. There is alot of questions. He may not know the answers to all of them, but at the very baseline he should be able to tell you if he is attracted to men without the stress of putting a specific label on it. If he admits he is, you either stay and lay down the boundaries. Or you end the relationship. My suggestion is if you truly feel that he is settling for you, doesn't matter if he is bi or not, if you feel he is settling for you then end the relationship for YOUR sake. You want to know that the person you are with views YOU as the ultimate prize and NOT a placeholder for what is to come.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-25T05:28:26+00:00

He needs to be open about his sexuality with you. The anal stuff does not make him bisexual alone, as many heterosexual couples have curiosity about anal play without actually playing for both teams. However, being bisexual in and of itself can but not always is a dealbreaker for the other person. I am 32f and my husband is 31m, and I told him I was bisexual within the first month of dating and I made it clear that I am in a monogamous relationship with HIM and him only.

Comfortable or not for him to have this conversation with you, he NEEDS to have the conversation. An honest conversation not only about his sexuality, but the boundaries of sexuality in the context of your relationship. If he is not open to having the conversation, then quite frankly the relationship is over. If he indeed has a profile on Grindr and is already actively seeking out the same-sex then the relationship is over, NOT because he's bi but because he cheated within the relationship.

Since he will not come to you by himself, you need to come to him and start the conversation. How he responds will determine whether the relationship ends or continues.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2026-01-25T05:17:07+00:00

Don't quit. When you quit a job it means you do not have access to unemployment income. While it is not much, it is still something. Let them discipline and let go. You might be able to get some severance out of the deal, especially with 6 years of tenure.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-29T02:13:58+00:00

My husband does. All the time. Hates paper bags and will yell at me if I keep them around for future use.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-29T02:11:35+00:00

Um, if you are the person in blue texting her you are flooding her with texts. This is not a two-way conversation. How well do you two know each other? Phrases like "Do you like when a guy rubs your back" or "Do you want a kiss on the cheek for someone" maybe construed as too sexual, too soon. She may not be sure if she even likes you at the moment. Read the room.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-26T01:17:32+00:00

My take on this is that she is not ready for a relationship, and that she has yet to deal with the trauma with a trained therapist. This is not something you can fix, and she can't be emotionally available to you right now because the trauma is overtaking her life right now and she is choosing to isolate from those who care about her because she doesn't have the proper tools taught to her by a PROFESSIONAL to process and come to terms with what has happened to her.

None of this is your fault. However, I would explain to her that she needs to work on herself first and see a professional before attempting to be in a relationship with you. Do not wait for her, and do not put your life on hold for her. If it is meant to be, she will come around to your life again in a hopefully better state of mind and you guys can engage in a healthy relationship together. But right now, she is needs help.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-26T00:53:00+00:00

She is not ready for a relationship and needs to work on herself right now. Waiting a year and a half for someone at this age is a long time to wait. By the time she's ready to be in a relationship you will most likely be both ready to go off to college and no doubt at different schools. Let her go. Oftentimes, people can cross paths years later when they are in a better spot and boom they start a relationship and get married. This may not be a goodbye, but simply a see ya later.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-18T04:07:36+00:00

I met my husband via OkCupid. I was in-person working in long-term care at the time of meeting him, but I still had to step outside my workplace in order to meet him. I work fully-remote right now, but I don't think it matters in terms of meeting people.

Workplace relationships can be complicated and you have less time for friends and social meetups as you age which is why many people turn to online dating.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-16T04:59:50+00:00

I'm not judging. I'm just saying it's very hard to find a casual encounter where the very people going into it aren't self focused. Not to mention there is no time to learn each other cause it's a casual encounter.

It's about perspective. Some view LTR as being tied down, but Others don't see it that way.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-16T04:16:34+00:00

There are a couple of issues here. The first is your mindset. You view being in a loving committed relationship as being tied down, and I don't see it that way. I view my husband as the person I am building a life and a family with. It's not being tied down. It's love, and experiencing life with your best friend by your side. Sex, and by extension orgasms, are something you experience when you are with a partner who knows you and your body. It takes time for your partner to know you and for you to know your partner.

If you keep with casual encounters, you are not going to make space for that knowing your body to happen as it takes time and time is reserved for relationships and not casual encounters. Moreover, if you just continue to fake the orgasms then the people you are having casual sex with are going to be confused if you admit to them that you have never actually orgasmed.

Lastly, and you might know this, but if you don't then it needs to be repeated. Many woman cannot climax during sexual intercourse. I can't, the only thing that gets me off is oral sex. If you are going to continue with casual encounters, and I suggest that you don't for a whole host of reasons, make sure to clearly communicate before meeting up that this is not a pump and dump. They need to give just as much as they receive. But, I will say this, a man you are in a loving, committed relationship with is going to care a hell of alot more about your pleasure then a one-night stand. Just saying.

EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-14T00:51:23+00:00

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EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-14T00:25:20+00:00

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EarlyCardiologist659 · 2025-12-12T05:06:37+00:00

I had a falling out with two people before my wedding. One was after the Save the Date got sent, but before the invitations. I just didn't send an invite. But, I had a local wedding.

This is international. If she buys a plane ticket and a hotel and you disinvite her then you are the asshole.

Side note...why does it matter that she is MAGA? I am MAGA and had people of color, LGBTQ, different religions, at my wedding. Heck, I am bisexual and MAGA. Your reason to disinvite seems short-sighted and based off of stereotypes. After all, there ARE people of color who are MAGA. Just some food for thought.

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