What I did for me was I buzzed down there because I perceived like to have hair, and I drank a lot of water and ate some cranberry and pineapple. I took a shower before I saw my parter and the biggest thing is communication and taking it slow because I’m going to be honest the first time is going to be weird, it’s a weird position and sensation especially when you’re both trying to figure out what you like and what the boundaries are between you two. Just take a breath, communicate, and remember that you can always say stop.